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just tell her you're not interested in being with her, that you'll be friends with her but that you don't think you and her have a future together.
good luck buddy 
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Edited by
IslandPearl
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Tue 04/29/08 12:52 AM
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I'd rather be told as early as possible if there is no possiblity for a deeper relationship, let alone a friendship. I can usually figure this out. So should she in time. Just a plain,"I don't think we are a match" is enough for me.
I know what it's like to be on both sides. It could be looks, or life circumstances or anything else that makes another not a good match. Hopefully she will accept it graciously and move on. Don't use the "let's be Friends Only" line if you are not really interested in that with her. Just end it there. You don't owe her a date and she does not owe you one either. Don't waste any more of her time or yours. Bottom line...be upfront but keep it short and simple. No need to demean anyone. Including yourself. Good luck. |
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Sorry, I'm not interested. pretty much sums it up |
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i'll do it...it won't be pretty but send me her link  Um...ha ha I will decline that offer. :-p oh come on...i fired 2 people today and made one i didn't fire cry...i'm good at this stuff 
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Usually a straight and to the point you seem like a very nice person but I am not interested in you that way works well~
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Sometimes the truth hurts  and sometimes they just dont get it . |
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Well, a thread on the open forum generally gets the point across, might discourage any others you're talking to, though.
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Why don't you just be her friend for a while and if you ever meet in person, then you will know? GOOD ANSWER...ES VERDAD The feel-good answers don't fly here though.  
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Dude, maybe she'll read this
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Just say I'm not interested
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just say nothing. do nothing and let it die by itself. don't lie. she will go on to other men eventually.
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ouch. this is hard. I had the same thing happen to me very recently. Very nice girl, but unfortunately very quickly became clingy and is also overweight. Honestly, I didn't do anything. My friend (female) said I should tell her point blank that she scared me. Which one of her IM's did. But I couldn't do it. I'd rather just give the cold shoulder. It's not nice, it's happened to me more than once. But at least you don't have to hear "your not attractive enough for me". good luck. not to be rude or anything but you don't exactly look like a stick figure yourself. Maybe it's just the angle of your pics or something.
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