Sweetie....

If the only thing that is left from this relationship is heartache. You will get tired of the heartache..... & move on down the path of your life towards a truer love of your own.

It's funny whenever we lose someone, be it that you broke it off with them, or vice versa, how it hurts to see them with someone else. I say funny cause we want them to be happy (in most cases) and yet, when they do find it, it hurts like hell to see them that way. Why is that? I truly don't know. Could be a number of reasons.

Time does heal us. It can make us bitter or it can help you to realize that you are over that person. But I think an "event" happens. Could be anything. But this event will come and then it will just become clear to you....your no longer affected by that persons happiness with another man/woman. Someone could say something to you that just makes you realize that you need to move along and find what you want. Or, you could watch a movie and see a scene that just makes you realize how you are over him/her. It sucks that some people move on faster than others, but that is just how it is.

Hang in there girl. What you want is what we all want. I am fortunate in that I found that one person who I feel is all I ever wanted. And I am sure you will find that person one day too.

Easier said than done "stop thinking about your ex"...truth be told no one stops thinking about an ex if they were with that ex for a long time. All you can do is move on with your life and hope it works out with you in the long run, stop thinking about what could've been and what couldn't, settle with it being unknown. There are far worse things that are unknown in life. Hope and peace be with you.

Really good point I think you hit the nail on the head. In most cases I just have to talk to her for a little while and I become thankful that I am not in a one-sided relationship anymore.


James

It means you're feeling kinda lonely, thinking of the last person you were with, and what they have that you want.

Do something to occupy your mind and think about something else.

I used to feel that way

Now i don't anymore

I'm actually happy for her

Love takes time to heal when your hurting so much
Couldn't see that I was blind to let you go oh
I can't escape the pain inside, cause love takes time
and I don't want to be here, I don't want to be her...Alone!!

I know that was sad but the whole point was love does take time and soon you will find a man that will not hurt you and who will love you for you and worship the ground you walk on!!
Keep your chin up Hbb your man is waiting for you he just hasn't found you yet...But he will!!

~Jenn~

HBB , i know how you feel.i have been there before...and i know it hurts and just how sad it can make you. don't let it pull you down..there is someone out there for you. i used to think there wasn't someone out there for me, but i have been proven wrong...i met someone and he is wonderful. there will be someone for you..someone who will be everything you have wanted and more. best of luck to you dear..and i hope things get better for you..
Becca

I use to feel this way about my ex. The only reason why I was crushed over him being happy with another woman,because I was jealous that another woman could make him happy and I couldn't. I'm not saying you are jealous, but I was.

As time goes on, you will heal and not feel that way any more.

sweetie, don't worry. time will heal you. you are an amazing girl. I'm sure you will somebody who deserves u.
and don't be depressed you know that makes me sad.

He may always be in your mind somewhere but over time the pain will go away if you let it all go and then you will be able to move on. You might should wait awhile before you get with someone else. Let your mind get at ease.

It means that the allure of having what you think you cannot have is overwhelming to you. Focus on another.

that happened to me too...until i found someone else....then that didn't work.....Sometimes we need to take a breather from intimate relationships....i'm taking slow deep breaths...

Nice new pic Romeo

And ya, to the OP .. give it some time. Time truly DOES heal

Very nice

HBB... sweetie... the majority are head on with this...
TIME is the answer.. and the best thing you can do for YOURSELF while you wait for time to do its healing, is to occupy yourself with activities, friends & such.