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And the biggest point is, I learn the most about people from these forums - how they interact with others, how consistent their stories are from one post to another, what their facility with the language is, what their interests are, even some of their history. You don't get any of that from a picture. Are you saying we can't get busy Hiker? 'Cuz I thought I had that assurance on tap already. |
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Let me say I fell in love with Wiley based on his posts in this forum. I still don't know what he looks like. Nor do I care. 
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No, I figured that no one reads the "essay" if they don't like the pictures in the first place, that is again what a dating site is about. Visual stimulation. Otherwise you go to a literary web site and attract the opposite sex with poetry. Besides I rather talk about myself in private, all you have to do is ask. yes the OP comment was rude, but posting a profile with no pics, with cartoons or downloaded pictures is pointless, again on a dating web site... I agree with spqr. (of course I think he's totally hot  ) Women need to realize that men like visual stimulation. I am an artist and I love visual stimulation and beauty. It is also true that the mind is the sexiest thing about a person. If there is nothing upstairs... duh... the attraction dies quickly. I am really puzzled why anyone would not put their picture in their profile. You are basically selling yourself if you are looking for a mate or even just a date. Don't work against yourself. The guy in question is crude, rude and has no class any way you look at it. He was basically shopping and looking at pictures. (I'm surprised he wrote at all actually.) JB That's a mighty big brush you've painted us all with. Looks aren't everything. If they were, I wouldn't get anywhere. And the pics that are not real depict a portrait of the person behind it also. So it all speaks about the person. Men are visual and I have visual for them when the time comes for that but just to get to meet someone on the internet it is not the end all to me anyways. |
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Love is in the air
Love is in the air Oh oh oh Oh oh oh |
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And the biggest point is, I learn the most about people from these forums - how they interact with others, how consistent their stories are from one post to another, what their facility with the language is, what their interests are, even some of their history. You don't get any of that from a picture. Are you saying we can't get busy Hiker? 'Cuz I thought I had that assurance on tap already. Oh fo sho. But then, you are such a good speller! |
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No, I figured that no one reads the "essay" if they don't like the pictures in the first place, that is again what a dating site is about. Visual stimulation. Otherwise you go to a literary web site and attract the opposite sex with poetry. Besides I rather talk about myself in private, all you have to do is ask. yes the OP comment was rude, but posting a profile with no pics, with cartoons or downloaded pictures is pointless, again on a dating web site... I agree with spqr. (of course I think he's totally hot ) Women need to realize that men like visual stimulation. I am an artist and I love visual stimulation and beauty. It is also true that the mind is the sexiest thing about a person. If there is nothing upstairs... duh... the attraction dies quickly. I am really puzzled why anyone would not put their picture in their profile. You are basically selling yourself if you are looking for a mate or even just a date. Don't work against yourself. The guy in question is crude, rude and has no class any way you look at it. He was basically shopping and looking at pictures. (I'm surprised he wrote at all actually.) JB That's a mighty big brush you've painted us all with. Looks aren't everything. If they were, I wouldn't get anywhere. That's right, looks aren't everything, but you can make the best of what you have and flaunt it. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and if you radiated a positive attitude and joy, you will attract a lot of people into your life. On the other hand, you could be gorgeous and a nasty person and people will avoid you like the plague. If you have a good self image and a positive attitude you will do wondrous things. A little make up can't hurt either, and a flattering picture, or clothing. JB |
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No, I figured that no one reads the "essay" if they don't like the pictures in the first place, that is again what a dating site is about. Visual stimulation. Otherwise you go to a literary web site and attract the opposite sex with poetry. Besides I rather talk about myself in private, all you have to do is ask. yes the OP comment was rude, but posting a profile with no pics, with cartoons or downloaded pictures is pointless, again on a dating web site... I agree with spqr. (of course I think he's totally hot ) Women need to realize that men like visual stimulation. I am an artist and I love visual stimulation and beauty. It is also true that the mind is the sexiest thing about a person. If there is nothing upstairs... duh... the attraction dies quickly. I am really puzzled why anyone would not put their picture in their profile. You are basically selling yourself if you are looking for a mate or even just a date. Don't work against yourself. The guy in question is crude, rude and has no class any way you look at it. He was basically shopping and looking at pictures. (I'm surprised he wrote at all actually.) JB That's a mighty big brush you've painted us all with. Looks aren't everything. If they were, I wouldn't get anywhere. That's right, looks aren't everything, but you can make the best of what you have and flaunt it. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and if you radiated a positive attitude and joy, you will attract a lot of people into your life. On the other hand, you could be gorgeous and a nasty person and people will avoid you like the plague. If you have a good self image and a positive attitude you will do wondrous things. A little make up can't hurt either, and a flattering picture, or clothing. JB And in the end outer beauty is still ephemeral... |
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Edited by
wiley
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Fri 05/02/08 05:49 PM
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And in the end outer beauty is still ephemeral... Yep. And the person I want to be with is someone who I would still want to be with even when they are at their worst. Guess I'm just funny that way. |
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spqr, you seem like a fairly intelligent and reasonable person. Wouldn't you like to attract the same? I would think your essay would be interesting. And I can't speak for everyone on here, but I read them, and they matter to me. Picking a lifemate is so much more complicated than buying a car.
