Topic: I'm not a playa I just crush a lot.
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Tue 05/06/08 04:18 PM
So I met this girl online some weeks back. She was funny, interesting, sexy, and cool. In a word, I was interested.

One fine afternoon, she called me, and after our usual energetic and funny conversation, I asked her out that Friday. She accepted, of course... I mean, it is ME asking, right? smokin

So after a few more minutes of small talk, she informed me that she had reached her destination. She was at her mother's house, and was about to go inside... Cool, I needed to wash my car and pick up a bite to eat.

Then... It happened...

(RING)
Taylor: Hello?
Chick: (In a sexy voice) Hey Hey...
Taylor: (Smiling and enjoying this sexy voice) What's up girl?
Chick: I'm at Main. Do I keep going straight, or turn left at the next light?
Taylor: Huh?
Chick: I'm almost there I think... I'm at Main. Do I keep going straight, or turn left at the next light?
Taylor: Ohhh... Go straight two more lights... (Pause)
Chick: (Sounding excited)OK, gotcha... Then what?
Taylor: Now turn left... (Pause)
Chick: K...
Taylor: Now look at your phone...
Chick: Huh?
Taylor: Look at the number you dialed...
Chick: ****! *click*

About 5 minutes passed, and after my initial disgust subsided, I texted her "Ooops..."

To my surprise, I got a response text:

"What happened? My phone rang, and I picked it up, and there was some girl talking... It was crazy! And it had your number. Did you try to call me?"

noway

Of course I didn't let it slide. I called her later and made jokes about it, ensuring her that I knew it was her. The cell phone carriers don't have 'wires' to cross. Of course she denied it completely. Until the next morning, when i got a phone call, explaining that she needed to be honest. It was her, and she was meeting some guy she met at a club for dinner.

The moral of this story is:

Ladies: Men don't have a monopoly on being wannabe playas. Some of you try it too. Only, I can smell you out rather quickly.

and Guys: If you want to know how to pay back a "playa" let me know, and maybe I'll post my revenge. It was quite funny.

tanyaann's photo
Tue 05/06/08 04:21 PM
wow noway

evilolive's photo
Tue 05/06/08 04:22 PM
yea... wow indifferent

mlomakema88's photo
Tue 05/06/08 04:26 PM
Thats crazy..
some girls are just plain stupid!

bad_girl's photo
Tue 05/06/08 04:26 PM
noway noway

neo30's photo
Tue 05/06/08 04:26 PM
LMAO laugh laugh laugh laugh

DTHRomeo's photo
Tue 05/06/08 04:29 PM
Damn!

Someone f*cked up big time

laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Tue 05/06/08 04:30 PM
Are you in an exclusive dating relationship? I think the only thing she did wrong was trying to lie to you in the beginning. I don't see anything wrong with dating more then one person at a time though. She should have been upfront with you and said something like "Whoops, I have the wrong number."
I myself think theres nothing wrong with dating more then one person unless you become intimate, then you should only date that one person. Now if you decide that you only want to date one person and you both agree...then of course, you shouldn't try to be a playa!!

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Tue 05/06/08 04:31 PM

So I met this girl online some weeks back. She was funny, interesting, sexy, and cool. In a word, I was interested.

One fine afternoon, she called me, and after our usual energetic and funny conversation, I asked her out that Friday. She accepted, of course... I mean, it is ME asking, right? smokin

So after a few more minutes of small talk, she informed me that she had reached her destination. She was at her mother's house, and was about to go inside... Cool, I needed to wash my car and pick up a bite to eat.

Then... It happened...

(RING)
Taylor: Hello?
Chick: (In a sexy voice) Hey Hey...
Taylor: (Smiling and enjoying this sexy voice) What's up girl?
Chick: I'm at Main. Do I keep going straight, or turn left at the next light?
Taylor: Huh?
Chick: I'm almost there I think... I'm at Main. Do I keep going straight, or turn left at the next light?
Taylor: Ohhh... Go straight two more lights... (Pause)
Chick: (Sounding excited)OK, gotcha... Then what?
Taylor: Now turn left... (Pause)
Chick: K...
Taylor: Now look at your phone...
Chick: Huh?
Taylor: Look at the number you dialed...
Chick: ****! *click*

About 5 minutes passed, and after my initial disgust subsided, I texted her "Ooops..."

To my surprise, I got a response text:

"What happened? My phone rang, and I picked it up, and there was some girl talking... It was crazy! And it had your number. Did you try to call me?"

noway

Of course I didn't let it slide. I called her later and made jokes about it, ensuring her that I knew it was her. The cell phone carriers don't have 'wires' to cross. Of course she denied it completely. Until the next morning, when i got a phone call, explaining that she needed to be honest. It was her, and she was meeting some guy she met at a club for dinner.

The moral of this story is:

Ladies: Men don't have a monopoly on being wannabe playas. Some of you try it too. Only, I can smell you out rather quickly.

and Guys: If you want to know how to pay back a "playa" let me know, and maybe I'll post my revenge. It was quite funny.




I'll be the first to admit I was a "playah" for a while ... not in bed mind you, just dating multiples.

And that was exactly my take on it .. your advice to guys above.

I figured .. heck I'm givin' "back to the community". Becuz I had been played.

Only problem was I hurt a couple guys in the meantime. OUCH.

So ya .. payback's a b*tch eh?

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Tue 05/06/08 04:33 PM

Are you in an exclusive dating relationship? I think the only thing she did wrong was trying to lie to you in the beginning. I don't see anything wrong with dating more then one person at a time though. She should have been upfront with you and said something like "Whoops, I have the wrong number."
I myself think theres nothing wrong with dating more then one person unless you become intimate, then you should only date that one person. Now if you decide that you only want to date one person and you both agree...then of course, you shouldn't try to be a playa!!


Oh, I agree. I wouldn't be the least bit upset or surprised if a beautiful woman already has a suitor or two. Hell, if that's a sin when 'dating' in the beginning, then color me guilty.

But you hit the nail on the head. To borrow a phrase from the hood: "You aint gotta lie to kick it".

If you don't know me from a can of paint, what reason would you have to lie to me? It's not that critical... If you lie about something that silly now, then you're gonna lie about much more important things later.

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Tue 05/06/08 04:34 PM
Edited by rtaylor74 on Tue 05/06/08 04:35 PM




I'll be the first to admit I was a "playah" for a while ... not in bed mind you, just dating multiples.

And that was exactly my take on it .. your advice to guys above.

I figured .. heck I'm givin' "back to the community". Becuz I had been played.

Only problem was I hurt a couple guys in the meantime. OUCH.

So ya .. payback's a b*tch eh?


My payback to her was brutal... smokin

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Tue 05/06/08 04:46 PM
Screw revenge, best thing you can do is go on unphased...and take me out. :wink: