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Topic: The distance. problem
DestinysDream's photo
Thu 05/08/08 10:20 AM
I keep meeting women who I talk with and are very open. The problem is the talking only stays at that level. I want to meet others too. I think this is a normal expectation. :smile:

The ones I meet locally become more reserved it seems because the dating and meeting is a very real possibility.

How do you deal with the distance? Do you find the same thing about local vs. remote or am I the one getting mental?

Etrain's photo
Thu 05/08/08 10:21 AM
your getting mentaldevil

codelockbox's photo
Thu 05/08/08 10:22 AM
Well if you think about it, if the right people lived next door to us.... Would any of us be on these sites?

robert1652's photo
Thu 05/08/08 10:23 AM

I keep meeting women who I talk with and are very open. The problem is the talking only stays at that level. I want to meet others too. I think this is a normal expectation. :smile:

The ones I meet locally become more reserved it seems because the dating and meeting is a very real possibility.

How do you deal with the distance? Do you find the same thing about local vs. remote or am I the one getting mental?


Niceness/openness on this site is in inverse proportion to distance
Amen
take care of itlaugh laugh laugh

steelersgirltina's photo
Thu 05/08/08 10:25 AM
I deal with it ! I talk on the phone and wait for august when we get to see each other

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 05/08/08 10:25 AM
drinker I use astral projection to meet those that are too far away for my physical body to travel to.drinker

Bornnaked's photo
Thu 05/08/08 10:26 AM
You could always get a mail order bride from Russia.

no photo
Thu 05/08/08 10:26 AM

drinker I use astral projection to meet those that are too far away for my physical body to travel to.drinker


I cant afford the round trip ticket....
grumble

FaithfulOne78's photo
Thu 05/08/08 10:29 AM

drinker I use astral projection to meet those that are too far away for my physical body to travel to.drinker


laugh Then why the hell aren't you here yet!devil devil

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Thu 05/08/08 10:30 AM

I keep meeting women who I talk with and are very open. The problem is the talking only stays at that level. I want to meet others too. I think this is a normal expectation. :smile:

The ones I meet locally become more reserved it seems because the dating and meeting is a very real possibility.

How do you deal with the distance? Do you find the same thing about local vs. remote or am I the one getting mental?


I don't know, seems to me you're finding women who are afraid of commitment. I've experienced the same thing, men email me intensely for a few days and then they seem to lose interest when it seems like it might actually become something besides conversation; just one of the drawbacks of internet dating. That's one of the many reasons I'm only on this site for the forums. Good luck to you though.flowerforyou

lilith401's photo
Thu 05/08/08 10:32 AM
Well, I can be very open with you as you live in CA....laugh

No... I just think that it is less likely that you can focus on only what you want to see or portray in a closer proximity situation. You have to be reserved, and let things come out slower. But really, for me, I could care less either way.

If a guy who sparked my interest was local, I'd say hey let's grab a coffee. That has scated many guys away. I'm just a person to person sort of person.

Etrain's photo
Thu 05/08/08 10:37 AM

Well, I can be very open with you as you live in CA....laugh

No... I just think that it is less likely that you can focus on only what you want to see or portray in a closer proximity situation. You have to be reserved, and let things come out slower. But really, for me, I could care less either way.

If a guy who sparked my interest was local, I'd say hey let's grab a coffee. That has scated many guys away. I'm just a person to person sort of person.

yeah....me too....what she saiddrinker

AngelMapper's photo
Thu 05/08/08 10:39 AM

Well if you think about it, if the right people lived next door to us.... Would any of us be on these sites?


Its possible, I never go out side during the day sence I broke my glasses!
So yea they could O_O LOL, I just wouldnt be able to see them!

whispertoascream's photo
Thu 05/08/08 10:40 AM


Well if you think about it, if the right people lived next door to us.... Would any of us be on these sites?


Its possible, I never go out side during the day sence I broke my glasses!
So yea they could O_O LOL, I just wouldnt be able to see them!
Would you not see them better then reading the words on the screen?

Lily0923's photo
Thu 05/08/08 10:41 AM

drinker I use astral projection to meet those that are too far away for my physical body to travel to.drinker


Was that you in my bedroom last night?

you should have at least said hello before violating me...not that I'm complaining or anything.

Etrain's photo
Thu 05/08/08 10:43 AM


drinker I use astral projection to meet those that are too far away for my physical body to travel to.drinker


Was that you in my bedroom last night?

you should have at least said hello before violating me...not that I'm complaining or anything.

He was in my room toolove love love

FaithfulOne78's photo
Thu 05/08/08 10:44 AM



drinker I use astral projection to meet those that are too far away for my physical body to travel to.drinker


Was that you in my bedroom last night?

you should have at least said hello before violating me...not that I'm complaining or anything.

He was in my room toolove love love


devil devil Silly man..that was me..not mirrordevil laugh

Etrain's photo
Thu 05/08/08 10:45 AM




drinker I use astral projection to meet those that are too far away for my physical body to travel to.drinker


Was that you in my bedroom last night?

you should have at least said hello before violating me...not that I'm complaining or anything.

He was in my room toolove love love


devil devil Silly man..that was me..not mirrordevil laugh

It was a little threesome...you guys were good but I was incredibledevil

FaithfulOne78's photo
Thu 05/08/08 10:46 AM





drinker I use astral projection to meet those that are too far away for my physical body to travel to.drinker


Was that you in my bedroom last night?

you should have at least said hello before violating me...not that I'm complaining or anything.

He was in my room toolove love love


devil devil Silly man..that was me..not mirrordevil laugh

It was a little threesome...you guys were good but I was incredibledevil


devil devil Damn right you were:wink:

no photo
Thu 05/08/08 10:56 AM

I keep meeting women who I talk with and are very open. The problem is the talking only stays at that level. I want to meet others too. I think this is a normal expectation. :smile:

The ones I meet locally become more reserved it seems because the dating and meeting is a very real possibility.

How do you deal with the distance? Do you find the same thing about local vs. remote or am I the one getting mental?


My boy lives in another state.
That's completely delicious, The expectation thing makes me more and more excited about him. When he calls I feel buterflies in my chest..I love distance :heart: :heart:

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