ok check it out. me and my girlfriend went out last night for the 24th time as an "outing" for her friends b-day party. we each had different things to eat and drink but my bill came out to like 12 bucks. and i was like hey can you get it for me because the waiter didnt split it up and i didnt have cash. she was like no but i will give you a dollar trying to be funny but serious she was not going to get it. ok so i paid and said bye and went home and she was pissed i didnt stay out late too but i actually have to go to work in the morning. needless to say the reason i got pissed is because i have paid every singel time we have done something movies, hockey tickets, dinner etc,. so i told her i was upset because well.......i tell it how it is and she was like you shouldnt make me feel like i am obligated to pay. i was like no you are not obligate to pay but it sure would be nice if you paid or took me out once. was i wrong for feeling that way or was i right.

O.k. honey FORGET your girlfriend. I will take you out and buy dinner all the time. Even breakfast!!!!!

i think the lady should pay not all the times , but yes once again ,, i dont think thatas bad, you are right

aww thanks so much. by the way i like bob evans biscuts and gravy

How do you know it was the 24th time?

how many times you have been out sound like she is a very selfish woman......she would offer and pay once in a while if she really cared about you.........

thanks

no, you weren't wrong for expressing how you felt.

personally, on a first date I always try or offer to pay my half. its nice when a guy pays for the date. i think that if you are dating someone for a period of time, then there is nothing wrong with switching up who pays. to me it only seems fair. but no all girls are like that.

are yall dating????have ya had sex yet??????if so,,i feel like it's your place to pay th bill,,,,,,,,,,,but i also agree with,,,most every woman i ever dated for a period of time has took me out or offered to pay for dinner or eithe bought some kind of gift,,,,so it really depends on th relationship that yall want or agree on

I think the rules on this use to be clear a long time ago. Nowadays they aren't. When I go out on a date I usually offer to pay half. Some men want to pay the whole thing. Others will go halves. It is confusing sometimes.

bro just because we have had sex i dont think i have to pay every time. i could ot have a girlfriend not have to pay for things and still get sex if i really wanted to.

when you're a couple you do things for eachother, its not you do for me and i take it, and not do for you.relationships are give n take, both ways.and if she isnt into that, she may not be the girl for you.
it takes two to tango hun.

woman should pay to for things not just men

i understand that but 23ish dates and her not even offer to pay once.

If I don't have the money to ask someone out, I won't ask. If they pay, it's even better, but I strongly believe you shouldn't ask anyone out if you don't plan on paying.

sounds reasonable to me and i think if you care about someone, that's were you step in and do things like that to help out...geez...will there be a 25th date?

Back in the stone ages when I was dating, if I would suggest they let me treat, I would usually get some attitude, so I just quit asking. I wouldn't mind paying for outings at all.

((Christ))

she asked me out babe

I understand your frustration with her not offering.

my kind of lady i believe in equal opportunity