Topic: Would you date someone who was disable?
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Wed 01/31/07 08:25 AM
LOVELN, Man I got ta tell ya for REAL dude, THAT would be a VERY special
thing to have happen in my life, and I would have to REALLY fall into it
with just one hell of a "LOVESPELL"
because SHE would not only NOT be able to SEE me she would also NOT be
able to walk with me or even stand with me.
I think THAT kind-of "LOVE has to be FELT from both,,,meaning, if I also
had some disability to have to live with, then hers would NOT seem so
bad!!!
And the seizurs, would demaned a constant watch-over, so it would make
the WHOLE picture of life spent with them,
A very BIG amount of LOVE and RESPECT that very FEW have who I have met
through LIFE.
ANd im REAL with my thoughts and ME and I really don't think it could
work because of us being SO DIFFERENT, like I have to work daily, and
WOULD be in constant WORRY of her being apart from me and having a
problem arise ,,,then I would blame my self for NOT being there at that
time, and LIFE would be very stressful and demanding of me!:heart:

redmange420's photo
Wed 01/31/07 08:36 AM
In all seriousness, seizures are a wicced thing to live with. We have a
female buddy that had a bad accident when she was younger, and has had
them ever since then, off and on. She needs to be constantly watched, so
she doesn't bite off her tounge or hit her head again. It's very hard
for her and her boyfriend. They moved to Australia, and I know her
family is worried they'll get that phone call.

LoveInTheDark's photo
Wed 01/31/07 08:45 AM
The way I became blind, was I was shot in the head five inches from my
timpul with a hollow point bullet The way I lost my right leg, I had a
oprtion on my back and killed the nerves in my right leg.

LoveInTheDark's photo
Wed 01/31/07 08:47 AM
i have segers from the gun shot

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Wed 01/31/07 08:48 AM
Very well put LAMOM you have a heart of gold to bad the rest of the
world can't see past whats on the out side and yeah i agree to that it
can be stressful on a relationship but like anything that really matters
to a person you learn how to cope and what to expect and how to handle
the situation my brother has severe siezures and has for about 30 years
and with one you just got to let it run it's course and try to keep the
person from hurting their selves but you can't restrain them to keep
them still it will make the seizure last longer.and i have dated men
with disabilities from missing limbs to being half crazylaugh laugh

LAMom's photo
Wed 01/31/07 08:50 AM
You are still a person who deserves Love and Happiness, those things
being said, yes I could live those Disabilities it does not stop ones
heart from loving you, You will find what your looking for,, she will
find you.... Love, you are such a beautiful person inside and out, I
have only known you for a short while,,, Learn to love your self from
within and the rest will fall into place....
I am Deaf in one Ear and have Partial vision in one eye, yes different
than you, My point being, I have learned to Love me and accept me as I
am,, and the rest has fallen into place...
Life is a learning experience,,, knowledge and hope is what makes up who
we are... Be happy Love,,, you are a kind and gentle soul,,, Denise

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Wed 01/31/07 08:53 AM
Damn bro, that sucks. I gotta give ya props for makin it this far, cuz a
lotta folks would have given up on life by now. I'm proud of ya dude,
and I wish ya the best. Keep fightin, and hang in there. You'll find the
woman that's right for you. God bless ya man.

LoveInTheDark's photo
Wed 01/31/07 09:00 AM
Thank you guies, I've learned to love myself, and trust, believeing, and
putting all of my fait in the lord

LAMom's photo
Wed 01/31/07 09:01 AM
Love, I wish you all the happiness in the world,,, trusing in yourself
and with the Love of God,,, life is Incredible...
Denise :heart:

LoveInTheDark's photo
Wed 01/31/07 09:04 AM
hey do ay of you know sexyladyonwheels?

sushi's photo
Wed 01/31/07 09:04 AM
If I loved someone who is disabled, It wouldn't bother me a bit. In
reality, I'd have to be convinced that he loved me and wasn't trying to
use me. In fact I'd rather have a physically disabled man as a husband
or partner that some of the seriously mentally disabled ones I been in
contact with.

LoveInTheDark's photo
Wed 01/31/07 09:07 AM
Thank you lm. and I was saying, do any of you know sexyladyonwheels.

PublicAnimalNo9's photo
Wed 01/31/07 09:08 AM
you talkin to Ontario again Sushi????BWahahahahahahalaugh

LoveInTheDark's photo
Wed 01/31/07 09:09 AM
hey guies, i'll be right back, don't go anywhere please.

LoveInTheDark's photo
Wed 01/31/07 09:24 AM
i'm back. the lady sexyladyonwheels is my room mate

LoveInTheDark's photo
Wed 01/31/07 09:32 AM
LAMom
i was wondering, if I could put u on my friend list?

michael1313's photo
Wed 01/31/07 09:43 AM
even the most beautiful of Diamonds,
is not without it's flaws,

I'm far from perfect...

I never learned to walk on water...laugh

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Wed 01/31/07 09:43 AM
HEY LOVE, I know Sexy and "really man", I think you TWO would be "GREAT
together, she has love for ya and sooooo much LOVE inside for ya as
well, wink,wink, she is awesome!!!!!
And you do have the use of one leg and THAT is so COOL to....
Are you to really now room-mates???

LAMom's photo
Wed 01/31/07 09:45 AM
Love, I have added you,,, A friend indeed you are!!! flowerforyou

sushi's photo
Wed 01/31/07 10:17 AM
Sushi's now getting ready to bring out her secret weapons--a clove of
garlic on a string, a cross, and some holy water on the side. Anyone
out there feeling a bit queasy, uncomfortable, dizzy. Then, good, I
gotcha'