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Topic: I'm looking but no luck!!!
Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Wed 05/07/08 10:12 PM
Dont be rushin in....live a little....learn....find peace with yourself first......gather some wisdom...then when ya least expect it Wam...there she is..... Ya gotta get comfortable with you first.... 23yrs of marriage......4 yrs on my own.....kids are grown.... Hell...I'm just now startin to get comfortable with me again RELAX..............

FireOfThePhoenix Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 14098	Wed 05/07/08 10:12 PM
There is a difference in feeling sympathy/emphathizing and feeling sorry for. We all have our down moments, do you give a helping hand up or do you kick someone when they are already down?

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Wed 05/07/08 10:12 PM
IndnPrncs: It's just hard for me seeing all of my friends having someone and getting ready to settle down. I've only had one serious girlfriend and I'm kind of a shy guy so not much experience here and that's what I'm looking for. Bryan don't base your life on your friends darlin'... I'm single an always th 3rd or 5th wheel but I'd rather that than being in relationship just to have one.. BESIDES that.. What about living life, having fun and worrying about settling down later in your 20's or early 30's? Believe me I speak of experience.. Life is short, live it, enjoy it and love it... That doesn't take having a partner.. thats the best advice i've heard in a long time Thank you Igo

MrWrongman Joined Thu 10/04/07 Posts: 1725	Wed 05/07/08 10:13 PM
There is a difference in feeling sympathy/emphathizing and feeling sorry for. We all have our down moments, do you give a helping hand up or do you kick someone when they are already down? LOL!!! Ok I'll be nice, I hate being honest

lgo Joined Sun 03/16/08 Posts: 1824	Wed 05/07/08 10:15 PM
IndnPrncs: It's just hard for me seeing all of my friends having someone and getting ready to settle down. I've only had one serious girlfriend and I'm kind of a shy guy so not much experience here and that's what I'm looking for. Bryan don't base your life on your friends darlin'... I'm single an always th 3rd or 5th wheel but I'd rather that than being in relationship just to have one.. BESIDES that.. What about living life, having fun and worrying about settling down later in your 20's or early 30's? Believe me I speak of experience.. Life is short, live it, enjoy it and love it... That doesn't take having a partner.. thats the best advice i've heard in a long time Thank you Igo your welcome

FireOfThePhoenix Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 14098	Wed 05/07/08 10:17 PM
There is a difference in feeling sympathy/emphathizing and feeling sorry for. We all have our down moments, do you give a helping hand up or do you kick someone when they are already down? LOL!!! Ok I'll be nice, I hate being honest Honesty is a good thing, but you can be tactful and do it a constructive way

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Wed 05/07/08 10:17 PM
There is a difference in feeling sympathy/emphathizing and feeling sorry for. We all have our down moments, do you give a helping hand up or do you kick someone when they are already down? LOL!!! Ok I'll be nice, I hate being honest

MrWrongman Joined Thu 10/04/07 Posts: 1725	Wed 05/07/08 10:18 PM
There is a difference in feeling sympathy/emphathizing and feeling sorry for. We all have our down moments, do you give a helping hand up or do you kick someone when they are already down? LOL!!! Ok I'll be nice, I hate being honest Honesty is a good thing, but you can be tactful and do it a constructive way So you rather have somebody sugar coat it for you or be blunt about it?

MrWrongman Joined Thu 10/04/07 Posts: 1725	Wed 05/07/08 10:18 PM
There is a difference in feeling sympathy/emphathizing and feeling sorry for. We all have our down moments, do you give a helping hand up or do you kick someone when they are already down? LOL!!! Ok I'll be nice, I hate being honest LOL!!! Shut up

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Wed 05/07/08 10:19 PM
There is a difference in feeling sympathy/emphathizing and feeling sorry for. We all have our down moments, do you give a helping hand up or do you kick someone when they are already down? LOL!!! Ok I'll be nice, I hate being honest Honesty is a good thing, but you can be tactful and do it a constructive way So you rather have somebody sugar coat it for you or be blunt about it? It's not sugar coating it's called FLIPPIN' "TACT"... It's something "most" humans use with one another rather than being jerks!

