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Topic: What do you expect on a first date?
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Wed 05/07/08 06:34 PM
Lots of sex !. I am honest . What is a date without sex ?.
laugh .

smilingeyes_976's photo
Wed 05/07/08 06:34 PM
Last date I went on... lol.. about 15 months ago.... oops!
He brought A dozen Roses and a Box of Chocolates.

Pete026's photo
Wed 05/07/08 06:34 PM

Do guys bring flowers anymore?Does our age play a part in what we expect from the other person?


Maybe I'm just a hopeless English romantic, but of course flowers are a must! All I expect from a first date is to learn about what she likes, so that if I'm lucky enough to get a second date, I can plan something that I know she'll enjoy.

auburngirl's photo
Wed 05/07/08 06:35 PM
Your gold card limit

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 05/07/08 06:35 PM
Myself keep the flowers for another date down the road. Actually I'm just as happy with just one rose then the whole vase thing. To me that is more romantic.

I think the first date should just be to get to know each other not to impress the other.bigsmile

Bornnaked's photo
Wed 05/07/08 06:35 PM




I took flowers on the first one and a Teddy Bear on the second.


...on the third? flowerforyou :tongue:
That is this weekend so we will see.


awww...good luck! flowerforyou
Bless her heart she shook my hand on the first date.

Wolfshado's photo
Wed 05/07/08 06:35 PM
i thought we all agreed... no one really dates on a dating site

PATSFAN's photo
Wed 05/07/08 06:35 PM
Hold on , I'm going to google the word date, I forgot it's meaning!!

lilbity's photo
Wed 05/07/08 06:36 PM
I dont remember the last first date I had with one excption .
a lil over a year ago we talked on the fhone all night before i had no chance to get flowers and I took her to a nice breakfast we spent the day at the park had a nice dinner I walked her to her door with a small kiss and no expectations ..
we spent a wonderfull 11 months togather

Dragoness's photo
Wed 05/07/08 06:37 PM
I expect lots of eye contact and communication from the first date. I don't need gifts or anything fancy just him and I and lots of talking and sharingbigsmile

carolanne58's photo
Wed 05/07/08 06:38 PM
How would I be judged if I showed for first date with one long stemed rose for you, the guy?

carolanne58's photo
Wed 05/07/08 06:39 PM

Last date I went on... lol.. about 15 months ago.... oops!
He brought A dozen Roses and a Box of Chocolates.
Lucky girlbigsmile

lilbity's photo
Wed 05/07/08 06:39 PM

Your gold card limit

gota love this girl:wink:

shoesmonkey's photo
Wed 05/07/08 06:39 PM
Flower's? I get em when I buy em.

carolanne58's photo
Wed 05/07/08 06:40 PM

Hold on , I'm going to google the word date, I forgot it's meaning!!

Same herelaugh laugh

smilingeyes_976's photo
Wed 05/07/08 06:41 PM


Last date I went on... lol.. about 15 months ago.... oops!
He brought A dozen Roses and a Box of Chocolates.
Lucky girlbigsmile


It was a nice gesture but well to be honest it made me uncomfortable. Because when we made arrangements to go to dinner it was as a friends only dinner with no expectations of anything else.
So I was a bit floored to be honest.

ElCid's photo
Wed 05/07/08 06:41 PM
Hmmm, defining first date is tricky. I usually starts things off so casual (coffee in the afternoon). Second date for me is more like a first date I think as I usually havent made up my mind as to whether I want to actually date someone until Ive met them once in person.

People can be very different in person than online.

Now mind you, if I ask a gal out to the movies/dancing and dinner...yeah, total date scenario and should bring a flower. Im a big fan of the single rose, both b/c I see what women do with the flowers afterwards (vase) and b/c a dozen roses is damned expensive nowadays lol. Id rather spend it on the actual date itself and kick up the level of food (eg, higher end rest/venues).

EtherealEmbers's photo
Wed 05/07/08 06:41 PM
On a first date, I'd expect decent conversation that didn't include staring at my chest all night.

SometingDifrent's photo
Wed 05/07/08 06:50 PM
Last time I bought a woman flowers she said to me, "ok, what did you do?"

Another time I sent a dozen roses anonymously to my x at her job. She didn't tell me she received them she wasn't sure who sent them :(

Back in my late teens early twenties my mom owned a flower shop so anyone I dated got lots of flowers, they rarely found out I got them free :)

As to what I expect on a first date? Well it is more like a hope, intelligent conversation, a good sense of humor and the feeling that the time just flew by. I like a single rose if I am going to give a flower on a first date. Only one time in my life did a girl give me a flower on a date. It was Vera, the first girl I ever loved. We dated on and off from the time I was 15 till I was 21. Should have married that Ukrainian beauty. But as you can see, I have not forgotten it.

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