ok check it out. me and my girlfriend went out last night for the 24th time as an "outing" for her friends b-day party. we each had different things to eat and drink but my bill came out to like 12 bucks. and i was like hey can you get it for me because the waiter didnt split it up and i didnt have cash. she was like no but i will give you a dollar trying to be funny but serious she was not going to get it. ok so i paid and said bye and went home and she was pissed i didnt stay out late too but i actually have to go to work in the morning. needless to say the reason i got pissed is because i have paid every singel time we have done something movies, hockey tickets, dinner etc,. so i told her i was upset because well.......i tell it how it is and she was like you shouldnt make me feel like i am obligated to pay. i was like no you are not obligate to pay but it sure would be nice if you paid or took me out once. was i wrong for feeling that way or was i right.

O.k. honey FORGET your girlfriend. I will take you out and buy dinner all the time. Even breakfast!!!!!

ok check it out. me and my girlfriend went out last night for the 24th time as an "outing" for her friends b-day party. we each had different things to eat and drink but my bill came out to like 12 bucks. and i was like hey can you get it for me because the waiter didnt split it up and i didnt have cash. she was like no but i will give you a dollar trying to be funny but serious she was not going to get it. ok so i paid and said bye and went home and she was pissed i didnt stay out late too but i actually have to go to work in the morning. needless to say the reason i got pissed is because i have paid every singel time we have done something movies, hockey tickets, dinner etc,. so i told her i was upset because well.......i tell it how it is and she was like you shouldnt make me feel like i am obligated to pay. i was like no you are not obligate to pay but it sure would be nice if you paid or took me out once. was i wrong for feeling that way or was i right.

i think the lady should pay not all the times , but yes once again ,, i dont think thatas bad, you are right

are yall dating????have ya had sex yet??????if so,,i feel like it's your place to pay th bill,,,,,,,,,,,but i also agree with,,,most every woman i ever dated for a period of time has took me out or offered to pay for dinner or eithe bought some kind of gift,,,,so it really depends on th relationship that yall want or agree on

I think the rules on this use to be clear a long time ago. Nowadays they aren't. When I go out on a date I usually offer to pay half. Some men want to pay the whole thing. Others will go halves. It is confusing sometimes.

If I don't have the money to ask someone out, I won't ask. If they pay, it's even better, but I strongly believe you shouldn't ask anyone out if you don't plan on paying.

i understand that but 23ish dates and her not even offer to pay once.

Back in the stone ages when I was dating, if I would suggest they let me treat, I would usually get some attitude, so I just quit asking. I wouldn't mind paying for outings at all.