Topic: love is not jealous
buttons's photo
Mon 05/05/08 05:29 PM
for me.... your importance is your kids and your partner, mothers father family first cause your partner should be your best friend.... then others after that:smile:

chuck366's photo
Mon 05/05/08 05:30 PM

for me.... your importance is your kids and your partner, mothers father family first cause your partner should be your best friend.... then others after that:smile:


I think you involve in family so importance is all? no ?

buttons's photo
Mon 05/05/08 05:32 PM
family blood is very important... but your partner should always feel just as special... for you should be closest and share all with them .... and a partner never should have that "jealous feeling" if they are made to be just as important as they... then come all the rest of the friends.... or ex gf whatever....laugh

chuck366's photo
Mon 05/05/08 05:34 PM

family blood is very important... but your partner should always feel just as special... for you should be closest and share all with them .... and a partner never should have that "jealous feeling" if they are made to be just as important as they... then come all the rest of the friends.... or ex gf whatever....laugh


nice. thanks

buttons's photo
Mon 05/05/08 05:38 PM

Jealousy is a sign of insecurity, not a very sexy attribute...I am not jealous I can go out with a man and look at a woman and look at him and say "look at that ass on her and she is cute huh?" I am not into woman but I can appreciate the female form!!
and on this comment.... yes it is if there is no reason for it.... and perhaps jealousy is mistaken for a badflowerforyou vibe that is right sometimes..

chuck366's photo
Mon 05/05/08 05:40 PM


Jealousy is a sign of insecurity, not a very sexy attribute...I am not jealous I can go out with a man and look at a woman and look at him and say "look at that ass on her and she is cute huh?" I am not into woman but I can appreciate the female form!!
and on this comment.... yes it is if there is no reason for it.... and perhaps jealousy is mistaken for a badflowerforyou vibe that is right sometimes..


jealousy is a normal reaction, I feel it comes down to self control and choices....but Ive been wrong before...:smile:

buttons's photo
Mon 05/05/08 05:44 PM
true chuck and i definately agree but what one considers jealousy another doesnt.. they consider it reason to wonder?

chuck366's photo
Mon 05/05/08 05:45 PM

true chuck and i definately agree but what one considers jealousy another doesnt.. they consider it reason to wonder?


there lies my question!:wink: drinker

buttons's photo
Mon 05/05/08 05:47 PM
for instance you <meaning chuck> has a hot girlfriend..... and u love her very much....... ya been with her sometime... you feel she is the best and she tells you she is coming to stay with you and she doesnt call you or show up.... say 2 times in the last 4 months and she has been spending much time with her friend that is male that is "just a friend" would you not "wonder" or would that be called jealousy .... people think differently on what is considered jealousy or reason....

buttons's photo
Mon 05/05/08 05:49 PM
Edited by buttons on Mon 05/05/08 05:49 PM
now in this case chuck... you may have one male friend be thinking that you are jealous...... and another male friend tell u that u have reason to wonder.... facts are this situation "in my eyes anyway" should never even happen...

chuck366's photo
Mon 05/05/08 05:49 PM

for instance you <meaning chuck> has a hot girlfriend..... and u love her very much....... ya been with her sometime... you feel she is the best and she tells you she is coming to stay with you and she doesnt call you or show up.... say 2 times in the last 4 months and she has been spending much time with her friend that is male that is "just a friend" would you not "wonder" or would that be called jealousy .... people think differently on what is considered jealousy or reason....


I would demand honesty, ,,,,,,,,but I want everything! won t settle........good point though!

Lily0923's photo
Mon 05/05/08 05:50 PM
I'm very jealous.... sometimes, but not at others...

Godschosengirl's photo
Mon 05/05/08 05:50 PM


good thread! substance here..... well for me id have to be honest and say no im not jealous unless for some reason given a reason to be? make sense? like for instance.... and i dont know if its really jealousy or not... if your partner tells ill say "his" friends that are female happy birthday but for your birthday doesnt come back when he said he would and never told you happy birthday? or when time is consumed all twords others and never on you... it may not be jealousy but longing for someone to love you and realizing that you dont matter?


Thats the line I am speaking of... good points...


I agree here. I'm jealous when I feel I have good reason to be.

buttons's photo
Mon 05/05/08 05:51 PM
laugh laugh :wink: lol again agree with ya....honesty is the best but i demand more than that..... i demand also the fact of no dought having to happen...

chuck366's photo
Mon 05/05/08 05:51 PM

I'm very jealous.... sometimes, but not at others...


we all are

buttons's photo
Mon 05/05/08 05:52 PM
and lily maybe its intuition..... your subconsious telling you something may not be right....

chuck366's photo
Mon 05/05/08 05:53 PM
Edited by chuck366 on Mon 05/05/08 05:54 PM

laugh laugh :wink: lol again agree with ya....honesty is the best but i demand more than that..... i demand also the fact of no dought having to happen...

I don t think I demand (dont want to change anyone) i just won t settle unless she fill my needs as a man, as would I. Demand wasn t the right word, I retract that

Lily0923's photo
Mon 05/05/08 05:54 PM

and lily maybe its intuition..... your subconsious telling you something may not be right....


sometimes I think, but I have a scorpio rising... and scorpios are VERY jealous by nature.

chuck366's photo
Mon 05/05/08 05:55 PM


and lily maybe its intuition..... your subconsious telling you something may not be right....


sometimes I think, but I have a scorpio rising... and scorpios are VERY jealous by nature.


scorpio's are "firecrackers"drinker

Lily0923's photo
Mon 05/05/08 05:56 PM



and lily maybe its intuition..... your subconsious telling you something may not be right....


sometimes I think, but I have a scorpio rising... and scorpios are VERY jealous by nature.


scorpio's are "firecrackers"drinker


Libra sun, scorpio rising... I'm the nicest b*tch you'll ever meet.