Some people are just bitter, too... this site is great, a LOT of people have met here, and some of them are dating now. I've got a date on the 18th myself with someone I met from here. Can't wait.

Seriously though. Try to ease up and don't make it the #1 priority to have someone. Work on yourself and be happy, then you'll attract Ms. Right.

IndnPrncs: It's just hard for me seeing all of my friends having someone and getting ready to settle down. I've only had one serious girlfriend and I'm kind of a shy guy so not much experience here and that's what I'm looking for.

Hmmmmm......this might be a bar hoppin woman chasin buddy for dear old.....


Ned..........

There's a saying when it comes to dating-

"Dating is like cats. As soon as you ignore them, they'll wanna start sitting on your lap."

It really is that simple. Trust me.

Its true, the odds are better for girls to post but not for guys. Its really a waste of time unless he just wants to chat for fun. Also you guys kind of miss the point of this kid. He's not desperate as some of you are leading on to. He's a bit lonely and just asking for some help and advice so maybe some of you should just lighten up a little bit. We have all been there so dont throw stones living in a glass house...Respect

Bryan don't base your life on your friends darlin'... I'm single an always th 3rd or 5th wheel but I'd rather that than being in relationship just to have one.. BESIDES that.. What about living life, having fun and worrying about settling down later in your 20's or early 30's? Believe me I speak of experience.. Life is short, live it, enjoy it and love it... That doesn't take having a partner..

Dude seriously stop you sound like a psssy, and princess cant help you anymore than anybody here

Take it easy on the poor guy

Why are you in such a hurry to settle down at 21? Most guys I know aren't ready until they are in their 30s. There is no rush, have fun. Enjoy your youth.

he's 21 Wrong give him a break.. He's not made "our" mistakes yet... Hopefully he'll wait and he won't!!!

thats the best advice i've heard in a long time

If he is merely lonely, the forums are an excellent way to meet people and make friends.

be yourself, and take your time, i mean, you don't act like this with other parts of your life, do you? look at women the same way. we can all sense when someone is trying, or desperate, and if we did this all to our friends, we wouldn't have any, now would we. so relax, and let the world take you.

LOL!!! Im not gonna sugar coat it like everybosy else here, sorry WRONG guy.... Go ahead feel sorry for him and see how far it takes him

Even another reason for him not to get a girlfriend, not mature enough as we can see...

i was playin good luck

Your a cute kid, you seem like a nice guy. Just wait for someone that deserves that. Not just someone that is available

Just act yourself. I know that's the most generic advice someone can give, but if you find someone they will like you for you. Also, be careful of who you try to have a relationship with online because, I had a woman, fell in love with her got married, and she ran off with another guy last year 3 days after christmas. there are a lot of "predators" out there just trying to use a kind-hearted guy anyway that they can. but don't get me wrong, if there are good-hearted guys online there has to be good-hearted girls online too.

LOL!!! You are forgiven Tina

That's what we're saying just with manners!!!!