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Topic: Just curious, don't answer if u don't
Peccy's photo
Mon 04/28/08 08:47 AM
Edited by Peccy on Mon 04/28/08 08:48 AM
want. Have you ever been in an abusive relationship.

I'll be the first one to answer. Yes, a very mentally abusing one before my marriage and my wife mentally abused me a little.

KELLYLS30's photo
Mon 04/28/08 08:49 AM
3 actually...all in different forms, but i got out. and i think i am a better person for it. not meaning that it's right....just that i am a stronger person for having gone thru that, and i now know what to look for. AND I WILL NOT GO THERE AGAIN!!

mexicanbeauty's photo
Mon 04/28/08 08:50 AM
i had a boyfriend , that used to manipulated me , he used to tell me that he was going to kill himself if i leave him , he ppunch me once

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Mon 04/28/08 08:51 AM
Im mentally abusing peccy right now!!!laugh drinker laugh

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 04/28/08 08:51 AM
flowerforyou nopeflowerforyou

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Mon 04/28/08 08:52 AM
Yes... years ago- he was physically,mentally, and emotionally abusive.
I ran away from that- and will never tolerate an abusive
relationship again ever!
No one should.

tearsofblood666's photo
Mon 04/28/08 08:52 AM
um no

Shananigans19's photo
Mon 04/28/08 08:53 AM
Once, it was physically and mentally abusing...

We got in a fist fight once and i kicked his ass!!!

lilith401's photo
Mon 04/28/08 08:53 AM
Yes. I'm very happily divorced.

msdestinbooty's photo
Mon 04/28/08 08:56 AM

Once, it was physically and mentally abusing...

We got in a fist fight once and i kicked his ass!!!



YOU showed him whos boss!!flowerforyou drinker

FaithfulOne78's photo
Mon 04/28/08 08:58 AM
2 of them...both physical and mental

RicJL's photo
Mon 04/28/08 08:58 AM
Yes, my Ex was verbally and mentally abusive. That's why she is now living in the UK, I grew tired of it and kicked her to the curb. Never again.

No1sLove's photo
Mon 04/28/08 09:01 AM
I've never experienced abuse first hand, but have picked a few friends up off the floor, both physically and metaphorically. frown

PacificStar48's photo
Mon 04/28/08 09:01 AM

Once, it was physically and mentally abusing...

We got in a fist fight once and i kicked his ass!!!

So even with everything you have going for you Your owered yourself to his level. That is not something to be proud of.

DebbieJT's photo
Mon 04/28/08 09:06 AM
mental and physical

MariJane63's photo
Mon 04/28/08 09:06 AM
Yep...
First one was physical
Second was mentally...

Know the signs now..wont happen again

No1sLove's photo
Mon 04/28/08 09:08 AM
Edited by No1sLove on Mon 04/28/08 09:11 AM
I may not be understanding your statement as it was meant, but are you saying it's not ok for a woman to protect herself when a man hits her, or just that it's not ladylike for her to prevail? huh

To Pacificstar...forgot my quote here.

Dragoness's photo
Mon 04/28/08 09:10 AM
yes, one and it will be the lastgrumble

wiley's photo
Mon 04/28/08 09:11 AM
I can't understand why any man would hit a woman. Cowards.

PacificStar48's photo
Mon 04/28/08 09:12 AM
For the record everyone can misjudge aonther persons ability to cope with situations. No one is able to see the future and somethings get out of hand before you know what is happening. Self defense is permissable. self defense is not stomping someone it is getting out of the way. Live and learn. Keep in mind..." fool me once: shame on you; fool me twice shame on me". An ounce of caution can save you a pound of pain and battle scars are not pretty on your face or on your soul.. Be brave life is not for sissys

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