Topic: is it me, or does every woman over 40 wants to walk in a par
IndnPrncs's photo
Wed 04/16/08 12:27 AM

i can see...but realistically, princess- ive tried, only to meet the worst who claim to be the best...there was a really seemingly sweet gal i met on this site; blonde, well spoken, and a personality to boot - it wasnt until 2 weeks that i found that she was out of her mind...and the rest are tooo choosy - overall, id die to have a simple date...


That's the thing goo you can't put too much into it too quickly... 2 wks is too soon to know... slow and simple.. spend time in the threads, emailing, im'ing and phone time.. And ALWAYS, ALWAYS, give them enough rope...

googoomuck01's photo
Wed 04/16/08 12:30 AM
very true, ....it just stinks being judged as unsuitable...but such is fate...ive put you in my buddy list

IndnPrncs's photo
Wed 04/16/08 12:32 AM

very true, ....it just stinks being judged as unsuitable...but such is fate...ive put you in my buddy list


We will be buddies.. BUT be nice to my buddies ok??? flowerforyou Ok it's time for me to get to bet.. sweet dreams allflowerforyou

googoomuck01's photo
Wed 04/16/08 12:34 AM
nite, sweety- thanks for everything!!!

hikerchick's photo
Wed 04/16/08 04:52 AM

righto , pacificstar - very true!!!!

the few people i came across mentioned walking in the park- i even dated a few with the hopes of a least going to the park, and yet somehow the park's a lost subject to them....as extra proof- i worked at a dating site as a screener- and the park thing came up again and again.....and most of them sounded too heavy to walk to the entrance of the park; much so the park itself...

again, i did my research before posting this.....but they think im insulting...

btw - there are those who actually do waste other people's time by inviting their friends along on a blind date....and alot of bar women in jersey do wear mullets....




stop saying that about heavy women. We can walk. We can go to parks. You are so judgemental.

hikerchick's photo
Wed 04/16/08 04:54 AM

hurray for boobies?

and mullet filled bar women !!!



maybe you ought to get out of Jersey once in a while. There is a whole big world out there filled with mullet-free women over 40 walking on their own power.

hikerchick's photo
Wed 04/16/08 04:57 AM

id love to be everyone's friend, but some guy who looks like vin diesel with AIDS keeps talking for everone....i wish we can all be friends


Leave him alone. He is friends with 90% of the women on this site and you are not helping your case by going after him.

hikerchick's photo
Wed 04/16/08 04:59 AM

i can see...but realistically, princess- ive tried, only to meet the worst who claim to be the best...there was a really seemingly sweet gal i met on this site; blonde, well spoken, and a personality to boot - it wasnt until 2 weeks that i found that she was out of her mind...and the rest are tooo choosy - overall, id die to have a simple date...


and you thought insulting people and picking fights would help? Smooth. Hope it works out for you.

no photo
Wed 04/16/08 07:27 AM

oopps- sorry princess....ok , guys..no more awful jokes- and im definitely addin u as one of my friends....u really are sweet. and waterloo? - lets be friends...



You know nothing about anyone here yet you felt compelled to insult my friends and myself. Do I need to play back everything you said?

You seem to be lacking a crucial piece of information in this whole scenario. You mistakenly believe the virtual world is different than the real world. The fact is that JSH is a microcasm of society. There are wonderful people that we all adore and those that are less so that we tolerate. And then there are those that we plain don't like because we perceive them to be demeaning, hateful or whatever the case may be.

You can fall back on the classic stand bys of, "I was only trying to get a reaction," "You don't know me so how can you judge me," or my personal favorite, "I was only kidding." We've all heard this crap MANY MANY times before.

Out here initially we can only judge you based on your words. There will come a time when you may make friendshuh And we can also get a fair indication of who you are based on the people who call you friend.

