Previous 1 3
Topic: Would you date someone who was disable?
LoveInTheDark's photo
Wed 01/31/07 07:28 AM
Would you date someone who was disabled, and why.

michael1313's photo
Wed 01/31/07 07:36 AM
I'm on that list,and would like to hear this one as well...

LoveInTheDark's photo
Wed 01/31/07 07:41 AM
because I'm disabled, and many of the ladies i've dated tried to use me.

poisonflightledr's photo
Wed 01/31/07 07:41 AM
I'm a disable vet and she's a disable vet so we're both disabled dating
disabled

pms64's photo
Wed 01/31/07 07:42 AM
Ditto....
PMS

LoveInTheDark's photo
Wed 01/31/07 07:43 AM
I guess that people don't want to say anything on this.

michael1313's photo
Wed 01/31/07 07:47 AM
just give it some time...it is still early yet...

LAMom's photo
Wed 01/31/07 07:52 AM
Society sucks sometimes, and people can be cruel, they look at you from
the outside and not from within, for the Soul makes the man/woman and
that is what should bring the two together,
It makes me sad when people judge you by the way you walk, talk, for
this i no to be true,,, I guess its everyones own preference, A
disability does not stop you from being Human
and it should never limit you from the love you deserve,,, D

no photo
Wed 01/31/07 07:58 AM
LA, once again, you have said everything perfect in every woman's point
of view.


Thank you

no photo
Wed 01/31/07 07:58 AM
It would depend on what the disability was?
But if it was one that I could handle -----HELL-YA!!!
OK, You may be wondering what I mean by THAT statement, ok,
if I met a lady who was missing both legs or both arms, it would be very
much ALOT to relate to and be with.
If I met a lady who just had a mild disability like small body part
missing or one limb, or a mental disorder caused by life, I could still
love her and over-look and help and nuture all of her with the other!
We people of the world seem to LOOK more at one's LOOKS than we do at
what or HOW someone is on the INSIDE!!!!
And LOOKS are a very "SMALL" part of SHARING LIFE TOGETHER!

44hello's photo
Wed 01/31/07 08:00 AM
Honestly,It depends on the person and their type of disability... If I
enjoyed being with someone and was attracted to them, and them me, sure,
why not. We all have faults.... It's just a matter of which ones we can
over-look. A fault or disability that bothers one, may be of no
consequence to another. There is no easy answer to this question! It is
either accepted or not by the individuals involved, but is an awkward
question to ask someone and puts them in an uncomfortable position,
which, to me, seems a little unfair. it's either "there" or "it's not"!

LoveInTheDark's photo
Wed 01/31/07 08:03 AM
what if they was in a wheel chair, and blind, and have seizers

LAMom's photo
Wed 01/31/07 08:06 AM
As i said before, the love should come from within and if they are not
able to overcome those flaws that one may have then
the True love is not thier,,, For an outer being is not what should hold
the key to happiness, Disabilies should never limit the happiness one
should and does deserve... D

LoveInTheDark's photo
Wed 01/31/07 08:06 AM
hello LAMom
and everyone the reason why i asked this question, is because I'm
disabled.

LoveInTheDark's photo
Wed 01/31/07 08:09 AM
those disableds i've said, I have all three of them

LAMom's photo
Wed 01/31/07 08:10 AM
Hello Love,
When that right person comes into your life you will no for the
disabilities you have will not be seen, your soul is what she should be
looking at... Society puts labels on us, and that is so sad,,, we are
equal in all aspects of life, one should never be judge by our own
flaws,,, we all have them , yes some more viable than others but thier
are thier...

LoveInTheDark's photo
Wed 01/31/07 08:15 AM
I know that, but some of the times i think it's there, it's really not.

LAMom's photo
Wed 01/31/07 08:18 AM
Well that is how we all feel, that is normal, I have learned thier are
no guarantees in life,,, just live it to the fullest, when you find that
one who loves you for you,,, my dear friend you will know, and that is
when you hold on tight... its out thier, never give up hope,!!! Denise
flowerforyou

redmange420's photo
Wed 01/31/07 08:20 AM
My wife's married to someone who's mentally disabled!!


laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

slowtogetit's photo
Wed 01/31/07 08:24 AM
LMAO@red
...glad i didn't have to say it man.....your great..she has to be a
special.

Previous 1 3