Topic: waiting
Thomas27's photo
Fri 04/25/08 12:44 PM







Shouldn't sex be a factor in determining whether or not you would want a relationship with that person? Just asking?
so ur saying ya need a sample 1st

Not necessarily, but if we are just dating and sex happened after 5 or 6 dates and it was bad or something. I probably wouldn't hang around for the serious relationship.
agreed but i've also known men to discard women that were 2 easy

I have discarded one recently for that same reason, very unattractive.
so did you sleep with her before you "discarded" her?
i'm guessing so.

Easy now!

lilith401's photo
Fri 04/25/08 12:44 PM

You can go pick up your wings in the second office on the left....


Is this an angel reference or a pigs fly reference...laugh

itsmetina's photo
Fri 04/25/08 12:45 PM







Shouldn't sex be a factor in determining whether or not you would want a relationship with that person? Just asking?
so ur saying ya need a sample 1st

Not necessarily, but if we are just dating and sex happened after 5 or 6 dates and it was bad or something. I probably wouldn't hang around for the serious relationship.
agreed but i've also known men to discard women that were 2 easy

I have discarded one recently for that same reason, very unattractive.
so did you sleep with her before you "discarded" her?

No, I left after she told me it was ok and we didn't need a condom. She also said it would be ok for me to ejaculate (she used another word) in her. Had I done it, I would have been shopping at Wal-mart for that std kit.

Sad thing is, she was stone cold sober!
dam i couldn't imagine having a convo like that

me2g's photo
Fri 04/25/08 12:46 PM


You can go pick up your wings in the second office on the left....


Is this an angel reference or a pigs fly reference...laugh


Y'all can think what you want.. if it makes me a prude what does that make you?

Thomas27's photo
Fri 04/25/08 12:46 PM








Shouldn't sex be a factor in determining whether or not you would want a relationship with that person? Just asking?
so ur saying ya need a sample 1st

Not necessarily, but if we are just dating and sex happened after 5 or 6 dates and it was bad or something. I probably wouldn't hang around for the serious relationship.
agreed but i've also known men to discard women that were 2 easy

I have discarded one recently for that same reason, very unattractive.
so did you sleep with her before you "discarded" her?

No, I left after she told me it was ok and we didn't need a condom. She also said it would be ok for me to ejaculate (she used another word) in her. Had I done it, I would have been shopping at Wal-mart for that std kit.

Sad thing is, she was stone cold sober!
dam i couldn't imagine having a convo like that

Tell me about it, it was a first for me too!

Jill298's photo
Fri 04/25/08 12:46 PM







Shouldn't sex be a factor in determining whether or not you would want a relationship with that person? Just asking?
so ur saying ya need a sample 1st

Not necessarily, but if we are just dating and sex happened after 5 or 6 dates and it was bad or something. I probably wouldn't hang around for the serious relationship.
agreed but i've also known men to discard women that were 2 easy

I have discarded one recently for that same reason, very unattractive.
so did you sleep with her before you "discarded" her?

No, I left after she told me it was ok and we didn't need a condom. She also said it would be ok for me to ejaculate (she used another word) in her. Had I done it, I would have been shopping at Wal-mart for that std kit.

Sad thing is, she was stone cold sober!
Ok... I'm with you on that, I woulda left too

hikerchick's photo
Fri 04/25/08 12:47 PM

Shouldn't sex be a factor in determining whether or not you would want a relationship with that person? Just asking?


no

hikerchick's photo
Fri 04/25/08 12:50 PM





8-9 months before id start raising the issue..
laugh u prudelaugh

hey now.. she asked what how long i would wait.. its not to say i wouldnt stick it after 5 minutes with the right woman.. blushing laugh
laugh laugh well I hope for your sake you never ever tell her you wanna "stick it"laugh

LMAO... I can HONESTLY say I have NEVER had a 1 night stand.. dont plan on it either.. ive always known the woman for at least 2-3 months.. yeah!! so I move slow.. I want her to KNOW that I want her for who she is.. not what she lets me do to her..flowerforyou


wow! we need more like this.

Jill298's photo
Fri 04/25/08 12:53 PM
I have to have a strong attraction to him. And I don't mean just looks. I don't care if no one else thinks he's cute... he just has to be cute to me. And a big part of the attraction is the personality. What kind of person he is. If we will get along and how many things we have in common. All of that gets factored in before I consider sex.

me2g's photo
Fri 04/25/08 12:55 PM






8-9 months before id start raising the issue..
laugh u prudelaugh

hey now.. she asked what how long i would wait.. its not to say i wouldnt stick it after 5 minutes with the right woman.. blushing laugh
laugh laugh well I hope for your sake you never ever tell her you wanna "stick it"laugh

LMAO... I can HONESTLY say I have NEVER had a 1 night stand.. dont plan on it either.. ive always known the woman for at least 2-3 months.. yeah!! so I move slow.. I want her to KNOW that I want her for who she is.. not what she lets me do to her..flowerforyou


wow! we need more like this.

thank you..flowerforyou apparently that isnt the popular consensus here tho... lol

itsmetina's photo
Fri 04/25/08 12:55 PM
i'm considering sex from the get go but i don't act on it

itsmetina's photo
Fri 04/25/08 12:56 PM







8-9 months before id start raising the issue..
laugh u prudelaugh

hey now.. she asked what how long i would wait.. its not to say i wouldnt stick it after 5 minutes with the right woman.. blushing laugh
laugh laugh well I hope for your sake you never ever tell her you wanna "stick it"laugh

LMAO... I can HONESTLY say I have NEVER had a 1 night stand.. dont plan on it either.. ive always known the woman for at least 2-3 months.. yeah!! so I move slow.. I want her to KNOW that I want her for who she is.. not what she lets me do to her..flowerforyou


wow! we need more like this.

thank you..flowerforyou apparently that isnt the popular consensus here tho... lol
i totaly respent thatflowerforyou flowerforyou

pkh's photo
Fri 04/25/08 12:57 PM

i'm considering sex from the get go but i don't act on it
lol you go girl

no photo
Fri 04/25/08 12:58 PM
Edited by Unknow on Fri 04/25/08 12:58 PM



You can go pick up your wings in the second office on the left....


Is this an angel reference or a pigs fly reference...laugh


Y'all can think what you want.. if it makes me a prude what does that make you?



D'oh...

A male ho??? Or perhaps a normal man with healthy desires and a common sense approach to sex??? Ummm, I don't know... I'm certainly not seeking ascendancy to angel status. That much is a given....

Totage's photo
Fri 04/25/08 12:58 PM

whats the max u'd wait to have sex once you entered a relationship?


It depends on which service plan they sign up for. :tongue:

itsmetina's photo
Fri 04/25/08 12:59 PM


whats the max u'd wait to have sex once you entered a relationship?


It depends on which service plan they sign up for. :tongue:
is there a lifetime guarantee offered

Totage's photo
Fri 04/25/08 01:00 PM



whats the max u'd wait to have sex once you entered a relationship?


It depends on which service plan they sign up for. :tongue:
is there a lifetime guarantee offered


Sure! but that's only for the platinum package. :tongue:

daniel48706's photo
Fri 04/25/08 01:01 PM

whats the max u'd wait to have sex once you entered a relationship?


Till marriage.

sleeplessingermany's photo
Fri 04/25/08 01:02 PM
...i would wait as long as it takes to feel right.....:wink:

Silntstrnger's photo
Fri 04/25/08 01:02 PM
i think it is when u feel comfortable..