Topic: need help getting a girl to notice i exist
franshade's photo
Fri 04/25/08 05:01 AM
how bout walking up to her, Hi, How are you? my name is such and such...
why make or thinks it's so difficult?

hikerchick's photo
Fri 04/25/08 05:02 AM

how bout walking up to her, Hi, How are you? my name is such and such...
why make or thinks it's so difficult?



that is rather difficult to do online....laugh

Lily0923's photo
Fri 04/25/08 05:03 AM

how bout walking up to her, Hi, How are you? my name is such and such...
why make or thinks it's so difficult?



That never works....noway

MyrtleBeachDude's photo
Fri 04/25/08 05:03 AM


how bout walking up to her, Hi, How are you? my name is such and such...
why make or thinks it's so difficult?



that is rather difficult to do online....laugh


laugh laugh laugh Cyber handshake perhaps?

hikerchick's photo
Fri 04/25/08 05:05 AM



how bout walking up to her, Hi, How are you? my name is such and such...
why make or thinks it's so difficult?



that is rather difficult to do online....laugh


laugh laugh laugh Cyber handshake perhaps?


gotta be careful..sometimes that leads to cybersex..and with all the cyber stds out there....

Lily0923's photo
Fri 04/25/08 05:05 AM

gotta be careful..sometimes that leads to cybersex..and with all the cyber stds out there....


ya, you could get a virus or something....

franshade's photo
Fri 04/25/08 05:17 AM

hey guys i'm new here, there's this girl i like but i don't know what to say to her, i'm kinda shy and she's way to hot for me.
any help's appreciated


OP never mentioned online or otherwiselaugh laugh
why not jump up and down rub your head pat your stomach while holding a sign saying I like YOU!!! (use a cam for online/do live if in person)
laugh laugh

MyrtleBeachDude's photo
Fri 04/25/08 05:19 AM


hey guys i'm new here, there's this girl i like but i don't know what to say to her, i'm kinda shy and she's way to hot for me.
any help's appreciated


OP never mentioned online or otherwiselaugh laugh
why not jump up and down rub your head pat your stomach while holding a sign saying I like YOU!!! (use a cam for online/do live if in person)
laugh laugh


do you realize how stupid I just now looked trying that?

franshade's photo
Fri 04/25/08 05:20 AM



hey guys i'm new here, there's this girl i like but i don't know what to say to her, i'm kinda shy and she's way to hot for me.
any help's appreciated


OP never mentioned online or otherwiselaugh laugh
why not jump up and down rub your head pat your stomach while holding a sign saying I like YOU!!! (use a cam for online/do live if in person)
laugh laugh


do you realize how stupid I just now looked trying that?


you could never look stupid love


Lily0923's photo
Fri 04/25/08 05:21 AM



hey guys i'm new here, there's this girl i like but i don't know what to say to her, i'm kinda shy and she's way to hot for me.
any help's appreciated


OP never mentioned online or otherwiselaugh laugh
why not jump up and down rub your head pat your stomach while holding a sign saying I like YOU!!! (use a cam for online/do live if in person)
laugh laugh


do you realize how stupid I just now looked trying that?


No, how stupid, can you do it again for us?

hikerchick's photo
Fri 04/25/08 05:21 AM


hey guys i'm new here, there's this girl i like but i don't know what to say to her, i'm kinda shy and she's way to hot for me.
any help's appreciated


OP never mentioned online or otherwiselaugh laugh
why not jump up and down rub your head pat your stomach while holding a sign saying I like YOU!!! (use a cam for online/do live if in person)
laugh laugh


You are correct.flowerforyou I read it wrong.

But I think your idea just might work.

franshade's photo
Fri 04/25/08 05:31 AM



hey guys i'm new here, there's this girl i like but i don't know what to say to her, i'm kinda shy and she's way to hot for me.
any help's appreciated


OP never mentioned online or otherwiselaugh laugh
why not jump up and down rub your head pat your stomach while holding a sign saying I like YOU!!! (use a cam for online/do live if in person)
laugh laugh


You are correct.flowerforyou I read it wrong.

But I think your idea just might work.


but yours was way more funny! laugh laugh laugh tgif ladieslaugh laugh and MBD flowerforyou

MyrtleBeachDude's photo
Fri 04/25/08 05:38 AM




hey guys i'm new here, there's this girl i like but i don't know what to say to her, i'm kinda shy and she's way to hot for me.
any help's appreciated


OP never mentioned online or otherwiselaugh laugh
why not jump up and down rub your head pat your stomach while holding a sign saying I like YOU!!! (use a cam for online/do live if in person)
laugh laugh


You are correct.flowerforyou I read it wrong.

But I think your idea just might work.


but yours was way more funny! laugh laugh laugh tgif ladieslaugh laugh and MBD flowerforyou


and a big ole TGIF ta you as well drinker

dorky_and_sporky's photo
Fri 04/25/08 07:45 AM
why are you sitting around, waiting for her to notice you? you're the man, take the initiative

Drivinmenutz's photo
Fri 04/25/08 03:53 PM
Edited by Drivinmenutz on Fri 04/25/08 04:12 PM
ok bro, for starters bear this in mind: When a guy approaches a girl with confidence (if your are not confident get good at pretending) and says anything, even like "hey, what's up", (notice how i didn't introduce myself) it's kinda like us seeing a woman in her underwear. It has the same affect. So yeah, she's not out of your league if you can man up.

