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Topic: Advice for the Newbies
lillithluv Joined Sat 03/08/08 Posts: 1	Sat 03/08/08 11:52 AM
I wish all the men on dating sites were like you kojack, thank you for being such a gentleman

SpongeRobertlol Joined Fri 03/07/08 Posts: 36	Sat 03/08/08 03:12 PM
Kojack, i met someone named shyksbear on a forum today, we Im'ed back and forth for about 10 minutes and my computer froze in the middle of a message. I logged back in and she had changed her age preferences to 22, i am 21, i assume she thought i just ignored her which is not the case. what can I do and can someone e-mail her to explain this error, she and I have alot in common and i don't want her thinking i am immature or something

Waterbabe Joined Sat 03/08/08 Posts: 2	Sat 03/08/08 04:26 PM
Hi there, i have tried many sites and hope one day to find my knight in shining armour with out being asked to show my underwear first, thats all they seem to want, is a quick flash of your undies these days where are teh real men all gone, come on show your selves..... see you soon I hope.xx

pl0863 Joined Sat 03/08/08 Posts: 9	Sun 03/09/08 08:36 AM
Thank you. Hope many read it. Tried one other site and your post should have been up there. New at all this and it's scary! Maybe this site...

pl0863 Joined Sat 03/08/08 Posts: 9	Sun 03/09/08 08:42 AM
Really nice to know I'm not the only woman who feels that way! Guess I'm naive to all this stuff...but there's got to be some real gentlemen out there right????

Lilacsinbloom Joined Sun 03/09/08 Posts: 8	Sun 03/09/08 06:11 PM
It is nice to know some men have manners!

kojack Joined Mon 12/25/06 Posts: 16382	Mon 03/10/08 09:05 AM
Kojack, i met someone named shyksbear on a forum today, we Im'ed back and forth for about 10 minutes and my computer froze in the middle of a message. I logged back in and she had changed her age preferences to 22, i am 21, i assume she thought i just ignored her which is not the case. what can I do and can someone e-mail her to explain this error, she and I have alot in common and i don't want her thinking i am immature or something she is gone from the site so not much, Sorry !!!

kojack Joined Mon 12/25/06 Posts: 16382	Mon 03/10/08 09:09 AM
yeah I'm with you on that. i only speak English and i was like - huh? if someone is having a conversation with another user, what dif. does it make to other observers what they say or how they say it--well you know --in what language. and complete sentences? why? most of the rules are fine, jsut the basic 'do onto others' don't be a jerk type stuff which is fine. 1) Complete sentences show intellect, and the ability to communicate. 2) Language well as this is an open forum it should be in English so all can read if you desire to talk in your native language that is fine, but I suggest you do it in email so you both can talk privately.

froglittlesis Joined Mon 03/10/08 Posts: 776	Wed 03/12/08 09:56 AM
It's nice to know some men still have respect for a lady. Ladies you too have to do your part and act like ladies!

DKHALL Joined Wed 03/12/08 Posts: 1	Thu 03/13/08 05:32 AM
hey k I agree completely..I am new here, but have met other guys on another site and they were complete idiots..All they want from a lady is sex...What do they think we are, we are not something they can play with and throw away when they are done with us. We have feelings to ya know.

1stfizz Joined Sat 03/15/08 Posts: 35	Sat 03/15/08 02:17 PM
Great topic...Hi to all from Texas...new today and hope to meet decent people.

bobbybrownsgap22 Joined Thu 03/13/08 Posts: 2	Sun 03/16/08 09:09 AM
Hi all. I'm new to this site and just wanted to say...hello.

Polly123 Joined Sun 12/23/07 Posts: 66	Sun 03/16/08 09:54 AM
a lot of respect to a man that respects us all thanks mr.K

beman Joined Sun 03/16/08 Posts: 1	Sun 03/16/08 07:22 PM
i just wanted to say hi and see how is ever one i am new just join up to night so i just looking. see you all later.

brettakajr Joined Sat 03/15/08 Posts: 5	Sun 03/16/08 11:06 PM
Thats definately idiot proof Kojack! You couldnt have put it any better!

vain83 Joined Thu 03/06/08 Posts: 1	Thu 03/20/08 08:26 AM
well i alredy knew that but thanks for the word.ladies iam open for sugestions.

creativeflash06 Joined Thu 03/20/08 Posts: 1	Thu 03/20/08 03:52 PM
thanks for theadvice it was very helpfulll i will keep in mind all of the "hints" as i go along

myssfytz Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 14460	Thu 03/20/08 10:39 PM
THANKS, I THINK WE ALL NEED TO PAY ATTN TO THIS.NO SUPER FREAKS ALLOWED!!!

myssfytz Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 14460	Thu 03/20/08 10:42 PM
girlfriend, couldnt have said it better myself.

myssfytz Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 14460	Fri 03/21/08 12:57 AM
I have commented to the individuals, but it hasn t helped, or more have come along, so i decided to make a thread just for them. 1)Don t ask for nude pix or to cyber or who wants to sex me 2) talk in english and in complete sentences 3)Respect is expected at all times 4)If you disregard the above, 2 things will happen. first the ladies will chew you up and spit you out, and 2nd the gentlemen of the site will defend the honor of these ladies. 5) Do post often and have fun, get to know them and if you find one you like and she s single then email , IM, go and meet her then after a period of time greater then 3 days... more like months later if you want provocative pics ask her privately not in forums as you are seen as a pig and disgrace yourself and make them insecure if they are shy. I guarentee if you take my advice, you will meet somone alot faster. very well said, thanx.nw if everyone not only listened, but practiced them as well.we'd all be even happier in the world......