I am so confused! Just.....Speechless!

The other night I went out with a friend. Unlike me, he is not a FEMINIST and does not always show respect to the ladies, but I am hoping to fix him.

We were out at a club, and I begin start a chat with a vivacious young lady. It soon comes out that she has a boyfriend, that she must be very taken with because she spoke of him continuosly. However, she was a very beautiful lady (on the inside and out!), so I politely listened. After about 40 minutes my friend came over (He was off talking to some other ladies), and the three of us talked for about 20 more minutes.

She was a little tipsy, and started to dance right there. Her movements were very sensual! She said to us: "Admit it, your jealous of my boyfriend."

Before I could offer a polite response, my friend told her...I shudder to write this..."Babydoll, I'm not jealous of your boyfriend. Now any guy who got to bang you then never had to talk to you again, that's the guy I'm jealous of!"

I was horrified! And understandably, she was upset about this, and she proceeded to let him know in no uncertain terms! Since I do not like confrontation, I quickly walked off, thinking she would follow me. But she didn't so after about 15 minutes I walked back to them....AND THEY WERE KISSING! PASSIONATELY!! HOW DID THAT HAPPEN???!!! I DON'T UNDERSTAND!!!

After I had been so respectful, and he was so rude to her! Needless to say, I was quite upset. So I loudly declared that I was going to leave. He pulled away from her and said he'd go with me, but she grabbed him and wouldn't let him go. I was mystified, confused, and FRUSTRATED as I left. The only thing I can figure is that he used some kind of date rape drug, but I don't want to accuse him of that.

It's called alcohol.

I am 99% sure he didn't use any drug on her. Though his comment was rude, she obviously wasn't as put off by it as you think. She obviously also isn't as "taken" with her bf and you thought she was.
She was looking to flirt. Otherwise she wouldn't make the "are you jealous of my bf" comment.

good answer..........some women like a challenge like that..........

and some women are just trashy like that

and she must have been more than tipsy

Maybe he had the nuts to make a move on her, rather than spend 45 minutes "politely listening to her".

I call it immaturity. You know, where the boy who picks on you on the playground is the boy who has the crush. There are men who do degrade women in this fashion so women will feel put on the defensive and have to "prove" themselves to the guy.

In this case, the lady might have made out with him due to the combination of the fact that she was drunk and to prove he was not better off after lovin' her them leaving her. In sum, because her lovins were too good for leaving. Like a Lays Potato chip?

A lot of women want one night stands just as much as your friend apparently did. Plus, as sad as it is, jerks show off a strong confidence factor, which is very attractive, drunk or not. That's usually what happens. Not having any worries about censoring oneself is an attractive feature, even if it means he's a jackass most of the time.

Plus, a lot of women are dumb.

unreal lmao!!! but do ya really care? sure hope u didnt want her.. no telling what your friend may get outta the deal... sounds like she is a "choice" girlfriend.. poor guy probabally was sitting at home thinking she spent the night at her girlfriends cause she was too drunk to drive home

Buttons~~ How are you?

Hi Bellenuit! You make some very good points! It is sad how some women feel pressured by society to be with jerks! But hopefully one day we can fix that.

I hope you are having a wonderful day! :)

oh been doing okay working a lot more than i was still need new job so been trying to look for one too... spent way too much time on here before trying to get back into shape for the hiking season coming!!!! cant wait not done it for 3 yrs

Thanks!

I hope you are too!

oops that cry was at end of post lol

facts respectful you were too good for her and thats why she didnt throw herself on u!

hey ned, don't forget to ask her about her boyfriend!

hahahahahaahahaha

Buttons~~ It is good to see you (sorta! ) and congratulations on getting back into something you love. That rocks!

I'm sure that someone who is as wonderful as Bellenuit has already found their life partner! :)

Haha. I wish.