Also keep in mind the last thing you want to do is try to impress her. When you try to impress someone you aren't being yourself. Instead just try to get to know her. Don't think of her as being a potential date. Just be friendly, even tease her a bit. Humor is usually a good way to open up. Don't be afraid of being too cocky either. Cockiness is good to a small extent. If you go overboard, turn it into a joke.

Take your time as well. If you are succeeding with her don't jump all over it. Wait till next time. This time leave a night open, and scheduel something you could do with her or without her. That way when you ask her out you say "hey, i'm doing (whatever), wanna come?" Takes some of the pressure off that way. It avoids the awkwardness of things seeming too much like an official date right off the bat.

Also hint: When i said don't try to impress her i meant it. This means, don't try to win her over by kissing her a$$. Be polite, but don't buy flowers for a while, and don't compliment her too much. Don't tell her she's pretty either. If you notice something particular about her you can compliment the highlights in her hair or something, or even a piece of her clothing. Even then, only a compliment or two. Especially before you date.

....oh yeah, remember, you are aiming to get to know her, not necesarily be her boyfriend... Keep telling yourself that.indifferent

Coolguy81's photo
Sun 04/27/08 09:35 AM

hey guys i'm new here, there's this girl i like but i don't know what to say to her, i'm kinda shy and she's way to hot for me.
any help's appreciated



1. Get a good job, flash the fruits of that job. Big house, big car, etc. Girls love this more then anything.

2. Adopt an anti social personality, and treat her and everything like you couldnt care less. Purchase a motorcycle and get a tattoo and that image should be complete.


Im sorry to have to tell you this, but nothing else is going to work for you. Most girls have some perception of their "value" on the market, and even if you had the balls to approach her, likely 50 guys a day do, and youd have to seperate yourself from them, or make her perceive you as a more valuable prize then the others. This is step one.

Step two, if you do happen to get your hooks in her, take the advice of Drivinmenutz, he seems to have a pretty good grasp on how you handle a woman, although I would have to disagree with complimenting her even a couple times. Under no circumstance should you EVER act like you actually "like" her. That is the fastest way to make her move on. I would suggest no compliments, no flowers, and I would also suggest being very critical of her flaws. She will stay around much longer, in fact, may even become hopelessly drawn to you if she is forced to continously work for your approval.

Regardless of what biology might suggest, women love a challenge far more then men. In most mens book, they would gladly skip all the dating and "work" of the relationship just to get to the fruit of it. With women, the "work" of the relationship usually IS their fruit. If you cut that out, often they find no reason whatsoever to stick around.

dolphin14's photo
Sun 04/27/08 09:43 AM

hey guys i'm new here, there's this girl i like but i don't know what to say to her, i'm kinda shy and she's way to hot for me.
any help's appreciated
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When i hear someone saying that, i want to scream where is your confidence. Trust me coming from a girl saying that she is way too hot for her makes us women run the other direction. WE like someone that has confidence.

dolphin14's photo
Sun 04/27/08 09:45 AM

ok bro, for starters bear this in mind: When a guy approaches a girl with confidence (if your are not confident get good at pretending) and says anything, even like "hey, what's up", (notice how i didn't introduce myself) it's kinda like us seeing a woman in her underwear. It has the same affect. So yeah, she's not out of your league if you can man up.

Also keep in mind the last thing you want to do is try to impress her. When you try to impress someone you aren't being yourself. Instead just try to get to know her. Don't think of her as being a potential date. Just be friendly, even tease her a bit. Humor is usually a good way to open up. Don't be afraid of being too cocky either. Cockiness is good to a small extent. If you go overboard, turn it into a joke.

Take your time as well. If you are succeeding with her don't jump all over it. Wait till next time. This time leave a night open, and scheduel something you could do with her or without her. That way when you ask her out you say "hey, i'm doing (whatever), wanna come?" Takes some of the pressure off that way. It avoids the awkwardness of things seeming too much like an official date right off the bat.

Also hint: When i said don't try to impress her i meant it. This means, don't try to win her over by kissing her a$$. Be polite, but don't buy flowers for a while, and don't compliment her too much. Don't tell her she's pretty either. If you notice something particular about her you can compliment the highlights in her hair or something, or even a piece of her clothing. Even then, only a compliment or two. Especially before you date.

....oh yeah, remember, you are aiming to get to know her, not necesarily be her boyfriend... Keep telling yourself that.indifferent


Excellent advice.....

No1sLove's photo
Sun 04/27/08 09:51 AM

hey guys i'm new here, there's this girl i like but i don't know what to say to her, i'm kinda shy and she's way to hot for me.
any help's appreciated
What is "too hot"? So you think she's attractive...people are people no matter their looks. If you don't give her a chance to determine if she might feel the same, you just lose any chance anyway. flowerforyou

Citizen_Joe's photo
Sun 04/27/08 12:35 PM

hey guys i'm new here, there's this girl i like but i don't know what to say to her, i'm kinda shy and she's way to hot for me.
any help's appreciated


So say hi to her.