welcome to the real world. There is no Santa either.

Let's look at it like an itemizaion.

I politely listened to her for 40 minutes, plus another 20 when my friend came over. That's an hour where I listened to her politely, making certain never to say anything to upset her.

My friend only spoke to her for 20 minutes, most of the time which he was fairly dismissive of her and wasn't really listening to her and offered no emotion reassurance. Plus, he made that horrible, unfeminist comment to her.

Yet he gets the reward!

So I put in 60 minutes of diligent attention, and got nothing.

He put in one horribly offensive comment, and he gets the reward.

IT MAKES NO SENSE!!!!

the point must be.......how come the nice guys never get the one night stands with gals that have boyfriends? and im a nice guy but i would of wanted to sleep with that gal that was beautiful and had a boyfriend

Yea ,,,,thats a reward I want, making out with a cheating lush, where do I sign up?

the point must be.......how come the nice guys never get the one night stands with gals that have boyfriends? and im a nice guy but i would of wanted to sleep with that gal that was beautiful and had a boyfriend

The reward is the emotional closeness and confirmation of desirablity by a MODERN, VIVACIOUS, lady who is beautiful on the inside! Also, the promise of the possibility of a relationship to come!

The reward is the emotional closeness and confirmation of desirablity by a MODERN, VIVACIOUS, lady who is beautiful on the inside! Also, the promise of the possibility of a relationship to come!

roflmao jill

The reward is the emotional closeness and confirmation of desirablity by a MODERN, VIVACIOUS, lady who is beautiful on the inside! Also, the promise of the possibility of a relationship to come!

I am so confused! Just.....Speechless!

The other night I went out with a friend. Unlike me, he is not a FEMINIST and does not always show respect to the ladies, but I am hoping to fix him.

We were out at a club, and I begin start a chat with a vivacious young lady. It soon comes out that she has a boyfriend, that she must be very taken with because she spoke of him continuosly. However, she was a very beautiful lady (on the inside and out!), so I politely listened. After about 40 minutes my friend came over (He was off talking to some other ladies), and the three of us talked for about 20 more minutes.

She was a little tipsy, and started to dance right there. Her movements were very sensual! She said to us: "Admit it, your jealous of my boyfriend."

Before I could offer a polite response, my friend told her...I shudder to write this..."Babydoll, I'm not jealous of your boyfriend. Now any guy who got to bang you then never had to talk to you again, that's the guy I'm jealous of!"

I was horrified! And understandably, she was upset about this, and she proceeded to let him know in no uncertain terms! Since I do not like confrontation, I quickly walked off, thinking she would follow me. But she didn't so after about 15 minutes I walked back to them....AND THEY WERE KISSING! PASSIONATELY!! HOW DID THAT HAPPEN???!!! I DON'T UNDERSTAND!!!

After I had been so respectful, and he was so rude to her! Needless to say, I was quite upset. So I loudly declared that I was going to leave. He pulled away from her and said he'd go with me, but she grabbed him and wouldn't let him go. I was mystified, confused, and FRUSTRATED as I left. The only thing I can figure is that he used some kind of date rape drug, but I don't want to accuse him of that.

i think something must be missing there have a good day all