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I keep meeting women who I talk with and are very open. The problem is the talking only stays at that level. I want to meet others too. I think this is a normal expectation.
The ones I meet locally become more reserved it seems because the dating and meeting is a very real possibility. How do you deal with the distance? Do you find the same thing about local vs. remote or am I the one getting mental? |
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your getting mental
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Well if you think about it, if the right people lived next door to us.... Would any of us be on these sites?
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I keep meeting women who I talk with and are very open. The problem is the talking only stays at that level. I want to meet others too. I think this is a normal expectation. The ones I meet locally become more reserved it seems because the dating and meeting is a very real possibility. How do you deal with the distance? Do you find the same thing about local vs. remote or am I the one getting mental? Niceness/openness on this site is in inverse proportion to distance Amen take care of it |
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I deal with it ! I talk on the phone and wait for august when we get to see each other
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I use astral projection to meet those that are too far away for my physical body to travel to.
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You could always get a mail order bride from Russia.
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I use astral projection to meet those that are too far away for my physical body to travel to. I cant afford the round trip ticket.... |
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I use astral projection to meet those that are too far away for my physical body to travel to. Then why the hell aren't you here yet! |
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I keep meeting women who I talk with and are very open. The problem is the talking only stays at that level. I want to meet others too. I think this is a normal expectation. The ones I meet locally become more reserved it seems because the dating and meeting is a very real possibility. How do you deal with the distance? Do you find the same thing about local vs. remote or am I the one getting mental? I don't know, seems to me you're finding women who are afraid of commitment. I've experienced the same thing, men email me intensely for a few days and then they seem to lose interest when it seems like it might actually become something besides conversation; just one of the drawbacks of internet dating. That's one of the many reasons I'm only on this site for the forums. Good luck to you though. |
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Well, I can be very open with you as you live in CA....
No... I just think that it is less likely that you can focus on only what you want to see or portray in a closer proximity situation. You have to be reserved, and let things come out slower. But really, for me, I could care less either way. If a guy who sparked my interest was local, I'd say hey let's grab a coffee. That has scated many guys away. I'm just a person to person sort of person. |
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Well, I can be very open with you as you live in CA.... No... I just think that it is less likely that you can focus on only what you want to see or portray in a closer proximity situation. You have to be reserved, and let things come out slower. But really, for me, I could care less either way. If a guy who sparked my interest was local, I'd say hey let's grab a coffee. That has scated many guys away. I'm just a person to person sort of person. yeah....me too....what she said |
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Well if you think about it, if the right people lived next door to us.... Would any of us be on these sites? Its possible, I never go out side during the day sence I broke my glasses! So yea they could O_O LOL, I just wouldnt be able to see them! |
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Well if you think about it, if the right people lived next door to us.... Would any of us be on these sites? Its possible, I never go out side during the day sence I broke my glasses! So yea they could O_O LOL, I just wouldnt be able to see them! |
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I use astral projection to meet those that are too far away for my physical body to travel to. Was that you in my bedroom last night? you should have at least said hello before violating me...not that I'm complaining or anything. |
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I use astral projection to meet those that are too far away for my physical body to travel to. Was that you in my bedroom last night? you should have at least said hello before violating me...not that I'm complaining or anything. He was in my room too |
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I use astral projection to meet those that are too far away for my physical body to travel to. Was that you in my bedroom last night? you should have at least said hello before violating me...not that I'm complaining or anything. He was in my room too Silly man..that was me..not mirror |
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I use astral projection to meet those that are too far away for my physical body to travel to. Was that you in my bedroom last night? you should have at least said hello before violating me...not that I'm complaining or anything. He was in my room too Silly man..that was me..not mirror It was a little threesome...you guys were good but I was incredible |
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I use astral projection to meet those that are too far away for my physical body to travel to. Was that you in my bedroom last night? you should have at least said hello before violating me...not that I'm complaining or anything. He was in my room too Silly man..that was me..not mirror It was a little threesome...you guys were good but I was incredible Damn right you were |
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I keep meeting women who I talk with and are very open. The problem is the talking only stays at that level. I want to meet others too. I think this is a normal expectation. The ones I meet locally become more reserved it seems because the dating and meeting is a very real possibility. How do you deal with the distance? Do you find the same thing about local vs. remote or am I the one getting mental? My boy lives in another state. That's completely delicious, The expectation thing makes me more and more excited about him. When he calls I feel buterflies in my chest..I love distance |
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