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Topic: What's your opinion on this?
SarahsF8 Joined Sat 10/06/07 Posts: 141	Sat 04/26/08 07:12 PM
Probably not, but if you don't like them, odds are there is something wrong with them and they'll be gone soon...

chickayoshi Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 8621	Sat 04/26/08 07:12 PM
My friend told me she didn't think the guy I was talking to was right for me. The guy and my religion clashed. I still like him, but the guy and I are friends...not by my choice...but by his. Ok...that's a little more mellow than my friends attitude...I think she's heading for a busted friendship here. I can't tell her what to do, but just warn her to consider their friendship. I don't even see why this guy rubs her wrong, but she can't stand him. I think she was looking out for me. There were other stuff he did too that made her wonder. Example: He sent her a message saying her and her dog were cute. Too bad she was taken. That freaked her out. The guy said he was just kidding...but who knows. All in all, he's a great guy but he does have some issues that drives me crazy.

joycro53 Joined Sun 02/24/08 Posts: 309	Sat 04/26/08 07:12 PM
If this person was a good friend, they would understand my opinion on this.

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Sat 04/26/08 07:13 PM
I like the guy myself...and he makes her happy. Beats me...he just rubs her wrong I guess.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 04/26/08 07:13 PM
got a gun?

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Sat 04/26/08 07:13 PM
My friend told me she didn't think the guy I was talking to was right for me. The guy and my religion clashed. I still like him, but the guy and I are friends...not by my choice...but by his. Ok...that's a little more mellow than my friends attitude...I think she's heading for a busted friendship here. I can't tell her what to do, but just warn her to consider their friendship. I don't even see why this guy rubs her wrong, but she can't stand him. I think she was looking out for me. There were other stuff he did too that made her wonder. Example: He sent her a message saying her and her dog were cute. Too bad she was taken. That freaked her out. The guy said he was just kidding...but who knows. All in all, he's a great guy but he does have some issues that drives me crazy. Yeah...the "just kidding" cover story.

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Sat 04/26/08 07:14 PM
got a gun? I don't think I need to load it for this.

carolanne58 Joined Wed 07/18/07 Posts: 1727	Sat 04/26/08 07:15 PM
If I don't like him, I think that's my problem. As long as there is nothing bad about him that she needs to be warned about. I agree with hikerchick

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Sat 04/26/08 07:17 PM
Would you tell a friend that you don't like their b/f or g/f? The specs: There is nothing bad going on, just a general dislike... personality clash maybe. They are newly dating and not really an official couple yet. You're not around them all the time, but meet up about once a week. If they're not getting hurt, why caus a problem?

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Sat 04/26/08 07:18 PM
If I don't like him, I think that's my problem. As long as there is nothing bad about him that she needs to be warned about. I agree with hikerchick Yep so do I. I was just curious what you all thought about it. I hope she's not about to lose a 20something year friendship. I'm also worried it will make things awkward between the rest of us.

kidatheart70 Joined Sun 04/08/07 Posts: 6234	Sat 04/26/08 07:23 PM
If I find them annoying or to be an idiot I probably wouldn't say anything, but if I really didn't like them for who they are as a person, yes I would definately say something, and have.

markecephus Joined Sun 10/07/07 Posts: 13831	Sat 04/26/08 07:28 PM
I wouldn't say a word if it is just a general dislike. Now if there is cheating involved, then yes i would say something.

TheLonelyWalker Joined Sat 04/07/07 Posts: 11870	Sat 04/26/08 07:46 PM
i would not know. but as a general rule in my life i try not to mess with other people's life.

EtherealEmbers Joined Sun 02/03/08 Posts: 6580	Sat 04/26/08 07:53 PM
Ever see that episode of Friends with... Joey and Janice's Day of Fun? If they've been around forever you can either make excuses not to hang out with them or just suck it up. Telling your friend will just cause animosity between you two.