You know ive often wondered why every one I know thinks im gay or secretly gay...even though I have a gf and no desire for a man.... ok the creepy hippy van song was a joke so leave that out of this!

Here is a list of things people consider me gay for!

I trim my hair daily and shave certain parts of my body.
I shave my face daily and use oitnments to prevent break outs.
I allways dress nice and worry about how I look
I allways make sure I smell good
I am extremely sensitive towards others feelings
I love anamils and hate guns
I dont care about trucks but love clothes
I dont like prince but love michel jakcson
I am allways using chap stick to prevent my lips from cracking
I am allways chewing on gum and checkin my breath.

this is just a small list of things I do every day, and many times I have been called gay for these and other things, my question is this.
Why is it considered gay if a guy cares about how he looks, and is allways making sure he is wel grooomed and is a bit sensitive.

My best friend is alot like you, very consious of his appearance, and we call him gay, but he gets more women than about any man I've ever seen.

You sound like the perfect man, a man who cares about how he looks and smells and who cares about other people's feelings.

You sound metrosexual not gay.

I do most of that stuff too. I also read Esquire magazine.

Gone are the days when gay meant happy may be they are old timers I do most of the things you say bar Michael Jackson. May be that has something to do with it

You must live in a backward town....

Well if you are comfortable with who you are, people will still like you, everyone has a label...just make yourself happy, that's all that matters, screw what others think about you...

those things don't make you gay, you just fall a little more on the spectrum as being more feminine. Which is not a bad thing.

prince is hawt

There's nothing wrong with the way you do things. People are just ignorant about some things.

i think its that Michael Jackson gig that dose it!!!

And you spell Always with two LL's....just kidding! =) You are who you are and sweetie don't give a sh** what other people think. Nice to have someone around who cares about how they look I always say!

Its very rare that someone with your qualities isn't gay... Only most of the gay people in the world are almost identical to you.

I have gay friends that don't do any of the things you've listed.

mj used to be hawt, but now he's creepy looking

I disagree with that statement!

keep doing what you are doing.

all the women i know like men who look after themselves.

I can fit into a lot of those things except;
I love guns
I have never liked mj
I dont use chapstick
I am not overly sensitive to others
And trucks, yeah, I like them too

btw, that's not gay. i like men who care how they look. nothing worse than a guy who thinks a real man looks like a slob.

If your gay & you know it clap your hands