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Topic: Dating more than one at a time
RicJL's photo
Tue 04/29/08 10:28 AM


Enjoy each seperately. You can't enjoy something when it is tainted with something else.


The quote above is not a question. It is your opinion and the last thing that you wrote. I respect your right to have your opinion, I just don't agree with it.

And as an aside, hun...nothing that you can conceive to ask me will instill anything like fear in me. Ever.


Ya, I can tell by the way you continually pick me out of a crowd of many with the same views to demean my opinion that it has no effect on you....**insert eye rolling emoticon here**

"continually pick me out of a crowd of many with the same views"

What? This is the first time that I have ever responded to any of your posts on any thread...and this thread is my topic, so I felt obliged to respond...I have read a number of your posts, admittedly...and disagreed with most of them, BTW.

You are a very opinionated individual and prone to making generalizations that stick in many people's craw, but the Forums here allow for your proclivities and your right to express yourself. And I do too, but I also reserve the right to debate and refute what you write here on this public Forum.

If you can't handle someone who has an opinion that doesn't jibe with your own beliefs/feelings, then please feel free to abandon the thread and seek your gratification elsewhere...

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Tue 04/29/08 10:36 AM
WTF!

Lily0923's photo
Tue 04/29/08 10:37 AM



Enjoy each seperately. You can't enjoy something when it is tainted with something else.


The quote above is not a question. It is your opinion and the last thing that you wrote. I respect your right to have your opinion, I just don't agree with it.

And as an aside, hun...nothing that you can conceive to ask me will instill anything like fear in me. Ever.


Ya, I can tell by the way you continually pick me out of a crowd of many with the same views to demean my opinion that it has no effect on you....**insert eye rolling emoticon here**

"continually pick me out of a crowd of many with the same views"

What? This is the first time that I have ever responded to any of your posts on any thread...and this thread is my topic, so I felt obliged to respond...I have read a number of your posts, admittedly...and disagreed with most of them, BTW.

You are a very opinionated individual and prone to making generalizations that stick in many people's craw, but the Forums here allow for your proclivities and your right to express yourself. And I do too, but I also reserve the right to debate and refute what you write here on this public Forum.

If you can't handle someone who has an opinion that doesn't jibe with your own beliefs/feelings, then please feel free to abandon the thread and seek your gratification elsewhere...


I can handle anything sir.

I can also handle a woman hater such as yourself...

On this you can rely.

You tried to demean me....never mind... you won't get it even if I spell it out and take you down the primrose path...

I have been in many debates in the forums, with friend and with people I don't know, and if they weren't friends before...they became friends after.... You dear, do not want to debate anyone. You want to dominate them.

Your post have shown me much about you also... and lets just say You'd never be invited to break bread at my house....

Can we move along now?

RicJL's photo
Tue 04/29/08 10:40 AM




Enjoy each seperately. You can't enjoy something when it is tainted with something else.


The quote above is not a question. It is your opinion and the last thing that you wrote. I respect your right to have your opinion, I just don't agree with it.

And as an aside, hun...nothing that you can conceive to ask me will instill anything like fear in me. Ever.


Ya, I can tell by the way you continually pick me out of a crowd of many with the same views to demean my opinion that it has no effect on you....**insert eye rolling emoticon here**

"continually pick me out of a crowd of many with the same views"

What? This is the first time that I have ever responded to any of your posts on any thread...and this thread is my topic, so I felt obliged to respond...I have read a number of your posts, admittedly...and disagreed with most of them, BTW.

You are a very opinionated individual and prone to making generalizations that stick in many people's craw, but the Forums here allow for your proclivities and your right to express yourself. And I do too, but I also reserve the right to debate and refute what you write here on this public Forum.

If you can't handle someone who has an opinion that doesn't jibe with your own beliefs/feelings, then please feel free to abandon the thread and seek your gratification elsewhere...


I can handle anything sir.

I can also handle a woman hater such as yourself...

On this you can rely.

You tried to demean me....never mind... you won't get it even if I spell it out and take you down the primrose path...

I have been in many debates in the forums, with friend and with people I don't know, and if they weren't friends before...they became friends after.... You dear, do not want to debate anyone. You want to dominate them.

Your post have shown me much about you also... and lets just say You'd never be invited to break bread at my house....

Can we move along now?


Seek Professional help, Lily.

lilith401's photo
Tue 04/29/08 10:42 AM
I :heart: Lily.

Can we just say everyone has the right to post their opinions? It would seem you both agree to disagree. What is the problem? Can you not move on? You got to have the last word?

Hmmmmmm.

lilangel2's photo
Tue 04/29/08 10:43 AM

I recently had a woman tell me that se didn't want to see me any more because she found out that I was dating (not sleeping with, just seeing) more than just her. It was only our second date.

I'm wondering if many people out there feel the same way, that a person should only date one other person at a time, or like me, see as many as they have the opportunity to and go exclusive only once you establish real feelings for an individual.

What says the Vox Populi?


I would not be that clingy after two dates, but I also wold not want someone to offer on his own that he wasn't and find out he was...that is just dishonest.

RicJL's photo
Tue 04/29/08 10:54 AM


I recently had a woman tell me that se didn't want to see me any more because she found out that I was dating (not sleeping with, just seeing) more than just her. It was only our second date.

I'm wondering if many people out there feel the same way, that a person should only date one other person at a time, or like me, see as many as they have the opportunity to and go exclusive only once you establish real feelings for an individual.

What says the Vox Populi?


I would not be that clingy after two dates, but I also wold not want someone to offer on his own that he wasn't and find out he was...that is just dishonest.


I am honest and forthcoming about my dating status. I see no point in deceiving anyone that I am dating with regards to the fact that I am dating others...when I feel that I have found someone that I want above all others, I let the "others" know that I am involved in a serious relationship...it's only fair and is the the Right Thing to do...It's called "being honest" and I can't imagine behaving in any other way....

Single_Rob's photo
Tue 04/29/08 10:57 AM
I am a one woman guy, just the way I feel. I will not see other people in a romantic way at all if I am dating someone. It just isn't fair to anyone imho

Fade2Black's photo
Tue 04/29/08 11:58 AM

I recently had a woman tell me that se didn't want to see me any more because she found out that I was dating (not sleeping with, just seeing) more than just her. It was only our second date.

I'm wondering if many people out there feel the same way, that a person should only date one other person at a time, or like me, see as many as they have the opportunity to and go exclusive only once you establish real feelings for an individual.

What says the Vox Populi?


Ya I'm with you on this one .. but I only do this when I'm bored and no one really peaks my interest .. just a social date yanno.

I usually don't go out on casual dates anymore. I wait for the chemistry to steer the social calendar and then it's just ONE I am interested in. :wink:

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Tue 04/29/08 12:05 PM
My mother always told me to "play the field"....Ive never done this......because Im not sure she wanted me to date the entire football team!!!noway noway noway

Fade2Black's photo
Tue 04/29/08 12:17 PM

My mother always told me to "play the field"....Ive never done this......because Im not sure she wanted me to date the entire football team!!!noway noway noway



oh it's fun .. try it bigsmile

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Tue 04/29/08 12:21 PM
I would be scared to play the whole entire football field. There is too many diseases out there. I have too much respect for myself. I'm not saying you all don't have respect for yourselves. JMO

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