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Topic: What would make you deactivate here?
DestinysDream's photo
Thu 04/24/08 11:06 PM
Would you keep talking online to all your other potential dates while still going out with someone else?

At what point in your relationship would you decide it was not kosher being here?

itsmetina's photo
Thu 04/24/08 11:08 PM
well i would justjust let people know i was here for friends

trying_to_fly's photo
Thu 04/24/08 11:08 PM
Just stay for friends!!!! You can make TONS!!!!! I've made some GREAT friends here!!!drinker

auburngirl's photo
Thu 04/24/08 11:08 PM
When I felt strongly enough for someone else that I didn't care to talk to anyone else. I wouldn't want to hurt the person I cared for.

no photo
Thu 04/24/08 11:09 PM
Coming from a person who's come here from a less-than-admirable experience at another dating site, I'd say that an online argument with an obvious flake with her idiot friends with a penchant for calling me a "terrorist" would just about do it.

That's not the ONLY thing that'd do it, though.

Shaden's photo
Thu 04/24/08 11:30 PM
If I was dating exclusively I'd boldly put that in my profile, but keep the friends.
JSH friends are great!happy :tongue: happy
I'm hoping some will be friends for life!

DestinysDream's photo
Thu 04/24/08 11:38 PM
Thanks for the answers. I deactivated because the woman I met was very jealous. I didn't want this place to ever become an issue.

This place is great but if I weigh the two then the site would be the one that goes even if it meant losing my online friends.

BTW, I have some great friends here. I know they'd understand my decision and would be here if I ever returned. Come to think of it. I did and they did. laugh

yellowrose10's photo
Thu 04/24/08 11:39 PM
pfft...i told you what i thought lol

now move to texas

DebbieJT's photo
Thu 04/24/08 11:52 PM
im dating met him on here..and when i started dating him..i told people on here..so i was open about it from the start..and if anyone emails me now..i let them know only friendship is on offer

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 04/25/08 05:26 AM

Thanks for the answers. I deactivated because the woman I met was very jealous. I didn't want this place to ever become an issue.

This place is great but if I weigh the two then the site would be the one that goes even if it meant losing my online friends.

BTW, I have some great friends here. I know they'd understand my decision and would be here if I ever returned. Come to think of it. I did and they did. laugh


Sorry when they start dictating you with whom you can talk to and it only be friends you have a problem. Regardless whom or if I date someone I will still remain on this site been here for almost 2 years now and have made a lot of friends. If they can't deal with having friends over the internet what the heck are they going to be like in real life shshshshshh noway noway noway noway noway noway noway noway noway noway noway noway

FallinAngel82's photo
Fri 04/25/08 05:29 AM
been here for just over a year maybe longer.. i cant even remember any more..

the people here have become like a second family to me..

so it wouldnt be a matter of my mate or my friends it would be my mate or my family and my family always comes first in my mind..
if they are to jealouse to have me talkin to my family here then they are to jealouse to be my mate

QueOndeGuero's photo
Fri 04/25/08 11:05 AM
you can be friends with people i'd leave if my life got too hectic, which will happen once september rolls around

FearandLoathing's photo
Fri 04/25/08 11:09 AM
I'm here primarily for friends, if something ends up happening...then it happens, wouldn't stop talking to people here...besides what would you all do without my cynicism.laugh drinker

hikerchick's photo
Fri 04/25/08 11:10 AM

I'm here primarily for friends, if something ends up happening...then it happens, wouldn't stop talking to people here...besides what would you all do without my cynicism.laugh drinker


I don't think I could get through a day without it.

hikerchick's photo
Fri 04/25/08 11:11 AM
And DD - I would not date someone so jealous. Anyone who makes you give up your friends does not really care about you. She just wants to control you. BEWARE.

Citizen_Joe's photo
Fri 04/25/08 12:20 PM

Would you keep talking online to all your other potential dates while still going out with someone else?

At what point in your relationship would you decide it was not kosher being here?


I personally see the online dating scene as for entertainment purposes, unless evidence suggests otherwise. If nothing else, bantering back and forth about this and that fills the void invention #4 occupies while it's making invention #5. As for long term, I'm thinking naturally I wont have near the time here as I do now should I decide to lower my IQ and fall in love/lust with someone. :tongue:

hikerchick's photo
Fri 04/25/08 12:23 PM

When I felt strongly enough for someone else that I didn't care to talk to anyone else. I wouldn't want to hurt the person I cared for.


why would someone be hurt by you having friends? I just don't get that.

Do we cease all contact with the outside world once we pair up? In that case, I am definitely staying single.

No wonder so many relationships fail.

fairycatcher31's photo
Fri 04/25/08 12:24 PM
I met my match/girlfriend on this site in the matchmaker thread and we still chat on here often. We made good "online" friends here so why stop. We know we have each other and are not looking for others, it is all about trust!

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Fri 04/25/08 12:27 PM
This site would have to deactivate...

Thats the only way I ever would!

I'm here to stay! Your all stuck with me!!!

:tongue:


hikerchick's photo
Fri 04/25/08 12:27 PM

This site would have to deactivate...

Thats the only way I ever would!

I'm here to stay! Your all stuck with me!!!

:tongue:




Hooray!!!drinker

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