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And in the end outer beauty is still ...ephemeral This is true. So don't marry for looks alone. When you are both old and wrinkled up like prunes, it would be nice if you liked that old prune. 
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It's that bully attitude. He has to put someone down, because it makes him feel like he is better. It's messed up. I agree that it's a bully attitude. The idea that saying that sort of thing is a "put down" should only be in his mind and the minds of others who have to hurt to feel good about themselves. 
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spqr, you seem like a fairly intelligent and reasonable person. Wouldn't you like to attract the same? I would think your essay would be interesting. And I can't speak for everyone on here, but I read them, and they matter to me. Picking a lifemate is so much more complicated than buying a car. I don't like words... Down with words, no more reading, I'm blonde they should make profiles on tape for me. 
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I don't like words... Down with words, no more reading, I'm blonde they should make profiles on tape for me. Then all of my MM candidates would be: "I don't know what to SAY here." |
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spqr, you seem like a fairly intelligent and reasonable person. Wouldn't you like to attract the same? I would think your essay would be interesting. And I can't speak for everyone on here, but I read them, and they matter to me. Picking a lifemate is so much more complicated than buying a car. I don't like words... Down with words, no more reading, I'm blonde they should make profiles on tape for me.
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Do you think people come on here only to hook up sexually? Apparently not. Most people are looking for perfection and are hard to satisfy if not impossible. Some people just can't seem to find anyone "good enough" for them. Other people are too afraid to form a relationship. If people just wanted to hook up sexually, it would make things so simple. But nooooooo... they want to find their soul mate. Picky Picky Picky. I just want someone to turn me on enough to revive my sex life. A hot one night stand before I die. That's all I require.
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Any man that agressively seeks out "big ones" for quarreling purposes is obviously overcompensating for the disappointment he feels for his being cursed with a "LITTLE ONE".........
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I agree with spqr. (of course I think he's totally hot ) Well glad to see you have integrity.... 
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Any man that agressively seeks out "big ones" for quarreling purposes is obviously overcompensating for the disappointment he feels for his being cursed with a "LITTLE ONE"......... 
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I agree with spqr. (of course I think he's totally hot ) Well glad to see you have integrity.... |
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You might want to poll the ladies on here, but honestly, I think most of the guys on this site do that. I wonder what they are looking for? a quick hit. Lots of women too, nothing wrong with that. I find a little hypocryte complaning about that on a dating site...visual stimulation is the first step of attraction. What a sad world you live in. I'm much more stimulated by intelligence. And why you need 17 pics then? I don't see your phd or diploma in any of them..just skin like all of us. not trying to insult you or anything of that sort, but let's be adult ? at least she took the time to write an essay. I suppose you figured your magnificent beauty would get you what you want. No, I figured that no one reads the "essay" if they don't like the pictures in the first place, that is again what a dating site is about. Visual stimulation. Otherwise you go to a literary web site and attract the opposite sex with poetry. Besides I rather talk about myself in private, all you have to do is ask. yes the OP comment was rude, but posting a profile with no pics, with cartoons or downloaded pictures is pointless, again on a dating web site... I have messaged many men without pictures..on a dating site ..because I was so entranced by their words that I didn't notice that the pictures were all avatars..I would NEVER message a man without an essay ..on a dating site..because I am not going to develop the slightest interest in a man who can't be bothered to tell me a little bit about himself. It would never get to the "asking" stage. Do you think people come on here only to hook up sexually? I'll try to say this without offending you. Why you think that the picture of a cow should represent you in your page? And yes I do think that people comes to this sites to mainly hook up sexually. Let's say you go to a car dealer to buy a car, but the dealer won't show you the car until you read the car history, what would you do? please don't get offended, I'm just trying to understand. If the only thing I wanted from this site was sex, I'd delete my profile right now. I have yet to see anyone on here I'd want to be with. No offense.
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