so i ran into one of my good guy friends the other day when i was out i havnt seen him in a few years but he used to be really close and actually every since about 9th grade people have been saying that we are goin to end up together at some point in time, and like every girl he has dated has disliked me cuz they thought i was tryin to get with him but i never had feelings for him as more then a friend well i went over to his house when ran into him to catch up and he ended up kissin me so now im a lil confused i mean the best relationships are built on friendships and people have been tellin us for years we should be together but im afriad of ruining a friendship anyone have an advice or been in a similar situation (sry this is so long)

Just go with what your heart is telling you.

If you think it's better to be just friends then that's your choice if not then at least try it out and see what happens from there. Good luck.

First off, don't fear the period.

Second off, there might have been something underlying there or else he wouldn't have started mackin' on you. If you feel the same way, then go for it... if not... well, then you're gonna have to set some limits, or else he's gonna keep with the attempted mackin' on you.

sex with friends never ruins anything

I was in a situation like that a few years ago! we were friends for 7 years, and his family asked why he wouldn't ask me out! He finally did, and we had a great relationship!! Unfortunately, he passed away 2 years ago!

I would say that your desire to take it further needs to be stronger than your fear of ruining the friendship first off. But, just because others say you're a good match should not effect your decision. IMO

thanx for the help you guys are the best

yvw!

Hey, one that made actual sense!

Awww thanks! I can finally put a tally up for one.

And I see your the president of a pessimist club chapter as well.

Hey...I don't see how you'd be ruinin a frienship? I mean if ur friend dated him and just broke up with him that would be one thing, but if they are over with...then you should have nothing to worry about. Right. Unless ur friend is holding onto the past. N E way u might want to get to know this guy a little better.

(((Redsox)))

I think that is the longest run on sentence in history

ok im a lil confused on this my friend never dated him and i have already known him for like 8 yrs or so so i know him pretty well but thanx anyway

haha sry didnt feel like wasting space with puncuation

I'm fine now!!

Couldn't you tell by the kiss if it was the real deal?

I kiss everyone for that reason.

LOL..President, CEO and a CLIENT!!! But can at least recognise some sense when I see it too and give kudos for that rarity.

I'm ok now, thanx!!