MrWrongman Joined Thu 10/04/07 Posts: 1725	Wed 05/07/08 10:21 PM
There is a difference in feeling sympathy/emphathizing and feeling sorry for. We all have our down moments, do you give a helping hand up or do you kick someone when they are already down? LOL!!! Ok I'll be nice, I hate being honest Honesty is a good thing, but you can be tactful and do it a constructive way So you rather have somebody sugar coat it for you or be blunt about it? It's not sugar coating it's called FLIPPIN' "TACT"... It's something "most" humans use with one another rather than being jerks! LOL!!! If it was a girl I'd be umm Tactful cuzz of their feelings and shhhht but for a guy they need to hear it with no BS.. Im a guy I should know

lgo Joined Sun 03/16/08 Posts: 1824	Wed 05/07/08 10:22 PM
Dont be rushin in....live a little....learn....find peace with yourself first......gather some wisdom...then when ya least expect it Wam...there she is..... Ya gotta get comfortable with you first.... 23yrs of marriage......4 yrs on my own.....kids are grown.... Hell...I'm just now startin to get comfortable with me again RELAX.............. I have the same story, 23yrs marriage, 3yrs on my own. daughter grown.. I took a lot time to get it together before I tried dating.

justkev08 Joined Tue 12/18/07 Posts: 1897	Wed 05/07/08 10:22 PM
This is the best quote of the night for me. There is a difference in feeling sympathy/emphathizing and feeling sorry for. We all have our down moments, do you give a helping hand up or do you kick someone when they are already down?

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Wed 05/07/08 10:23 PM
There is a difference in feeling sympathy/emphathizing and feeling sorry for. We all have our down moments, do you give a helping hand up or do you kick someone when they are already down? LOL!!! Ok I'll be nice, I hate being honest Honesty is a good thing, but you can be tactful and do it a constructive way So you rather have somebody sugar coat it for you or be blunt about it? It's not sugar coating it's called FLIPPIN' "TACT"... It's something "most" humans use with one another rather than being jerks! LOL!!! If it was a girl I'd be umm Tactful cuzz of their feelings and shhhht but for a guy they need to hear it with no BS.. Im a guy I should know Kev's a guy too and he used tact.. It has NOTHING to do with TESTOSTERONE Jav, it is being decent... Perhaps at times someone may need a swift kick in the a$$ but I think he's shown that he's just a little lonely and thinking ALOUD which is not a prelude to NEEDING a shot of MANLINESS!!

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Wed 05/07/08 10:26 PM
i'm lonely 2

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Wed 05/07/08 10:27 PM
Amen Indn .. OP .. I do agree .. why rush? Live life, don't find your completeness in a girl, but in yourself. One of my sons just turned 21. He isn't even dating. He's finishing his degree at CSU, having the time of his life with his friends, working and just enjoying life.

MrWrongman Joined Thu 10/04/07 Posts: 1725	Wed 05/07/08 10:28 PM
There is a difference in feeling sympathy/emphathizing and feeling sorry for. We all have our down moments, do you give a helping hand up or do you kick someone when they are already down? LOL!!! Ok I'll be nice, I hate being honest Honesty is a good thing, but you can be tactful and do it a constructive way So you rather have somebody sugar coat it for you or be blunt about it? It's not sugar coating it's called FLIPPIN' "TACT"... It's something "most" humans use with one another rather than being jerks! LOL!!! If it was a girl I'd be umm Tactful cuzz of their feelings and shhhht but for a guy they need to hear it with no BS.. Im a guy I should know Kev's a guy too and he used tact.. It has NOTHING to do with TESTOSTERONE Jav, it is being decent... Perhaps at times someone may need a swift kick in the a$$ but I think he's shown that he's just a little lonely and thinking ALOUD which is not a prelude to NEEDING a shot of MANLINESS!! Well I was being tactful then that didnt work, so I had be blunt... Has nothing to do with manliness, I've been thru that BS before, I wish somebody was there to tell me I was a psssy and get my act together

MrWrongman Joined Thu 10/04/07 Posts: 1725	Wed 05/07/08 10:29 PM
i'm lonely 2 LOL!!! Oh Great!!! not another one

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Wed 05/07/08 10:29 PM
There is a difference in feeling sympathy/emphathizing and feeling sorry for. We all have our down moments, do you give a helping hand up or do you kick someone when they are already down? LOL!!! Ok I'll be nice, I hate being honest Honesty is a good thing, but you can be tactful and do it a constructive way So you rather have somebody sugar coat it for you or be blunt about it? It's not sugar coating it's called FLIPPIN' "TACT"... It's something "most" humans use with one another rather than being jerks! LOL!!! If it was a girl I'd be umm Tactful cuzz of their feelings and shhhht but for a guy they need to hear it with no BS.. Im a guy I should know Kev's a guy too and he used tact.. It has NOTHING to do with TESTOSTERONE Jav, it is being decent... Perhaps at times someone may need a swift kick in the a$$ but I think he's shown that he's just a little lonely and thinking ALOUD which is not a prelude to NEEDING a shot of MANLINESS!! Well I was being tactful then that didnt work, so I had be blunt... Has nothing to do with manliness, I've been thru that BS before, I wish somebody was there to tell me I was a psssy and get my act together I wish somebody was there to tell me I was a psssy and get my act together

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Wed 05/07/08 10:30 PM
I believe someone is.......and their tryin to be Tactful