Why do you love someone so much, but yet they make you so crazy you want to pull your hair out?

By making me crazy is asking me everyday if I love him and if i want to be with him. If i didnt want to be with him, I would tell him.

And that thoughs little fights make me go nuts, and make me want to get up and walk away.

Example:
(I call him, we talk for 5mins, one of us looses srvice, I call him back to be nice, and he is like what do you want?, I hang up and leave him alone for the rest of the night. then in the morning i have tons of texts and messages asking if i love him and want to be with him.)

OR

I call him at 4am, and he is in a hurry to go get ready for work, and doesnt talk to me more then 2mins, I say fine you wont be talking to me tonight. and he flipps out before I can explain to him that i work till 10 at night. He said you give up easy or just say fine and want to walk away. And then I get yelled at for not telling him that i work till 10pm at night. I tell him excuse me but you were in a rush to go to bed and i didnt get to tell him. he says he was tired..i understand that.

I just dont know what to do anymore. We get in little knit-picks and I just want to leave. But I love him and cant just leave him. Because he tells me he wants me and only me with him.

I'm in the same boat....only I'm married to him...


When and If you figure it out please let me know ok....

Sounds like love to me...just enjoy it..cause if it's that bad you will eventually leave..BUT if it is true love...make the best of the best time and try to ignore the rest....

nothing is ever the way we expect it to be...our expectations are higher than reality....

Lyrics from Avenue Q. "The More You Ruv Someone"

Kate Monster:
Why can’t people get along and love each other, Christmas Eve?

Christmas Eve:
You think getting along same as loving?
Sometimes love right where you hating most, Kate Monster.

Kate Monster:
Huh?

Christmas Eve:
The more you love someone,
The more you want to kill ‘em.
The more you love someone,
The more he make you cry

Though you are try
For making peace
With them and loving,
That’s why you love so strong
You like to make him die!

The more you love someone,
The more he make you crazy.
The more you love someone,
The more you wishing him dead!

Sometime you look at him
And only see fat and lazy,
And wanting baseball bat
For hitting him on his head!

Love

Kate Monster:
Love

Christmas Eve:
And hate

Kate Monster:
And hate

Christmas Eve:
They like two brothers

Kate Monster:
Brothers

Christmas Eve:
Who go on a date

Kate Monster:
Who....what?

Christmas Eve:
Where one of them goes,
Other one follows
You inviting love
He also bringing sorrows

Kate Monster:
Ah, yes.

Christmas Eve:
The more you love someone,
The more you want to kill ‘em.
Loving and killing
Fit like hand in glove!

Kate Monster:
Hand in glove.

Christmas Eve:
So if there someone
You are wanting so
To kill ‘em.
You go and find him.
And you get him.
And you no kill him.
‘Cause chances good

Both:
He is your love.

you chose wrong..

I dont know.

He tells me if I want to walk away then I dont love him or have feelings for him, like he does for me. It kinda makes me feel like he is not listening to me when I tell him I love him and stuff, or make me feel like im worthless.

sounds like you both have insecurity issues...jmho

Love isnt something you can tell to make someone see it
Its felt, inside you.
Its not about manipulating.
I dunno who you seeing but if he did love you you would be here posting this today

sounds to me like your being played,,,,,,,,sounds like it's his way or th hiway,,,,,,,,guess what,,,,,u don't haft to be in that relationship,,,,,,,,like th saying goes,,,,,,,,run forest run

To me he sounds like he is still a little inmature. He's playing a little bit of a game with you and he is insecure with himself

Another thing is that he can ignore me for 16hours, and when I try to ignore him for that long he drives me that nuts that I end up talking to him. But I did last 7hours.

He can be so tired and cut our phone convos short at night, and then I'm up to all hours b/c I'm not sleepy yet. But its like a sin when I'm tired and want to go to bed at 10-11. And tells me to stop yawning b/c it's making him tired and his hyper.

court
get out of it
now
just a friendly advice
really

His myspace profile says single, and he no longer has what he had on his profile on here.

So...um...I guess...I'm single?

Do you like to have head games played on you? Because that is what is sounds like he is doing.

court email me

done.

It's crazy, argh. And I'm sick of it.

Totally WTF.

I'm just curious if you read your own post? I'm pretty sure the answer you seek is in them.