When you post your profiles as "Off the market" or something similar on all the various dating sites you may be a member of you seem to start getting more winks and mail than before? I met someone I would really like to get into a relationship with who I have been talking to since December. It is nothing serious at all yet, but I am hopeful and I am going to give it as long as need be (love ya L ). How do you tell women NOT to wink or write without sounding like a jerk, or do you just ignore them? Be gentle with me, this is my first post and I'm not all that experienced at dating.

I don't know, but i think I'm changing my profile to "Taken"

by me ........

Too much effort to reply? WIth saying I am not interested?

You have done what you can on your profile. If you still receive e-mails send back ONE polite not interested e-mail. If they persist you can either block or take the gloves off...

You say that to all the girls...

and I mean ALL

Lucky dog you

just be yourself and go slow... and sense this is your first post

well i should say... welcome to the family and join in the and the and have a

I would if I were a paying member of most of them, but....

the men or women that do that are doing it because they like the challenge or game of seeing if they can take you away. find out if they are just wanting to chat and be friends or something else. if they want something else then they have no respect and I would just tell them "sorry, but I'm seeing someone" then if they keep on either block them or tell them bye

I suddenly feel very drawn to you... I can't put my finger on it.

paying member??? this is a free site.. did you give your credit card to pats..

No you can't! No finger or any other body part!

yeah I get the idea. I still think its sad there are women like that around on the prowl

sorry im taken, who wants me

Nah, but Mutual Match is really pretty cool

No NEVER........

Agreed, I get lots of mail and I'm no longer single. I did make it very clear in my profile that is the case, and I simply reference that in my replies. I point out that I am an example of the site working, and wish them luck.

ahhhh come here irad...I'll put up with you lol

Why can't there be more women like you in the world?