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It sounds like you both play little games to me. It sounds like you just need to relax a little bit and let things happen naturally. I think maybe you both are trying to force the relationship to happen to quickly...slow down!!!
I myself just got into a new relationship and sometimes it does drive you crazy. BUT we don't play those little games!! I guess with age comes wisdom...if you have to ask someone if they want to be with you and if they really love you, then is it really worth it? Obviously, he wants to be with me or he wouldn't be calling me and texting me all the time! Don't over think things..just let it come naturally! He must care about you or he wouldn't be wasting his time!! Good luck 
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Maybe he is just freaking out over the idea that he is falling so deep for someone online and over the phone that he has never met. Maybe he is scared to death to trust all the way when he can't see the object of his feelings. Maybe he knows he is messing things up but isn't sure how to deal with this type of relationship.
I'm sure it's not you that is the problem. Nor do I think that he isn't for real about you. Maybe he needs an online shrink.  I wouldn't run off if you have a little time to figure him out.
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Why do you love someone so much, but yet they make you so crazy you want to pull your hair out? By making me crazy is asking me everyday if I love him and if i want to be with him. If i didnt want to be with him, I would tell him. It's easy to say, especially if you mean it. Nuff said. |
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Maybe I'm not seeing the whole picture here... but I don't understand why you are putting up with it. How long have you guys been dating, if that's even what it is?
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His myspace profile says single, and he no longer has what he had on his profile on here. So...um...I guess...I'm single?  stop you "love" him and he "loves" you...you 2 are going to work things out |
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Why do you love someone so much, but yet they make you so crazy you want to pull your hair out? By making me crazy is asking me everyday if I love him and if i want to be with him. If i didnt want to be with him, I would tell him. And that thoughs little fights make me go nuts, and make me want to get up and walk away. Example: (I call him, we talk for 5mins, one of us looses srvice, I call him back to be nice, and he is like what do you want?, I hang up and leave him alone for the rest of the night. then in the morning i have tons of texts and messages asking if i love him and want to be with him.) OR I call him at 4am, and he is in a hurry to go get ready for work, and doesnt talk to me more then 2mins, I say fine you wont be talking to me tonight. and he flipps out before I can explain to him that i work till 10 at night. He said you give up easy or just say fine and want to walk away. And then I get yelled at for not telling him that i work till 10pm at night. I tell him excuse me but you were in a rush to go to bed and i didnt get to tell him. he says he was tired..i understand that. I just dont know what to do anymore. We get in little knit-picks and I just want to leave. But I love him and cant just leave him. Because he tells me he wants me and only me with him. One cent shy of over-obsessive...be careful with this one dear.
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Another thing is that he can ignore me for 16hours, and when I try to ignore him for that long he drives me that nuts that I end up talking to him. But I did last 7hours. He can be so tired and cut our phone convos short at night, and then I'm up to all hours b/c I'm not sleepy yet. But its like a sin when I'm tired and want to go to bed at 10-11. And tells me to stop yawning b/c it's making him tired and his hyper. Dont lose any sleep over this, you know what you have to do. |
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another ignore me night.
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Edited by
OneLastShot
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Thu 05/08/08 07:35 PM
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another ignore me night. 
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another ignore me night.  he is probably sleeping. argh, but then tomrrow if my friends come over and want to go out, ill probably neved hear the end of that. then he will probably say im ignoring him or something. |
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another ignore me night. he is probably sleeping. argh, but then tomrrow if my friends come over and want to go out, ill probably neved hear the end of that. then he will probably say im ignoring him or something. good luck with that
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Edited by
UplandHunter
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Thu 05/08/08 06:58 PM
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Sounds like two people willing to play games and not walk away...when you both know the answer.
Dang I cant spell tonight |
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Edited by
OneLastShot
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Thu 05/08/08 07:36 PM
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Sounds like to people willing to play games and not walk away...when you both no the answer. I dont think he is hating, just saying the truth probably. |
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Sounds like to people willing to play games and not walk away...when you both no the answer. I dont think he is hating, just saying the truth probably. No hate....just see no reason for games...you will only get hurt or hurt someone else. |
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Sounds like to people willing to play games and not walk away...when you both no the answer. I dont think he is hating, just saying the truth probably. No hate....just see no reason for games...you will only get hurt or hurt someone else. okay sorry buddy
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What a headache. If you love him and want to be with him, sit him down and calmly explain to him what his insecurities are doing to your relationship.
If you're sick of him (cuz WOW I definitely would get sick of that really quickly), then tell him to quit being an insecure jerk who's just messing with your head. Guys that are THAT paranoid are one or more of the following: *Nuts *Selfish, inconsiderate jerks *Playing games *Cheating on you and is afraid you'll do the same or find out *Control freaks *Abusive *Completely insecure and feel unworthy to be with someone so attractive Regardless of what the reason(s) is/are, the point is, it's immature behavior and needs to be nipped in the bud. |
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another ignore me night. 
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Edited by
OneLastShot
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Thu 05/08/08 07:34 PM
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