That online dating is about as tough is trying to find a good deal on Gas at the pump if not as tough as finding another job that is worth waking up to every morning or day etc.

Lucky there are many people that don't have a problem and have found the right woman or guy there looking for which is great and all but for those who haven't like my self who I am which thinking that I might not be all that great looking that and not have having a whole lot of cash or a car has a lot to do with it.

Oh well.. I guess I'll change what I am looking for and just go with friends.

Well I'm off to bed, I'll check back on this topic later.

But I'm unsure what others think or feel or if they think the same as I do.

I mean I am really not hard to get a long with or anything like that. I'm pretty friendly and honest.

Oh well, I guess I'm just not what others are looking for, surely I don't go to bars and sure I have tired the M-match on here and it hasn't worked for me yet and woman never hardy respond to me if at all.

Sorry for the late night / morning winning but I just felt like getting that off of my mind because it seem's to be true, all woman seem's to want is some money bags guy with big wheels and a big a$$ house and so much more, either that or some guy that has been in and out of jail.

Makes me some times question is this why God has made Hookers j/k there .

Night.

HAHA I was thinkin the same thing earlier man

nice girls are out there we just have the right to be picky cuz there arent many of us and we are hard to find amid the *****es and golddiggers

you heard right.............patience. you've heard that too, but it's true.

Just for the record..i'm on the good side..i'm not a b*tch or a golddigger

Anything worth having in life you have to work for .. if it were easy it wouldnt be worth so much or be special.

The best relationships have solid foundations which take time be patient shes out there.

True, good point.

Even the lucky ones who found someone didn't have it easy. There are NO easy ways when it comes to finding someone.

Nothing in life comes easy. If it did it would not be
worth having.

But in these days & times sorry to burst a bubble but
you know Women WORK NOW we make our own living, buy our
own cars and houses.

Humm so yeah we tend to want a Man that can keep up with
life and what we want. Are we a bit more picky maybe so.
But then Men have always been that way too.

Love is not something one can buy at least not true love.
So if it is your pocket book they are after then you have
a hooker so to speak and guess you got your wish.

One must pay closer attention to the person within if one
truly wants one to share there life with.

Nothing in this life will be handed to one, but.....at times
one searches too hard for what they are looking for and it
has been right there all along.

Take a good look next time you go somewhere look at the clerk
behind the counter really look at them eye to eye. Or the
one at the fast food place or someone you pass in the mall.
Take the time to say hello you never know you might have
seen them a hundred times but in reality never really looked.

Give Love time it will show up when you least expect it too.

Beautiful! I could'nt have said it better.

Understandable and I get what your saying.

Maybe I am searching to hard at times or just not getting out enough, whatever the case maybe oh well.