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Topic: the good thing about breakups.
Moondark's photo
Wed 04/16/08 10:43 AM
The good thing is that I take them out on the treadmill. Helps me get motivated again. For example, last fall, I was working out all the time, but between switching jobs and working too much and talking online with a person all the time, I got out of the habit. Gained a few pounds. We finally started seeing each other, and for some reason, every time I start dating, I gain 5 pounds. Now I take it out on the tread mill. I don't spend as much time on the computer. WOOT. Yeah for motivation to workout.

So what is a good thing that results for you when things end?

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Wed 04/16/08 10:44 AM
Something new.

catfishned's photo
Wed 04/16/08 10:44 AM
I get all my yard work done.

Zilla81's photo
Wed 04/16/08 10:45 AM
After my last one ended, I didnt have to listen to Kenny Chesney all damn day anymore.


lilith401's photo
Wed 04/16/08 10:45 AM
I learn more about me, why I do things, how I can become a better person, and about my motivations in general.

Most of all? I become better friends with me and content with accepting who I am and working towards striving to be better at the things I do need to work on.

Funny thing is... in my current relationship I am doing that even more than after a breakup.... hmmmm.

tslengquist's photo
Wed 04/16/08 10:46 AM
Well I'm sure anyone and everyone would say that after the healing time is up, we're all stronger because of them.. I certainly know that first-hand after losing love also took my best friend...

I miss her so much and wish she could still be a part of my life but she's moved on with hers and chosen not to have me in it...

brokenheart :cry:

Life goes on :wink: bigsmile

littleike's photo
Wed 04/16/08 10:46 AM

The good thing is that I take them out on the treadmill. Helps me get motivated again. For example, last fall, I was working out all the time, but between switching jobs and working too much and talking online with a person all the time, I got out of the habit. Gained a few pounds. We finally started seeing each other, and for some reason, every time I start dating, I gain 5 pounds. Now I take it out on the tread mill. I don't spend as much time on the computer. WOOT. Yeah for motivation to workout.

So what is a good thing that results for you when things end?
i got to strt something befor it can end,lollaugh

Jill298's photo
Wed 04/16/08 10:48 AM
do u ever hear back from that guy?

CleanBathroom's photo
Wed 04/16/08 10:52 AM
For me, I usually get to leave cryptic messages for girls from NE Ohio on website forums - as I have extra time to spare.

I also tell my ex-wife's new boyfriends that she totally digs talking about fantasy baseball ALL the time.

Yeah, enjoy that baby....

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Wed 04/16/08 10:54 AM
I saved a bunch of money on toilet paper! drinker

lilith401's photo
Wed 04/16/08 10:54 AM

For me, I usually get to leave cryptic messages for girls from NE Ohio on website forums - as I have extra time to spare.


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Good one!

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Wed 04/16/08 10:55 AM

I saved a bunch of money on toilet paper! drinker
laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

CleanBathroom's photo
Wed 04/16/08 10:55 AM

I saved a bunch of money on toilet paper! drinker


Were you dating a puma????

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Wed 04/16/08 10:58 AM

After my last one ended, I didnt have to listen to Kenny Chesney all damn day anymore.




laugh bigsmile I so understand this one!

littleike's photo
Wed 04/16/08 10:58 AM

I saved a bunch of money on toilet paper! drinker
lol, your so funny and thats coollaugh

littleike's photo
Wed 04/16/08 11:01 AM


After my last one ended, I didnt have to listen to Kenny Chesney all damn day anymore.




laugh bigsmile I so understand this one!
all he does is sing about surfing anymore,beach bum,its so anoyinglaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Wed 04/16/08 11:02 AM
The good thing about being decapitated: No more headaches.

Nickinolosers's photo
Wed 04/16/08 11:03 AM
I have learned to do more for myself

brooke007's photo
Wed 04/16/08 11:05 AM


So what is a good thing that results for you when things end?



self discovery that u learned from the relationship.
what to do/not to do next time.

and then suddenly..YOU have more time for your self!!laugh

brooke007's photo
Wed 04/16/08 11:06 AM



After my last one ended, I didnt have to listen to Kenny Chesney all damn day anymore.




laugh bigsmile I so understand this one!
all he does is sing about surfing anymore,beach bum,its so anoyinglaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh


u were not listening close enough!!laugh laugh

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