Topic: Men, I will help you if you ask...
docburneraz's photo
Fri 05/09/08 09:26 AM


What if it's you? :wink:


Can't be me...i am WIDOWED! :wink: bigsmile


forever_fifties...Your headline should not even include MEN...unless you like sharing LOL

Change "Men" to "MAN" and itwill be ok...

Got to get the marine corp logo off the main pic...it is nice for inside...Military service is very attractive and honorable to most women, However, don't use it as bait. Use yourself...it is YOU you are trying to sell...not the Marine Corp.

Pick one of the closeups of you smiling.

"First no widows; they cannot make up their minds whether they want to date or not and I imagine they'd be forever comparing me to their dearly departed" Wow, at your age, you might miss out on some great women! I am widow...a good friend of mine on here is also widow...I would nix that if I were you...unless you are definaltly sure all widows fit that profile.

The rest of your profile description seems Great...you give a lot of detail about who you are and what you are looking for and what you like to do.

Good Luck
US MARINES 99.99 percent need NOT applydrinker

lilangel2's photo
Fri 05/09/08 09:30 AM
Edited by lilangel2 on Fri 05/09/08 09:32 AM

Seems obvious you are telling everyone what you want to see or hear from them on their profile... and you also seem to think you're speaking for ALL women as you say "women like that" a lot in these post.

Just food for thought.... have ya even considered that some woman don't want or aren't going to like the same things you do?

My advice to all these guys is to keep your profiles just the way they are if they reflect who you really are and what you're looking for.... why would you change your profile to what this one gal would like to see if it doesn't truly reflect who you are? Seems to me we should show who we are and hopefully that will attract the woman that will like who we are.... isn't that the point of all of this? lol

And yes, I'm gonna leave the shower pic on my profile because I'm a singing in the shower type of guy.... and some will get the humor of that pic I think.... lol


Well I am giving my suggestions per what you are saying you are wanting to find...nothing says you have to take my suggestions,now does it? I certainly am not an authority...doing this for fun mainly...but also trying to sincerely help. I think most men are smart enough that if they read a suggestion i make and it clicks to them...they will accept it...if it doesn't click they won't...pretty simple, huh? :smile:

PS and if they were successful already , they shouldn't be asking for help :wink:

lilangel2's photo
Fri 05/09/08 09:34 AM


Poor dear men...I will help you if you ask...I see so many of you with profiles that just suck...pics that suck...no way you will get a girl...you need HELP! I will be brutally honest to help you catch the girl of your dreams...just let me know to look at your profile and I will scrutinize it when I have time and make some suggestions for you. bigsmile
Already have all the women I can handle. Now its time for quality instead of quantity.:wink:


If you got rid of the QUANTITY you might get the QUALITY LMAO bigsmile laugh bigsmile laugh bigsmile

lilangel2's photo
Fri 05/09/08 09:38 AM

thx:wink:


rayden...Your headline is fine...short but says alot!

I like the pic of you in the red hat the most...you are smiling and look approachable.

You make it clear you are looking for friends...that is fine...you might want to tell more of what you like to do, hobbies ...types of music...sports etc...

Have fun!:smile:

LookinForSparks's photo
Fri 05/09/08 09:39 AM
Hehehe.... I didn't ask for help, but ya gave it anyway, didn't you?

It's all good darlin, but seriously, I think one of the reasons a lot of people have trouble dating and finding the right person is due in large part because people tend to "put on a show" with what they think other's might want to see, rather than just being them selves and attracting someone that actually likes them for who they are. Lord I do know that a lot of women will NOT be attracted to me or like who I am and that I'll rub a lot of people the wrong way, or they might think I'm a pervert, or a whole slew of things they might not like bout me... and that's perfectly fine, I'm only looking for one who gets me and likes the way I am anyway, so I for one choose to just put the "real me" right out there for everyone to see and HOPEFULLY by doing so, I'll attract a person who actually likes who I am, rather than attracting someone who's got a false impression of who I am because I'm painting an image based on someone's notion of what "most women" want.... see what I mean?

lilangel2's photo
Fri 05/09/08 09:39 AM

Poor dear men...I will help you if you ask...I see so many of you with profiles that just suck...pics that suck...no way you will get a girl...you need HELP! I will be brutally honest to help you catch the girl of your dreams...just let me know to look at your profile and I will scrutinize it when I have time and make some suggestions for you. bigsmile


This is for FUN only...if you are a prude, don't participate drinker bigsmile

rayden11's photo
Fri 05/09/08 09:41 AM
thank youglasses

lilangel2's photo
Fri 05/09/08 09:42 AM

Hehehe.... I didn't ask for help, but ya gave it anyway, didn't you?

It's all good darlin, but seriously, I think one of the reasons a lot of people have trouble dating and finding the right person is due in large part because people tend to "put on a show" with what they think other's might want to see, rather than just being them selves and attracting someone that actually likes them for who they are. Lord I do know that a lot of women will NOT be attracted to me or like who I am and that I'll rub a lot of people the wrong way, or they might think I'm a pervert, or a whole slew of things they might not like bout me... and that's perfectly fine, I'm only looking for one who gets me and likes the way I am anyway, so I for one choose to just put the "real me" right out there for everyone to see and HOPEFULLY by doing so, I'll attract a person who actually likes who I am, rather than attracting someone who's got a false impression of who I am because I'm painting an image based on someone's notion of what "most women" want.... see what I mean?


No one is asking you not to be the real you...but the real you in a sideways pic and the real you in a front on pic can have two different effects. All I suggested was that the main pic be one that is clear, not of an animal, preferably smiling (if you even smile)...just simple little suggestions.

lilangel2's photo
Fri 05/09/08 09:49 AM

You mean

"Self Centered Poor Listener With Bad Combover Desires Subserviant Sex Parter With Excellent Domestic Skills"

doesn't work?noway


Beachfarmer...your headline made me laugh...that is a good thing...if you can't say anything profound, say something funny :D

Your main pic is fine...some men can pull off not smiling.

