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Topic: I'm starting to feel Lonely
LIJOMA Joined Wed 01/09/08 Posts: 2591	Fri 05/02/08 09:24 AM
I've gone without a significant other for over 10 years. It'll pass..... im at 4 and counting, and im fine you will make it flirty yuppers, 15 for me,,, now I wonder if I could ever do it again Going on 3 for me. After the missing your ex moves on, enjoy being single. I had to learn how to love me, and accept that I am far more than what he deserved, and love it now... (Though sometimes I want companionship and adult conversations, those feelings pass fast when I start thinking of all the damn drama that goes along with it)

sstammy9 Joined Mon 03/05/07 Posts: 976	Fri 05/02/08 09:25 AM
I am having the same problem i have been with this guy for 11 yrs we have kids together, i told him i dont love him no more ever sence i did that he dont even want anything to do with the kids it is sad, but i do how ever miss having some one around and as the father he helped with the kids but no more

dodger1953 Joined Wed 03/19/08 Posts: 590	Fri 05/02/08 09:27 AM
it will pass like a storm. pick up the pieces and burn some save some. you got this far and you will get further. gives you something to look forward to. get excited!!!!!!!!!!

sstammy9 Joined Mon 03/05/07 Posts: 976	Fri 05/02/08 09:28 AM
so true,

dodger1953 Joined Wed 03/19/08 Posts: 590	Fri 05/02/08 09:30 AM
so true, i try to do better when i move on. thats why we all get so damn picky is we keep learning more about ourselves as well as others!

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Fri 05/02/08 09:31 AM
look at it this way.... ya could still be lonely with him there too... usually in the end of a relationship u are very lonely anyway... and u will find things to occupy your time shortly takes some time gl to ya!

sstammy9 Joined Mon 03/05/07 Posts: 976	Fri 05/02/08 09:33 AM
you are soo right i am glad hes gone, but its still the fact bout his own kids thats what hurts, the kids miss him now if i had stayed with him he would be a good father but no, oh well things are better with out him anyways,

dodger1953 Joined Wed 03/19/08 Posts: 590	Fri 05/02/08 09:36 AM
you are soo right i am glad hes gone, but its still the fact bout his own kids thats what hurts, the kids miss him now if i had stayed with him he would be a good father but no, oh well things are better with out him anyways, kids are the most resilient of all people. they bounce back every time

ddn122 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 12855	Fri 05/02/08 09:36 AM
never, island??? never ever??[ quote] I've gone without a significant other for over 10 years. It'll pass..... im at 4 and counting, and im fine you will make it flirty yuppers, 15 for me,,, now I wonder if I could ever do it again

Peekinin Joined Mon 03/17/08 Posts: 4970	Fri 05/02/08 10:11 AM
never, island??? never ever??[ quote] I've gone without a significant other for over 10 years. It'll pass..... im at 4 and counting, and im fine you will make it flirty yuppers, 15 for me,,, now I wonder if I could ever do it again 15 years makes it feel that way ddn but my Mom always said,,,never say never I do ok for about three months,

pkh Joined Sat 05/26/07 Posts: 14961	Fri 05/02/08 10:25 AM
It's been about 2 weeks since my ex moved out. I have seen him on occasion, and I DON'T want him back, but I am missing the fact of someone being here with me. awww you will get through it,the loneliness is hard best of luck

RicJL Joined Wed 03/19/08 Posts: 1055	Fri 05/02/08 10:28 AM
It's been about 2 weeks since my ex moved out. I have seen him on occasion, and I DON'T want him back, but I am missing the fact of someone being here with me. 3 and a half years for me. I think all normal people feel lonely at times. We are social animals and our psyche is geared to want a companion.