Can anyone tell me if you think i am attractive? Be honest please...i can take the good with the bad.

doesn't matter what anyone else thinks darlin... when you know you're beautiful, others will too

yur very cute...

lovely

thanks....I have just been used for the last two years granted i probably allowed it cause i cared for him deeper than he cared for me...now i am back to being single and i havent felt very good about myself lately...I am a beautiful person on the inside and i would like to believe it shows on the outside too...

men can be a horses behind...

whether or not it shows on the outside, is up to you

most men are assholes.trust me i see it all the time

u r a lovely person. and u know it because you have been used, and u r too good for the >?>?????whoever he is, was and so on.

try doing some new things for yourself. find out who u really r and want to be.
go on a trip. and i don't mean smoking some pot.

I think you look very pretty and nice , you should have no problems. That guy didn't deserve you.

true that

You're bound to feel this way when coming out of a relationship. It's human nature to internalize and try to figure out what's wrong with *you*.

It really doesn't matter whether we think you're beautiful or pretty etc., because it's subjective. One person could think you're the most beautiful woman in the world, and the person standing next to him might tell you that you aren't his type.

We all like to be validated and made to feel nice, and it seems to me now that you're away from this jerk you can move on to finding someone who will discover all you have to offer and have you giggling like a school girl again :-) Kudos to you for getting out of a bad relationship!

As a tip though, you may want to make your main profile pic something other than the bum of an animal

Yeah, it's the assholes that give us good guys a bad rep.

thanks for all the encouraging words....I do feel attractive and you know what I am doing much better with my situation...screw him...he wants to stay friends and you know what i am not going to chase him down...if he wants to call then he can call...but i am all done with him...I did all the chasing for two years if he really wants to stay friends then let him do the chasing for a while...I have been meeting some nice folks and if anything i can make some nice friends...and hey if something comes of it...then so be it...but in the mean time...how do you stop craving sex...lol...

And so can women

I know a lot of asshole women as well

Friends don't use their friends hon! I would not allow him to chase me at all!

imho Users are losers...distance yourself and don't let people treat you like that. People; men and friends alike, will always follow your lead. If you love and respect yourself, then you will attract people who will love and respect you, and who you can truly love and respect in turn. Confidence repels the losers, because they know you will not be broken! Good luck here and I hope to see you around the forum!

You are right (((jim)))

I get so flippin tired of these biased comments!!!!!!!

People fishing for compliments make me laugh.