You know nothing about anyone here yet you felt compelled to insult my friends and myself. Do I need to play back everything you said?

You seem to be lacking a crucial piece of information in this whole scenario. You mistakenly believe the virtual world is different than the real world. The fact is that JSH is a microcasm of society. There are wonderful people that we all adore and those that are less so that we tolerate. And then there are those that we plain don't like because we perceive them to be demeaning, hateful or whatever the case may be.

You can fall back on the classic stand bys of, "I was only trying to get a reaction," "You don't know me so how can you judge me," or my personal favorite, "I was only kidding." We've all heard this crap MANY MANY times before.

Out here initially we can only judge you based on your words. There will come a time when you may make friends And we can also get a fair indication of who you are based on the people who call you friend.

If you truly wish to be my friend then I propose the following suggestions.
1. Apologize SINCERELY to the people you offended.
2. Do not try defending your position. It is indefensible
3. Let people try to get to know you before you decide to stir the pot again
4. Be respectful to everyone out here. Unless the situation screams otherwise. (look in the mirror for example)
5. PLAY NICE

....if i was lookin for a hero..youd be up there on the list loose...your the bomb , I love it every time you do this "voice of reason" thing you are so righteous at...KUDOS !!!


~wicked~

Thank you

I do it so people like yourself will hopefully have a nicer environment in which to socialize. I do not give a rat's ass what he or anyone like him has to say to me.

Is it just me, or does every guy under 40 think he knows so much more than he does? They all think they can read minds and that they know enough to pass judgement on people they have never met.

yayyyyyy I just had that very thought. After reading this I get the feeling of someone's shortcomings.

Sorry, your question was is it you, the answer is yes.

short lesson - women we like a variety of things, ask any 2 of us and while we may have similar tastes we are all individuals,
but a man would know that

i've noticed every woman over 40 on any given site loves to walk hand in hand in a park , or wants an activity partner to hang out with the rest of the Cougars.....can anyone explain this?

Darn I knew I forgot to put something in my profile. Thanks for the reminder.

Me, too.


But..I did fly a kite at the park recently. Does that count?