Topic: HOW DOES THIS HAPPEN?????
Respectful_Ned's photo
Wed 04/30/08 09:36 AM
I'm sorry everyone, I thought I was coming somewhere where there were ENLIGHTENED people who would have EMOTIONAL UNDERSTANDING!

MyrtleBeachDude's photo
Wed 04/30/08 09:38 AM

Maybe he got laid because he was being himself and fun to be with and you were to busy being a feminist and suchdrinker bigsmile


you should have slapped the shlt out of your friend and then drug the woman out of there. You would have probably gotten the shlt beat out of ya but at least SharpShooter wouldn't be callin you a feminist laugh laugh laugh laugh

Citizen_Joe's photo
Wed 04/30/08 09:38 AM
Edited by Citizen_Joe on Wed 04/30/08 09:38 AM

I am so confused! Just.....Speechless!

The other night I went out with a friend. Unlike me, he is not a FEMINIST and does not always show respect to the ladies, but I am hoping to fix him.



The word Al-anon comes to mind.

no photo
Wed 04/30/08 09:38 AM
So the moral of the story is once again if I don't want to get laid become a wimpy nice guy feminist?

chuck366's photo
Wed 04/30/08 09:41 AM

I'm sorry everyone, I thought I was coming somewhere where there were ENLIGHTENED people who would have EMOTIONAL UNDERSTANDING!


I understand ,your jealous your pig friend made out with a drunk cheating chic. Its clear to me.. Have fun with that

buttons's photo
Wed 04/30/08 09:42 AM
my advice.... if u think your friend is capeable of slipping her a drug..... ever think maybe he would or has done that to u also slipped u a drug? may best that if u dont want to get drugged to quit hanging around him

unsure's photo
Wed 04/30/08 09:42 AM
My question is this..why would you waste an hour talking to a girl who was sitting there talking about her boyfriend in the first place? Would you really want a woman that already had a boyfriend? If she really cared about her boyfriend in the first place, she wouldn't be sitting there talking to you and she sure wouldn't be kissing on your buddy!!
I would just like to know what you consider "beautiful on the inside?" Inner beauty is someone that cheats? I think you are slightly confused about this. I think this girl was beautiful on the outside but maybe looking for a booty call and your buddy stepped in and took your place!! I think thats what you call a cheap bar s!ut maybe? I am sure that she is not in love with her boyfriend or she wouldn't be kissing on your buddy. To me, it sounds like you were trying to get a piece of the pie but you just didn't quite get the reward. Are all men like this? Lord I hope not!!

lilith401's photo
Wed 04/30/08 09:45 AM

I'm sorry everyone, I thought I was coming somewhere where there were ENLIGHTENED people who would have EMOTIONAL UNDERSTANDING!


We are supposed to understand you and by enlightened by your being jealous of a rude guy who hit on a trashed cheating attractive slut....

And also that YOU wanted to hit on her too, just didn't have the balls? And you think this slut is relationship material!

LMAO!!!!

MyrtleBeachDude's photo
Wed 04/30/08 09:46 AM

my advice.... if u think your friend is capeable of slipping her a drug..... ever think maybe he would or has done that to u also slipped u a drug? may best that if u dont want to get drugged to quit hanging around him


damn now it makes sense! I have a friend that I suspected doing that. I thought it was the cheap wine I was drinking but I think he was drugging me. No wonder he laughed so hard when I said "Man this cheap wine is tearin my ass up"

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Wed 04/30/08 09:48 AM


my advice.... if u think your friend is capeable of slipping her a drug..... ever think maybe he would or has done that to u also slipped u a drug? may best that if u dont want to get drugged to quit hanging around him


damn now it makes sense! I have a friend that I suspected doing that. I thought it was the cheap wine I was drinking but I think he was drugging me. No wonder he laughed so hard when I said "Man this cheap wine is tearin my ass up"



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Wed 04/30/08 09:52 AM
Edited by No1sLove on Wed 04/30/08 09:54 AM


Maybe he got laid because he was being himself and fun to be with and you were to busy being a feminist and suchdrinker bigsmile


you should have slapped the shlt out of your friend and then drug the woman out of there. You would have probably gotten the shlt beat out of ya but at least SharpShooter wouldn't be callin you a feminist laugh laugh laugh laugh
I love it when you tell the story of how we met. love

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DestinysDream's photo
Wed 04/30/08 10:30 AM
I'm sortof like ned that I respect women but I don't think he is being up front about this. Be honest with yourself. You wanted to be in his shoes.

All lonely men are like this, we see someone kissing and we want to be that man. There isn't anything wrong with feeling that way.

You "invested" an hour in her so you feel you should be the one. That's not how things work. She invested an hour in you and was not interested. Start trying to think about it from her perspective not only your own. Enjoy anytime you have with another person man or woman. They could be spending their time elsewhere in life but they are there talking to you.

She was drunk, she kept mentioning her boyfriend to you as a reinforcement so she wouldn't get approached. Your friend made a move and she went with it. Being a feminist doesn't work too well if you are trying to get a romance going. I've never seen that listed as an attribute women want.

Winx's photo
Wed 04/30/08 10:31 AM
Edited by Winx on Wed 04/30/08 10:32 AM

The reward is the emotional closeness and confirmation of desirablity by a MODERN, VIVACIOUS, lady who is beautiful on the inside! Also, the promise of the possibility of a relationship to come!


Why would you even consider a relationship with a woman getting drunk at a bar and talking about her BOYFRIEND? noway You can do better than that.flowerforyou



lilith401's photo
Wed 04/30/08 10:34 AM

I've never seen that listed as an attribute women want.


That isn't going to start happening either, most likely. I get called a feminist all the time, which cracks me up, as I'm hardly that. Not even close.

Feminists scare me. Men who are feminists terrify me!

Jill298's photo
Wed 04/30/08 10:36 AM


I've never seen that listed as an attribute women want.


That isn't going to start happening either, most likely. I get called a feminist all the time, which cracks me up, as I'm hardly that. Not even close.

Feminists scare me. Men who are feminists terrify me!
laugh laugh that one guy called you that, and a few other things quite a few times

Single_Rob's photo
Wed 04/30/08 10:38 AM
typical night out for me in drag. Ladies don't hate!

Respectful_Ned's photo
Wed 04/30/08 10:48 AM
"Feminism is not a trait women desire in a man"????

Have you lost leave of your senses?? What woman wouldn't want a man who is in to WOMAN'S RIGHTS and sees her as his EQUAL!???

Single_Rob's photo
Wed 04/30/08 10:48 AM

"Feminism is not a trait women desire in a man"????

Have you lost leave of your senses?? What woman wouldn't want a man who is in to WOMAN'S RIGHTS and sees her as his EQUAL!???
99% of them

lilith401's photo
Wed 04/30/08 10:53 AM



I've never seen that listed as an attribute women want.


That isn't going to start happening either, most likely. I get called a feminist all the time, which cracks me up, as I'm hardly that. Not even close.

Feminists scare me. Men who are feminists terrify me!
laugh laugh that one guy called you that, and a few other things quite a few times


Shhhh. :tongue: Don't ruin it for me.

lilith401's photo
Wed 04/30/08 10:59 AM
Edited by lilith401 on Wed 04/30/08 11:00 AM

"Feminism is not a trait women desire in a man"????

Have you lost leave of your senses?? What woman wouldn't want a man who is in to WOMAN'S RIGHTS and sees her as his EQUAL!???


This woman.

I want to be treated as a person in society, but as a woman by my man.

Does that make sense to anyone? Other than Rob, that is! :wink: