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Topic: Is it ok for a girl to
seansippo Joined Mon 04/14/08 Posts: 146	Wed 04/23/08 10:57 PM
if a girl wants to she can ask me out

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Wed 04/23/08 10:58 PM
ohhh ching no1! get him! That wasn't supposed to be a slam at all...I just laugh to thing of women my and your age acting like that.

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Wed 04/23/08 11:00 PM
well she is young....bless her sweet silly heart!

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Wed 04/23/08 11:02 PM
ask a guy on a date, or do you feel that takes something out of it? I think more of you woman on this site should ask and like Lex said, it is flattering. I know there are men on this site that are way to aggressive and some just straight out wrong, but you do have some men on here that are what some of you women want but are afraid to ask to see where things go. Sorry to put it this way, but i see to many of you women looking for what you want and not what would make you happy

Bry395 Joined Wed 10/10/07 Posts: 9163	Wed 04/23/08 11:03 PM
If I dating the guy then I will aske him out since I would already be comfortable with him. But to ask a guy out on the first date? If I knew him maybe only for a drink.

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Wed 04/23/08 11:04 PM
or there are some of us that aren't looking at all. Some are just here for friends

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Wed 04/23/08 11:05 PM
ask a guy on a date, or do you feel that takes something out of it? I think more of you woman on this site should ask and like Lex said, it is flattering. I know there are men on this site that are way to aggressive and some just straight out wrong, but you do have some men on here that are what some of you women want but are afraid to ask to see where things go. Sorry to put it this way, but i see to many of you women looking for what you want and not what would make you happy I agree with you, however it takes a guy with balls to date me, and if he can't ask me out...he doesn't have enough to handle me.

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Wed 04/23/08 11:05 PM
or there are some of us that aren't looking at all. Some are just here for friends Most will say that, but in reality if your honest with yourself. Your looking for someone

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Wed 04/23/08 11:07 PM
As a rule I don't do it, because, for one I need a guy that is at least half as outgoing as me, and if he can't ask me out...it's doomed from the start. and for another thing, I think most women like to be pursued. I don't think anything wrong if the girl asks...it's just not my thing. I agree with Lily.

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Wed 04/23/08 11:09 PM
ask a guy on a date, or do you feel that takes something out of it? I think more of you woman on this site should ask and like Lex said, it is flattering. I know there are men on this site that are way to aggressive and some just straight out wrong, but you do have some men on here that are what some of you women want but are afraid to ask to see where things go. Sorry to put it this way, but i see to many of you women looking for what you want and not what would make you happy I agree with you, however it takes a guy with balls to date me, and if he can't ask me out...he doesn't have enough to handle me. No it don't take balls Your not hard to figure out. It's just knowing if the man knows what you want and knows how to get to know you for who you are and that means spending time with you

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Wed 04/23/08 11:09 PM
ask a guy on a date, or do you feel that takes something out of it? I think more of you woman on this site should ask and like Lex said, it is flattering. I know there are men on this site that are way to aggressive and some just straight out wrong, but you do have some men on here that are what some of you women want but are afraid to ask to see where things go. Sorry to put it this way, but i see to many of you women looking for what you want and not what would make you happy I agree. But only wish I could. I might be able to email a guy to ask him out...but would freak asking him to his face.

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Wed 04/23/08 11:11 PM
ask a guy on a date, or do you feel that takes something out of it? I think more of you woman on this site should ask and like Lex said, it is flattering. I know there are men on this site that are way to aggressive and some just straight out wrong, but you do have some men on here that are what some of you women want but are afraid to ask to see where things go. Sorry to put it this way, but i see to many of you women looking for what you want and not what would make you happy I agree. But only wish I could. I might be able to email a guy to ask him out...but would freak asking him to his face. I can see that, it goes that way with men to.

yaya28 Joined Fri 01/25/08 Posts: 1341	Wed 04/23/08 11:12 PM
I've asked a guy out before and was turned down.

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Wed 04/23/08 11:13 PM
or there are some of us that aren't looking at all. Some are just here for friends Most will say that, but in reality if your honest with yourself. Your looking for someone I may feel this is not the right time for me to start dating, but if I were really into someone, I would not walk away because I said I wouldn't date...oh heck no.

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Wed 04/23/08 11:15 PM
I've asked a guy out before and was turned down. At least you're able to put yourself out there and take the risk. Applause from me for that.