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why's it ok for guyz to reject the nice gurls but if a gurl does it to hte guys its automatically cuz we're shallow or conceited..u kno that whole stereotypicl S*** that the good gurls want da bad guys. n the bad guys are only FRENDS?? n then us gurls are the bad ones? its rather silly ithink. but ****.. jus tel lthe honey strait up that she donst amke ur *** go up. jus be honest. the worst thing ucan do is gie her sum cheesy line or lie..  Hey, if a girl's not attracted to me, I don't hold it against her. It's nobody's fault. Ha ha, your response is...to the point. "jus tel lthe honey strait up that she donst amke ur *** go up." Dayam. |
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Well I guess you just told me then huh??  What?! Ha ha, don't listen to her, she's not the girl I'm talking about, I've never met her before! :-p Is it Duffy?  How can anyone not be attracted to Duffy? :-D |
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damn u lily.....ur a slut. and here i was going to tell you what a nice pix of your breastacysts.
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Why don't you just be her friend for a while and if you ever meet in person, then you will know? GOOD ANSWER...ES VERDAD The feel-good answers don't fly here though. 
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ouch. this is hard. I had the same thing happen to me very recently. Very nice girl, but unfortunately very quickly became clingy and is also overweight. Honestly, I didn't do anything. My friend (female) said I should tell her point blank that she scared me. Which one of her IM's did. But I couldn't do it. I'd rather just give the cold shoulder. It's not nice, it's happened to me more than once. But at least you don't have to hear "your not attractive enough for me".
good luck. |
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lol SERIOUSLY..the longer u wait.. the more ulead her on u kno? ..or u could be real...umm butthead lol n jus stop tlakin to her.but then the guilt would sitthere i nthe back of ur mind.. or maybe it wouldnt i dnt kno u haha but this is mad entertaiing.. but i kno how u feel. i meean ithink we've al lbee nthere where its like.. hey.. theyre not that cute but i dont know anyone else like em... maybe u shld jus wait it out.. see wat happens..
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I had or was thinking of something close to it happening to me, I was honest and up front about the whole thing and said I don't think it would work out and never heard from her again. I wasn't trying to be rude but hey I was being honest enough.
That's all any one or body can do. |
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tell her you want to be friends cliche! LOL |
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lol SERIOUSLY..the longer u wait.. the more ulead her on u kno? ..or u could be real...umm butthead lol n jus stop tlakin to her.but then the guilt would sitthere i nthe back of ur mind.. or maybe it wouldnt i dnt kno u haha but this is mad entertaiing.. but i kno how u feel. i meean ithink we've al lbee nthere where its like.. hey.. theyre not that cute but i dont know anyone else like em... maybe u shld jus wait it out.. see wat happens.. Ha ha, I think that's what girls usually do to me when they're not interested, they just all the sudden stop talking to me. I hate that, so I don't like to do that when it's me rejecting someone else. |
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 what??? I missed it
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damn u lily.....ur a slut. and here i was going to tell you what a nice pix of your breastacysts. Awe, Duffy, don't be a hater...Love the wonder that are my breast...embrace them... love them... 
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damn u lily.....ur a slut. and here i was going to tell you what a nice pix of your breastacysts. She really does have nice breasts doesn't she.  b(.)(.)bies I soooo want to touch them. Don't you? |
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Edited by
yvory
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Mon 04/28/08 07:22 PM
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lol SERIOUSLY..the longer u wait.. the more ulead her on u kno? ..or u could be real...umm butthead lol n jus stop tlakin to her.but then the guilt would sitthere i nthe back of ur mind.. or maybe it wouldnt i dnt kno u haha but this is mad entertaiing.. but i kno how u feel. i meean ithink we've al lbee nthere where its like.. hey.. theyre not that cute but i dont know anyone else like em... maybe u shld jus wait it out.. see wat happens.. Ha ha, I think that's what girls usually do to me when they're not interested, they just all the sudden stop talking to me. I hate that, so I don't like to do that when it's me rejecting someone else. just tell her honestly that you're not attracted to her physically. and let her know that physical attribution is important to you in a relationship. She'll be ok... you guys haven't met yet and you haven't done the IT so she'll be ok. she'll be melodramatic at first but she'll get over it. you will know when she stops talking to you. |
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ewwwwwwwwwwwww the honesty is hurtful......make up a good lie instead!!!!
No woman wants to know she isnt attractive!!!
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ewwwwwwwwwwwww the honesty is hurtful......make up a good lie instead!!!! No woman wants to know she isnt attractive!!! I know you're kidding, but that is a concern! :-p |
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Do not listen to Lilly's advice or the one that said to tell her she does not make your twanger stand at attention. That is serious enough to make your friend
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As hurtful as it may seem at the moment, honesty is always the best route to take! She will respect you more for that than telling her otherwise. Oweing her a first date and then rejecting her is a bad idea. That would destroy her confidence for sure. You may not want to use the "I am just not attracted to you physically" thing, but you can say that without using those words. You could say "I respect you and you are a wonderful girl, but I am not attracted to you in the way you want me to be. I am sorry!" That is better than saying it the other way. that's what they all say to me. 
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I just think you should be honest and you can be polite about it. I am sure she doesn't want you to lead her on any longer then what you have..just tell her. Maybe you have been giving her the wrong thoughts about you guys? Just tell her the truth and get it over with...that way your friendship can get stronger. Honesty is the best policy
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ouch. this is hard. I had the same thing happen to me very recently. Very nice girl, but unfortunately very quickly became clingy and is also overweight. Honestly, I didn't do anything. My friend (female) said I should tell her point blank that she scared me. Which one of her IM's did. But I couldn't do it. I'd rather just give the cold shoulder. It's not nice, it's happened to me more than once. But at least you don't have to hear "your not attractive enough for me". good luck. not to be rude or anything but you don't exactly look like a stick figure yourself. Maybe it's just the angle of your pics or something. |
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damn u lily.....ur a slut. and here i was going to tell you what a nice pix of your breastacysts. She really does have nice breasts doesn't she. b(.)(.)bies I soooo want to touch them. Don't you? oh yes. |
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