Topic: How rude!!!!
Lily0923's photo
Fri 05/02/08 03:18 PM

You might want to poll the ladies on here, but honestly, I think most of the guys on this site do that. I wonder what they are looking for?


a quick hit.

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Fri 05/02/08 03:18 PM




Actually what's also rude is when a guy emails you and acts excited and that lasts a few days and then he stops. And then you ask him what his freaking problem is and he acts like you're the one with the problem. Now that's rude. Maybe I should stop answering emails at all?grumble


I thought you said you didn't get any e-mails?


ah, i should clarify that, i don't get many emails. i've had like 3 guys email me constantly for a few days and then stop suddenly, with no explanation. and i asked one if i had offended him and he said no. so yeah, i think i'll just not answer any mails at all. when i get them.


You might want to poll the ladies on here, but honestly, I think most of the guys on this site do that. I wonder what they are looking for?


They're not looking for me obviously. laugh Which is fine, because I'd only want to be friends with the men on here. I just think it's rude. Because when you do that, you cause people to think you're interested in them as a person, and then when you stop, they wonder what they did wrong. So I updated my profile warning them if that's their agenda to leave me alone. Hopefully, they'll read it and follow. flowerforyou

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Fri 05/02/08 03:19 PM


You might want to poll the ladies on here, but honestly, I think most of the guys on this site do that. I wonder what they are looking for?


a quick hit.


from me???? nooooooooo....laugh

Dragoness's photo
Fri 05/02/08 03:20 PM





every man i meet likes fat women, i should start a referral service.


Real men love women period with all of their differences and similarities. A woman who is not svelte can be the woman of his dreams just like a model type can. Real men know this.bigsmile


i guess i've never met a real man then, when they find out what i look like, they go away. laugh laugh laugh


I have never been slim and I crucified myself when I was younger trying to be the skinny minney I saw on the tv. Come to find out I was hot even with the extra. We have to see ourselves in a good light for others to see us there. That does not mean there are not assholes out there but one of the sexiest qualities for a woman is her confidence and then second is her ability to act like a lady so if you can get to these two points within yourself you will be sexier. Try itflowerforyou


It's not my weight that scares them away. :wink:


It still applies, I would thinkflowerforyou

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Fri 05/02/08 03:22 PM

I sometime ask for pic, just in general after we've spoken. Some people are just shy. On a couple of occasions I've chatted for a while nice conversations. The person then looked at my pic\profile, and told me. I don't date black guys... flat out. Uhm as if I had even ask them out on a date... At that point I usual say ok maybe we can be friends. noway


That's really a rude thing to say that to someone, even if its honest. (But you would think they would have at least waited to be asked out on a date.)

I would have said:

"Oh, that's okay, I don't date morons."

But then, that's just me. bigsmile

JB

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Fri 05/02/08 03:23 PM


I sometime ask for pic, just in general after we've spoken. Some people are just shy. On a couple of occasions I've chatted for a while nice conversations. The person then looked at my pic\profile, and told me. I don't date black guys... flat out. Uhm as if I had even ask them out on a date... At that point I usual say ok maybe we can be friends. noway


That's really a rude thing to say that to someone, even if its honest. (But you would think they would have at least waited to be asked out on a date.)

I would have said:

"Oh, that's okay, I don't date morons."

But then, that's just me. bigsmile

JB


it's rude to say you have a racial preference when dating?

spqr's photo
Fri 05/02/08 04:14 PM


You might want to poll the ladies on here, but honestly, I think most of the guys on this site do that. I wonder what they are looking for?


a quick hit.


Lots of women too, nothing wrong with that.

I find a little hypocryte complaning about that on a dating site...visual stimulation is the first step of attraction.

wiley's photo
Fri 05/02/08 04:15 PM

I just received a mail from some unknown to me user stating "You must be a big one no pics", What the hell???


You know what happens when people assume. They make an ASS out of U and ME. flowerforyou

Lily0923's photo
Fri 05/02/08 04:18 PM



You might want to poll the ladies on here, but honestly, I think most of the guys on this site do that. I wonder what they are looking for?


a quick hit.


Lots of women too, nothing wrong with that.

I find a little hypocryte complaning about that on a dating site...visual stimulation is the first step of attraction.


What a sad world you live in.

