same list applies to married couples..they get divorced and usually the woman is left in poverty if the former husband doesnt pay child support, have affairs and spread diseases to their spouses, many married women have abortions.....

Lindyy says:

I totally agree with you.

I approach life through my Christian faith. I know what God says in His holy word the Bible. Sexual immorality is an abomination to God. His commands on this are plastered all through the Old and New Testaments.

Yes, it is hard to control sexual feelings. But God gave us sex for a purpose, not to make trash of our bodies.

Sex in preteen and teen years messes up the individual's emotions, confidence and self pride. It is a cancer spreading across the country, the world as if there should be no pride of oneself, no dignity or strength of character.

It is a constant struggle, sex that is, but one needs to assess one's own moral values and respect for oneself.

The breakdown in the family is a great cause for this rampant 'if it feels good do it' attitude in the US.

People mistake lust for love. Lack of parental direction and parental concern is the main culprit.

NO, you cannot rule your child's life, but you sure can give them the best moral upbringing possible and set an example yourself.

The choice is everyone's, and it can be extremely hard when emotions are involved.

There is so much pornography, strip clubs, call girls, pimps, prostitution, abortions, etc. I do not understand how one can do such a thing to oneself.

Yes, God forgives, but that does not mean you can continually take the cop out that He forgives and continually sin, repent, sin repent.

Lindyy

Sex outside marriage is cool as long as you are responsible.I had both my kids while married but I feel if I am in a long term relationship then yep there will be sex.I don't intend to marry again so..

According to *who's* morals? Obviously yours (and that is your choice) but just because those are YOUR morals, does not mean they are *everyone's* morals. Now, that is not to say you are wrong in your beliefs, but they are uniquely your beliefs. If someone else believes the same, that is happenstance, but not a genetic determination.

As DevilsMom feels - for whatever reason - she does not want to marry again. That is her choice, and if her morals allows that - and she harms no one else - so be it. I would not personally consider her 'amoral' for it.

Just different.

CDLMom

You sexy little critter you! Just kidding. It is a very sensitive subject.

We all have to go by what we feel is right.

I never wanted to get married again, now I am rethinking it, but there just do not seem to be any 'right' men in my area.

Oh, well........................

Lindyy