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Topic: Why
Neurofriction's photo
Fri 05/09/08 01:43 AM



another ignore me night. grumble
poor you flowerforyou drinker

he is probably sleeping.

argh, but then tomrrow if my friends come over and want to go out, ill probably neved hear the end of that. then he will probably say im ignoring him or something.


Yes I was asleep and no you won't hear a thing about your friends and going out.
I don't know why you keep posting stuff that isn't real unless you just want the drama.
I don't.

Neurofriction's photo
Fri 05/09/08 02:55 AM

What a headache. If you love him and want to be with him, sit him down and calmly explain to him what his insecurities are doing to your relationship.

If you're sick of him (cuz WOW I definitely would get sick of that really quickly), then tell him to quit being an insecure jerk who's just messing with your head.

Guys that are THAT paranoid are one or more of the following:

*Nuts
*Selfish, inconsiderate jerks
*Playing games
*Cheating on you and is afraid you'll do the same or find out
*Control freaks
*Abusive
*Completely insecure and feel unworthy to be with someone so attractive


Regardless of what the reason(s) is/are, the point is, it's immature behavior and needs to be nipped in the bud.


I'm not insecure. The last someone was out with friends I simply asked if they had fun. Guess I am being used for a little drama is all I can figure. I think someone should read my profile again. It does say no games.
Anyway I would never come on here to talk bad about someone I care about even if I feel played so I'll stop. Anyone who is mature at all will figure out this post is not an honest view of me.
I do really want this girl but she will have to chase me down if she was real about me. I'm done trying cuz I DON'T PLAY GAMES. Sorry hun if it was all a mistake but you'll have to prove that to me. I don't really care for anyone putting me down. I know who I am.

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Fri 05/09/08 03:50 AM
Edited by XElectrikXGlamorousX on Fri 05/09/08 04:06 AM
I'm sorry Bill for all this stupid post I make in the thread. I was venting and I hope you know that. I say it out of angry or when I am upset with you. I do love you and want to be with you, you just need to help me out in the long run.

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Fri 05/09/08 03:55 AM

Another thing is that he can ignore me for 16hours, and when I try to ignore him for that long he drives me that nuts that I end up talking to him. But I did last 7hours.

He can be so tired and cut our phone convos short at night, and then I'm up to all hours b/c I'm not sleepy yet. But its like a sin when I'm tired and want to go to bed at 10-11. And tells me to stop yawning b/c it's making him tired and his hyper.

I went through this with the last one I went out with. I told him he was being selfish and I needed my sleep. He would fall asleep in his chair at 800pm and I would leave him alone. But, when I wanted to go to sleep early he would say "why do we have to revolve everything around your sleep schedule". I just thought it was selfish of him.

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Fri 05/09/08 07:09 AM
i was in a relation close to that at one time when i was like 22 or so. i only played my part because she aloud me and vise versa. if this is a new thing less then a year it is time to change it. or it is doomed you can make it work for awhile but it is not going to be good in the end. if it's been over a year there is no help for you. no matter preist, counseling ,all a waist of time but it is issue's you both have not just one sided. deal with them woman and make your man want to deal with his. good luck hope the best for ya. flowerforyou

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