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Topic: Received sad news I think
Derekkye's photo
Mon 05/05/08 08:02 PM
I just learned a few hours ago that my 14 year old niece had sex with her boyfriend. The sad part is I don't think they were in love, but rather did it cause that's what the world teaches. drinker If they are in love. sad if they did it for discovery. Call me old fashioned. grumble

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Mon 05/05/08 08:03 PM

I just learned a few hours ago that my 14 year old niece had sex with her boyfriend. The sad part is I don't think they were in love, but rather did it cause that's what the world teaches. drinker If they are in love. sad if they did it for discovery. Call me old fashioned. grumble

Where are the cops

FearandLoathing's photo
Mon 05/05/08 08:04 PM
Always was for teaching the use of condoms...inevitably would have happened, hell not a lot of people do it for love anymore. Sorry to hear this.

Derekkye's photo
Mon 05/05/08 08:06 PM
not a lot of people do it for love anymore

- that's the sad part sad sad sad

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Mon 05/05/08 08:07 PM
If the dude she was caught... er... with is over the age of consent (18 in some states, 21 in others), then said dimwit is guilty of statutory rape and should be dealt with properly.

My cousin's just-turned-eighteen daughter got knocked up by her tattooed-up d-bag of a boyfriend not too long ago. Even worse is the fact she wants to KEEP the kid too, DESPITE the fact she hasn't even gotten herself a half-way decent job to be able to afford the kid with. So- unless said tattooed d-bag decides to get respectable and get a job to support her and the kid-to-be with- their lives will have been gone to waste before they even got out of the gate.


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Mon 05/05/08 08:07 PM
You just "learned"...????

Was it on a webcam????

noway noway noway

Derekkye's photo
Mon 05/05/08 08:08 PM

If the dude she was caught... er... with is over the age of consent (18 in some states, 21 in others), then said dimwit is guilty of statutory rape and should be dealt with properly.

My cousin's just-turned-eighteen daughter got knocked up by her tattooed-up d-bag of a boyfriend not too long ago. Even worse is the fact she wants to KEEP the kid too, DESPITE the fact she hasn't even gotten herself a half-way decent job to be able to afford the kid with. So- unless said tattooed d-bag decides to get respectable and get a job to support her and the kid-to-be with- their lives will have been gone to waste before they even got out of the gate.




Canada not a crime I don't think - guy is 16 ???

ccindyct's photo
Mon 05/05/08 08:08 PM
Do you really think a 14 year old knows what love is? I know at 14 I didn't. I think it's sad.

lifestooshort6's photo
Mon 05/05/08 08:11 PM

I just learned a few hours ago that my 14 year old niece had sex with her boyfriend. The sad part is I don't think they were in love, but rather did it cause that's what the world teaches. drinker If they are in love. sad if they did it for discovery. Call me old fashioned. grumble


it's not old fashioned, it's sad that kids these days have NO idea what they are really doing. it is a spiritual thing not just physical.
i am sad for her:cry:

Derekkye's photo
Mon 05/05/08 08:12 PM

Do you really think a 14 year old knows what love is? I know at 14 I didn't. I think it's sad.


No I don't. It is sad. flowerforyou

lifestooshort6's photo
Mon 05/05/08 08:12 PM


If the dude she was caught... er... with is over the age of consent (18 in some states, 21 in others), then said dimwit is guilty of statutory rape and should be dealt with properly.

My cousin's just-turned-eighteen daughter got knocked up by her tattooed-up d-bag of a boyfriend not too long ago. Even worse is the fact she wants to KEEP the kid too, DESPITE the fact she hasn't even gotten herself a half-way decent job to be able to afford the kid with. So- unless said tattooed d-bag decides to get respectable and get a job to support her and the kid-to-be with- their lives will have been gone to waste before they even got out of the gate.




Canada not a crime I don't think - guy is 16 ???

not a crime in Canada if the girl is 14,sadly.

chriserwalk032786's photo
Mon 05/05/08 08:12 PM
Edited by chriserwalk032786 on Mon 05/05/08 08:15 PM
I don't agree with it, but no one does it "for love" when they're that old. In fact, most people don't do it for love at all. Really, are you doing it because you're attracted to them or are you waiting to love them first? Sure she was too young, but kids are going to make that mistake. Especially when we promote it.

