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Topic: Holding out
Lily0923's photo
Wed 05/07/08 10:36 PM
Today I visited with my friend and her dad was there, who is a sweetheart of a man, and he has worse luck in dating than I do.

He is currently daing a woman who is a psycho...but he "loves" her...

Do you hold out for the one. or do you date til you find them?

itsmetina's photo
Wed 05/07/08 10:37 PM
i'm holding out

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Wed 05/07/08 10:37 PM
I'm holdin out........but datin on the side....laugh laugh

Lily0923's photo
Wed 05/07/08 10:38 PM

I'm holdin out........but datin on the side....laugh laugh


Goofy kid....

DrX's photo
Wed 05/07/08 10:38 PM
I'm holding mine, I mean holding out

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Wed 05/07/08 10:39 PM
Edited by Angelface2000 on Wed 05/07/08 10:45 PM
:heart: Waiting for you:heart:Lily my love :heart:

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Wed 05/07/08 10:40 PM


I'm holdin out........but datin on the side....laugh laugh


Goofy kid....


wanna hold out......

together???/devil devil

EtherealEmbers's photo
Wed 05/07/08 10:40 PM
what exactly are we holding out on?huh

JaceKnows's photo
Wed 05/07/08 10:41 PM
If it's bad, it's bad. It's not "the one", ergo I wouldn't stay in it.

My sister is with a guy just so she can say she's with someone.

While that might stave off loneliness for a while, it ultimately is unfulfilling and counterproductive to long term happiness.

That which you shall seek, so shall find you when you least expect it.

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Wed 05/07/08 10:42 PM
I'm sorta naturally picky so I'll probably just hold out. So you I'm gonna end up old and alone somewhere. laugh

Lily0923's photo
Wed 05/07/08 10:43 PM

If it's bad, it's bad. It's not "the one", ergo I wouldn't stay in it.

My sister is with a guy just so she can say she's with someone.

While that might stave off loneliness for a while, it ultimately is unfulfilling and counterproductive to long term happiness.

That which you shall seek, so shall find you when you least expect it.


but would you say "dating" casually knowing that the person isn't the "one" is ok or do you move on once you know?

Etrain's photo
Wed 05/07/08 10:44 PM
hold out

EtherealEmbers's photo
Wed 05/07/08 10:44 PM
ohhhh that. Yeah if I know I'm not gonna marry the guy ever, I'll just let him go.

JaceKnows's photo
Wed 05/07/08 10:45 PM


but would you say "dating" casually knowing that the person isn't the "one" is ok or do you move on once you know?


If it's casual that's one thing. You said your friend's dad was dating a psycho? That's when I'd get out and not date just to be dating. (=

Lily0923's photo
Wed 05/07/08 10:45 PM

ohhhh that. Yeah if I know I'm not gonna marry the guy ever, I'll just let him go.


That's what he said today, that their relationship won't go anywhere, but they have a good time together... I say, if you are wasting your time with someone, you'll miss that "one"

lgo's photo
Wed 05/07/08 10:46 PM
holding out also,

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Wed 05/07/08 10:48 PM
Never know what beautiful experiences you may miss by waiting for the unknown. Life has a way of surprising you sometimes. Don't wait forever.

YourLove1's photo
Wed 05/07/08 10:50 PM
i usally know if its gonna work or not on the first date. the first date tells alot ..

EtherealEmbers's photo
Wed 05/07/08 10:50 PM
Yeah I had my daughter's dad drag me around forever thinking he'd marry me. Never again. If you haven't figured out it's meant to be within a year or two, chances are GREAT they're not for you.

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Wed 05/07/08 10:51 PM
There's only one person who matches my criteria, so I'm waiting for her to resolve a few things....

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