You have alot of other pics on your profile which is good.

Mentioning you smoke tells you are honest and adds a bit of imformation that might be important to some.
Mentioning the water bed would be in poor taste if you didn't do it with such humor. It made me laugh....

You conveyed alot about yourself but you might want to add a few details of what you are looking for in a companion.

Have fun! drinker

LookinForSparks's photo
Fri 05/09/08 09:52 AM
It's not a side ways pic darlin... it's simply an overhead shot of me in the shower. I see the gals on these sites taking those over head pics of them selves all the time because it shows off their boobs and hides their bellies.... and I get you don't get the humor of that pic or how it tells someone a little about my real personality, but the right person will get it.... lol

But I just had to comment about you keep on saying it's a "side ways" pic... it's not, it's just the camera view from above me... lol

lilangel2's photo
Fri 05/09/08 09:54 AM

laugh laugh laugh


bigsmile I'm gonna do you anyways bigsmile

codelockbox...I really like your headline...it is sweet.

Your main picture is fine. Would be nice if you smiled, but it is a good closup shot and you look approachable.
Somewhat boyish...which is a good thang.

WOW you are TALL!

I think your profile is fine for "Friends Only".

Have Fun

lilangel2's photo
Fri 05/09/08 09:57 AM

It's not a side ways pic darlin... it's simply an overhead shot of me in the shower. I see the gals on these sites taking those over head pics of them selves all the time because it shows off their boobs and hides their bellies.... and I get you don't get the humor of that pic or how it tells someone a little about my real personality, but the right person will get it.... lol

But I just had to comment about you keep on saying it's a "side ways" pic... it's not, it's just the camera view from above me... lol


Poor thang...I have really offended you havn't I?/ LOL Didn't mean to at all...I said yours was fine for what you are looking for...but what I meant by sidewise pic is that you have to turn your head sidways to actually see your face...which is what most people , I think, want to see...I have other pics myself and sometimes thorw them up on main pic for fun...like my smiling foot pic...

lilangel2's photo
Fri 05/09/08 10:03 AM

I think I am about due for a tune-up or a lube. Is this a free 20 point inspection? drinker


Ok, 1956 deluxe...the headline is fine...it says alot about you and your age group...
The car pic is beautiful, but I wouldn't keep it as a main pic. Never use a motorized vehicle to
attract women...use yourself...it is you they are interested in, not your car...or at least you want a woman that
is interested in you, don't you? The one of you in sunglasses looks like a nice pic. The one with the spikes in the head would not attract
people in your age group, I don't think.

LOVED the way you did your description! Very Unique and descriptive. You might want to add more of what you are looking for in a woman.

But nice profile.
Have Fun!drinker

lilangel2's photo
Fri 05/09/08 10:10 AM


Poor dear men...I will help you if you ask...I see so many of you with profiles that just suck...pics that suck...no way you will get a girl...you need HELP! I will be brutally honest to help you catch the girl of your dreams...just let me know to look at your profile and I will scrutinize it when I have time and make some suggestions for you. bigsmile




damn...................i need some help too...i cant find that military and noral guy....and im goin nuts



I can do women too LOL laugh


whtsugar2008 ...How about changing the headline to "Somewhere over the Rainbow..."

Very nice pic...you are not smiling but you look seductivley sweet...I think men like that...
Having several pictures is good. Men LOVE pics.

YOur description is honest, sweet and no fuss...you might want to add more of what you like to do...hobbies, music, sports, books etc...
What you want in a companion.

Have Fun! drinker

lilangel2's photo
Fri 05/09/08 10:11 AM
I'm waiting for someone to do me...bigsmile

Citizen_Joe's photo
Fri 05/09/08 10:18 AM


Poor dear men...I will help you if you ask...I see so many of you with profiles that just suck...pics that suck...no way you will get a girl...you need HELP! I will be brutally honest to help you catch the girl of your dreams...just let me know to look at your profile and I will scrutinize it when I have time and make some suggestions for you. bigsmile




damn...................i need some help too...i cant find that military and noral guy....and im goin nuts


Both characteristics can be observed on a washing machine, assuming you mean normal and spin. laugh

auburngirl's photo
Fri 05/09/08 10:19 AM
Hey lil!

My suggestion for help for some profiles is PUT A DAMN SHIRT ON!!!! huh ohwell

wiley's photo
Fri 05/09/08 10:19 AM

I'm waiting for someone to do me...bigsmile


I'm so biting my tongue right now. laugh

lilangel2's photo
Fri 05/09/08 10:20 AM

What about my fantastic mullet? doesnt that help?


docburneraz..you said yo had enough women..so I hate to mess with your profile...but you asked about your mullet...mullet is fine :smile:

Your headline is different...kinda funny...

Your main pic is the best pic you have...the closeups you have you look mad. At least the rock climbing one shows you are
athletic...no couch potoato...gives the illusion of health. So, keep it. Unless you want to try to take a closup of you smiling.

I have one main problem with your desription...if you are just looking for friendship...why "Over size 8 need not apply?" It appears you
are looking for more than friendship, less than committment...which is fine, but should be made clear. You do let it be known what you want
and that is a good thing. Nothing at all wanting a small woman if that is what you like. You could add a little bit more info about yourself and what kind of relationship you are after.

Rock climbing looks like alot of fun!

Cheers!

lilangel2's photo
Fri 05/09/08 10:21 AM


I'm waiting for someone to do me...bigsmile


I'm so biting my tongue right now. laugh


HA! CAT got your tongue!??? bigsmile