stay? I'm not having much luck at all! I feel like men take one look, and figure I'm not worth the time, or the effort!! I don't think I'm that bad looking!! I wonder why they won't even give me a chance! I really feel like I should go! I don't really want to, but I'm not having much luck!!

Whats the hurry?

<----turns the clash on "should i stay or should i go"

frustration!

what?

*bebops around the room*

dont leave Erica

I'm not having much luck in the dating area, though!! I guess for me, this is more "friends"!

Hey, I've been here 17 months and have had no luck at all either. I gave up looking for anyone here ages ago. But I stick around for the friends, the forums, and the fun. If I'm going to meet anyone, it will be in real life, not on a dating site....but there are still a lot of great people here, people worth knowing and talking with....

Stick around, you never know....

Uhm, stab in the dark here, but could it be because you are crying about it?

Call me crazy but.... ya, that would be my guess.

Take a step back and evaluate and change your "need" to a "want"

THat special someone may sign up tommorow or next week

listen to Lex... he's always right

Unless it's about similes

I guess, I like the forums!! Thanx, Lex! I'll give it a little more time!!

You already had luck once Erica. Just give it a little time darling. You cant just push a few buttons and make it happen.

I know, but I wouldn't exactly call it "luck", but I got a friend anyways!

Welcome to my life! But what's even worse for me, is that if they decide I'm "decent" enough looking for a date, once they get to know my personality, I'm history.

Tanya, apparently you have never met my ex-wife -- actually, I'm glad about that....!!

Me thinks you are cute but I had to dig to actually see what you looked like. I think there are a lot of guys like me, even younger ones, who just move on when your picture is not showing. Take your best pic and make it your main pic.

As I said I am just a normal visually oriented guy and look what it says at the bottom of my profile: "Your profile must contain some basic info and pic of your face close up. Dogs, other animal pics or cartoons do not count. I have a dog and I’ve been to Disney Land. Yes, my pics are recent, this is just how I look."

It's just a guy thing but it's important so why would you hide your pic when you are cute to start with.