sorry...I just woke up and thought...hey thats cute....I need coffee

Etrain!

I do, I never get too squirrely over someone online. But then again, my experience online so far has not been that great. They're either complete psychopath or come in weighing at 300+ pounds when their profile says average. It's safe to say, I have my doubts from the get go.

Lady

Just don't give up, someone will come along when you least expect it.

Maybe I am wrong...but "my" perception of being involved is commitment,...being in a relationship.

That involves day to day interactions, being in society together, experience new things and places, interact with family, sexual relations, being able to call that person and get together within an hour to do something...

I just dont see how you can do that online? That's not possible. I see the online dating as a tool to start conversation with someone local, then meet up and start getting to know one another...I cant get to know someone as I would see fit online...

no need to be sorry...Im just funnin'...that's just me...

In the meantime, I guess I'm still here....

its such a cute little foot...makes my laugh

You have your right to an opinion, but when I say involved I am saying that I look forward to talking to and getting a phone call from one particular person, its the foundation to a possible relationship in person. The conversations I have had have been for over 4 months now and it has been fun getting to know that person. He does live on the west coast and is away on business but we always talk no matter what. That is what I call involved.

Well thank you Jim, I hope it works too!!!

There are many people..even on THIS site..talked online,talked on phone,fell in love,met and married.So yes..online stuff does work..it has yet to work for me but it does.

hell even if I was to meet a guy..ANYWHERE..It'd take me longer than an hour to get settle for a date.

I live to make people laugh It is my god-given occupation...and when I can make others laugh...I laugh as well

Not saying it doesnt work at all, People have met, gotten married so on....But the site was the planting of the seed and they met up and are together in real life

What I have seen is people committing to each other, sending engagement rings and so on, without ever meeting! That is just crazy

I have to spend time with that person, in person. That's what it takes to truly identify a psychopathic nutjob. I mean, I just automatically assume everyone is a psychopathic nutjob anyway, but it's nice to have some sort of confirmation.

I am the same way, love to laugh and be around people who can make me laugh. There is no other way to be in my eyes.

Yes some of it is unreal, but some of it can be very nice as well. Knowing someone is interested is a great feeling inside.

In Reply to : I will never understand being "involved" online..noway How does that work

I question that too????