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Topic: need help getting a girl to notice i exist
EtherealEmbers's photo
Mon 04/28/08 04:18 AM


hey guys i'm new here, there's this girl i like but i don't know what to say to her, i'm kinda shy and she's way to hot for me.
any help's appreciated



1. Get a good job, flash the fruits of that job. Big house, big car, etc. Girls love this more then anything.

2. Adopt an anti social personality, and treat her and everything like you couldnt care less. Purchase a motorcycle and get a tattoo and that image should be complete.


Im sorry to have to tell you this, but nothing else is going to work for you. Most girls have some perception of their "value" on the market, and even if you had the balls to approach her, likely 50 guys a day do, and youd have to seperate yourself from them, or make her perceive you as a more valuable prize then the others. This is step one.

Step two, if you do happen to get your hooks in her, take the advice of Drivinmenutz, he seems to have a pretty good grasp on how you handle a woman, although I would have to disagree with complimenting her even a couple times. Under no circumstance should you EVER act like you actually "like" her. That is the fastest way to make her move on. I would suggest no compliments, no flowers, and I would also suggest being very critical of her flaws. She will stay around much longer, in fact, may even become hopelessly drawn to you if she is forced to continously work for your approval.

Regardless of what biology might suggest, women love a challenge far more then men. In most mens book, they would gladly skip all the dating and "work" of the relationship just to get to the fruit of it. With women, the "work" of the relationship usually IS their fruit. If you cut that out, often they find no reason whatsoever to stick around.


Wow, no wonder I'm usually single. Attitudes like this suck!

hikerchick's photo
Mon 04/28/08 04:30 AM



hey guys i'm new here, there's this girl i like but i don't know what to say to her, i'm kinda shy and she's way to hot for me.
any help's appreciated



1. Get a good job, flash the fruits of that job. Big house, big car, etc. Girls love this more then anything.

2. Adopt an anti social personality, and treat her and everything like you couldnt care less. Purchase a motorcycle and get a tattoo and that image should be complete.


Im sorry to have to tell you this, but nothing else is going to work for you. Most girls have some perception of their "value" on the market, and even if you had the balls to approach her, likely 50 guys a day do, and youd have to seperate yourself from them, or make her perceive you as a more valuable prize then the others. This is step one.

Step two, if you do happen to get your hooks in her, take the advice of Drivinmenutz, he seems to have a pretty good grasp on how you handle a woman, although I would have to disagree with complimenting her even a couple times. Under no circumstance should you EVER act like you actually "like" her. That is the fastest way to make her move on. I would suggest no compliments, no flowers, and I would also suggest being very critical of her flaws. She will stay around much longer, in fact, may even become hopelessly drawn to you if she is forced to continously work for your approval.

Regardless of what biology might suggest, women love a challenge far more then men. In most mens book, they would gladly skip all the dating and "work" of the relationship just to get to the fruit of it. With women, the "work" of the relationship usually IS their fruit. If you cut that out, often they find no reason whatsoever to stick around.


Wow, no wonder I'm usually single. Attitudes like this suck!


Luckily, 99% of the guys out there do not feel this way. Most of them are not deranged.

no photo
Tue 04/29/08 12:16 AM


If you're not confident dude, you've already lost the battle. Chics can smell a poser a mile away.


Yes, but there is a line betweeen confidence and cockiness...

Overt cockiness is a fake outward expression of confidence while the true confidence inside does not exist :wink:

Yes, them chicks can smell a poser a mile away.

Jtevans's photo
Tue 04/29/08 12:59 AM
flash her.if she likes what she sees,you'll get her #,if she doesn't than you'll go to jail




ok i got what was behind door #2 but hey,we can't win'em all

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