I'm much more stimulated by intelligence.

auburngirl's photo
Fri 05/02/08 04:19 PM
Lily I agree!!!! drinker

wiley's photo
Fri 05/02/08 04:20 PM




You might want to poll the ladies on here, but honestly, I think most of the guys on this site do that. I wonder what they are looking for?


a quick hit.


Lots of women too, nothing wrong with that.

I find a little hypocryte complaning about that on a dating site...visual stimulation is the first step of attraction.


What a sad world you live in.

I'm much more stimulated by intelligence.


Intelligence and personality are my top two. I've seen so called "hotties" who were some pretty damn ugly people.

buttons's photo
Fri 05/02/08 04:23 PM
hey hey hey now...... i might be a blue box but im not all that chubby! tell him to kiss off for judging u like that!laugh laugh

spqr's photo
Fri 05/02/08 04:23 PM




You might want to poll the ladies on here, but honestly, I think most of the guys on this site do that. I wonder what they are looking for?


a quick hit.


Lots of women too, nothing wrong with that.

I find a little hypocryte complaning about that on a dating site...visual stimulation is the first step of attraction.


What a sad world you live in.

I'm much more stimulated by intelligence.


And why you need 17 pics then? I don't see your phd or diploma in any of them..just skin like all of us.
not trying to insult you or anything of that sort, but let's be adult ?

wiley's photo
Fri 05/02/08 04:25 PM





You might want to poll the ladies on here, but honestly, I think most of the guys on this site do that. I wonder what they are looking for?


a quick hit.


Lots of women too, nothing wrong with that.

I find a little hypocryte complaning about that on a dating site...visual stimulation is the first step of attraction.


What a sad world you live in.

I'm much more stimulated by intelligence.


And why you need 17 pics then? I don't see your phd or diploma in any of them..just skin like all of us.
not trying to insult you or anything of that sort, but let's be adult ?


You should quit while you're behind. noway noway noway

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Fri 05/02/08 04:34 PM



I state I'm fat in my profile.takes the wind out of assholes like your e-mailer's sails.men like that usually live in mom's basement.


I'd go with the word "chubby" if you have to use the word fat then go with "fatty". :wink:

This concludes todays lesson about words ending in y. Class dismissed! laugh

no, sweetie- no. I am not chubby; I am fat. Fatty just sounds insulting.

i agree.fatty sounds like the grease left over when you fry hamburger.sick

Dragoness's photo
Fri 05/02/08 04:43 PM


I just received a mail from some unknown to me user stating "You must be a big one no pics", What the hell???


You know what happens when people assume. They make an ASS out of U and ME. flowerforyou



Very true wouldeeflowerforyou

Dragoness's photo
Fri 05/02/08 04:45 PM




You might want to poll the ladies on here, but honestly, I think most of the guys on this site do that. I wonder what they are looking for?


a quick hit.


Lots of women too, nothing wrong with that.

I find a little hypocryte complaning about that on a dating site...visual stimulation is the first step of attraction.


What a sad world you live in.

I'm much more stimulated by intelligence.


Visual stimulation is superficial.

adj4u's photo
Fri 05/02/08 04:46 PM

He's probbaly bald, got a beer gut and suffers form ED LOL bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile

(sweet sexy bald men don't take offense cos I wuv you) :wink: flowerforyou


hey it was not me

how dare you say that

laugh laugh laugh laugh

Dragoness's photo
Fri 05/02/08 04:47 PM




I state I'm fat in my profile.takes the wind out of assholes like your e-mailer's sails.men like that usually live in mom's basement.


I'd go with the word "chubby" if you have to use the word fat then go with "fatty". :wink:

This concludes todays lesson about words ending in y. Class dismissed! laugh

no, sweetie- no. I am not chubby; I am fat. Fatty just sounds insulting.

i agree.fatty sounds like the grease left over when you fry hamburger.sick


cute you are so dam cute...lol:wink: laugh flowerforyou

Dragoness's photo
Fri 05/02/08 04:49 PM


He's probbaly bald, got a beer gut and suffers form ED LOL bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile

(sweet sexy bald men don't take offense cos I wuv you) :wink: flowerforyou


hey it was not me

how dare you say that

laugh laugh laugh laugh


Adj, no it was not youflowerforyou