Derekkye's photo
Mon 05/05/08 08:12 PM


I just learned a few hours ago that my 14 year old niece had sex with her boyfriend. The sad part is I don't think they were in love, but rather did it cause that's what the world teaches. drinker If they are in love. sad if they did it for discovery. Call me old fashioned. grumble


it's not old fashioned, it's sad that kids these days have NO idea what they are really doing. it is a spiritual thing not just physical.
i am sad for her:cry:


agree flowerforyou :smile:

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Mon 05/05/08 08:15 PM



If the dude she was caught... er... with is over the age of consent (18 in some states, 21 in others), then said dimwit is guilty of statutory rape and should be dealt with properly.

My cousin's just-turned-eighteen daughter got knocked up by her tattooed-up d-bag of a boyfriend not too long ago. Even worse is the fact she wants to KEEP the kid too, DESPITE the fact she hasn't even gotten herself a half-way decent job to be able to afford the kid with. So- unless said tattooed d-bag decides to get respectable and get a job to support her and the kid-to-be with- their lives will have been gone to waste before they even got out of the gate.




Canada not a crime I don't think - guy is 16 ???

not a crime in Canada if the girl is 14,sadly.


Gee. Too bad. I was looking forward to the eventual "dude who hid the sausage with my niece is now gettin' violated by F-Dog and his prison mates" story that woulda happened if it took place here in the U.S.

I guess you'll just have to resort to going to said d-bag's place and pummeling him with some baseball bats or something.

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Mon 05/05/08 08:17 PM

not a lot of people do it for love anymore

- that's the sad part sad sad sad


I'm old fashioned too - haven't been in a real loving relationship in a long time; and although I've had many chances, haven't done that since the relationship ended...

I know how you feel, Derrek - I think it's that loss of innocense that hurts the most.

:cry:

lifestooshort6's photo
Mon 05/05/08 08:18 PM

I don't agree with it, but no one does it "for love" when they're that old. In fact, most people don't do it for love at all. Really, are you doing it because you're attracted to them or are you waiting to love them first? Sure she was too long, but kids are going to make that mistake. Especially when we promote it.


media and society in general promote excessive sexual behaviour. too bad people don't seem to have any self-respect and love for themselves

i feel sad for people who have sex without love, truly what is the point if you don't love the person

ccindyct's photo
Mon 05/05/08 08:19 PM




If the dude she was caught... er... with is over the age of consent (18 in some states, 21 in others), then said dimwit is guilty of statutory rape and should be dealt with properly.

My cousin's just-turned-eighteen daughter got knocked up by her tattooed-up d-bag of a boyfriend not too long ago. Even worse is the fact she wants to KEEP the kid too, DESPITE the fact she hasn't even gotten herself a half-way decent job to be able to afford the kid with. So- unless said tattooed d-bag decides to get respectable and get a job to support her and the kid-to-be with- their lives will have been gone to waste before they even got out of the gate.




Canada not a crime I don't think - guy is 16 ???

not a crime in Canada if the girl is 14,sadly.


Gee. Too bad. I was looking forward to the eventual "dude who hid the sausage with my niece is now gettin' violated by F-Dog and his prison mates" story that woulda happened if it took place here in the U.S.

I guess you'll just have to resort to going to said d-bag's place and pummeling him with some baseball bats or something.


I do kind of have a problem with this. My son just turned 17, has a girlfriend who is 14. They are not having sex, we talk about it and they are waiting. However...here's the thing..if they do have sex and it is consensual (?SP)...and she's right there with him and agreeing to it...if her parents find out and decide to go after my son, no matter what she said he'd be prosecuted. He'd end up on the sex offender list for life.
Right next to the rapist and child molesters. Somehow that does not seem right. Does it??

Tanzkity's photo
Mon 05/05/08 08:19 PM
Welcome to the 21st century..........glad you made it......

Kravynn's photo
Mon 05/05/08 08:20 PM
My first time was with a random stranger just because everyone was doing it. My second time was with a guy I was dating for a few weeks, the third time, I got pregnant. 2 weeks after my 18th birthday my son was born. Hell be 14 this summer and I just do all I can to keep him safe and make him realize what a huge decision and responsibility sex is.

No1sLove's photo
Mon 05/05/08 08:21 PM
Society and the media are turning our kids into adult wannabes. It's really sad. Let them stay kids for crying out loud! :cry:

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