If you truly wish to be my friend then I propose the following suggestions.
1. Apologize SINCERELY to the people you offended.
2. Do not try defending your position. It is indefensible
3. Let people try to get to know you before you decide to stir the pot again
4. Be respectful to everyone out here. Unless the situation screams otherwise. (look in the mirror for example)
5. PLAY NICE


carolanne58's photo
Wed 04/16/08 07:17 PM

id love to be everyone's friend, but some guy who looks like vin diesel with AIDS keeps talking for everone....i wish we can all be friends

So what does a person with AIDS look like???I resent what you just said as I have lost friends to AIDS.You just keep digging yourself a hole.go away!

wickedlluccy's photo
Wed 04/16/08 07:40 PM

ok - this one needs no explanation - go to almost any over 40 profile, and it almost always includes the drecky " walk in the park scenario"

either that, or an activity pardner - one poor immasculate fellow who wants to endure a few hours with a bunch of cougars (older gals with mullets, beer guts, and the voice of lucielle ball)....to spend an enchanting evening at an 80's themed bar...



noway noway noway ...BEING A COUGAR...XMILF...where the Hell are these sites..and who are the(women I use that term confusingly) that you are talkin about...lol..lol..I dont walk...anywhere...lol..and if you dont have a bike you would have to have a good reason ...for me to wana talk to you...your stereo type is GROSSLY inaccurate or from info from a foreign site !!! dude !!!noway grumble noway noway noway

hikerchick's photo
Wed 04/16/08 07:42 PM


ok - this one needs no explanation - go to almost any over 40 profile, and it almost always includes the drecky " walk in the park scenario"

either that, or an activity pardner - one poor immasculate fellow who wants to endure a few hours with a bunch of cougars (older gals with mullets, beer guts, and the voice of lucielle ball)....to spend an enchanting evening at an 80's themed bar...



noway noway noway ...BEING A COUGAR...XMILF...where the Hell are these sites..and who are the(women I use that term confusingly) that you are talkin about...lol..lol..I dont walk...anywhere...lol..and if you dont have a bike you would have to have a good reason ...for me to wana talk to you...your stereo type is GROSSLY inaccurate or from info from a foreign site !!! dude !!!noway grumble noway noway noway


it was a foreign country - New Jersey.He is collecting his data from malls and bars in New Jersey.

It explains so much.

no photo
Wed 04/16/08 07:50 PM


id love to be everyone's friend, but some guy who looks like vin diesel with AIDS keeps talking for everone....i wish we can all be friends

So what does a person with AIDS look like???I resent what you just said as I have lost friends to AIDS.You just keep digging yourself a hole.go away!



I believe he was referring to me.

carolanne58's photo
Wed 04/16/08 07:53 PM



id love to be everyone's friend, but some guy who looks like vin diesel with AIDS keeps talking for everone....i wish we can all be friends

So what does a person with AIDS look like???I resent what you just said as I have lost friends to AIDS.You just keep digging yourself a hole.go away!



I believe he was referring to me.

I guess he is a slow learner.I still think he's digging a holeyawn

hikerchick's photo
Wed 04/16/08 07:53 PM



id love to be everyone's friend, but some guy who looks like vin diesel with AIDS keeps talking for everone....i wish we can all be friends

So what does a person with AIDS look like???I resent what you just said as I have lost friends to AIDS.You just keep digging yourself a hole.go away!



I believe he was referring to me.


Indeed he was which was why I warned him not to mess with a guy who is friends with 90% of the women in these forums.

Winx's photo
Wed 04/16/08 07:54 PM


hurray for boobies?

and mullet filled bar women !!!



maybe you ought to get out of Jersey once in a while. There is a whole big world out there filled with mullet-free women over 40 walking on their own power.


I have never seen a woman with a mullet. noway

wickedlluccy's photo
Wed 04/16/08 07:59 PM
:heart: laugh :heart:



ok - this one needs no explanation - go to almost any over 40 profile, and it almost always includes the drecky " walk in the park scenario"

either that, or an activity pardner - one poor immasculate fellow who wants to endure a few hours with a bunch of cougars (older gals with mullets, beer guts, and the voice of lucielle ball)....to spend an enchanting evening at an 80's themed bar...



noway noway noway ...BEING A COUGAR...XMILF...where the Hell are these sites..and who are the(women I use that term confusingly) that you are talkin about...lol..lol..I dont walk...anywhere...lol..and if you dont have a bike you would have to have a good reason ...for me to wana talk to you...your stereo type is GROSSLY inaccurate or from info from a foreign site !!! dude !!!noway grumble noway noway noway


it was a foreign country - New Jersey.He is collecting his data from malls and bars in New Jersey.

It explains so much.


.......HIGH FIVE girlfriend...lol..lol..love it !!!!laugh :heart: laugh:heart: laugh :heart:

no photo
Wed 04/16/08 08:04 PM

i've noticed every woman over 40 on any given site loves to walk hand in hand in a park , or wants an activity partner to hang out with the rest of the Cougars.....can anyone explain this?



Please forgive ...but I think you need to quityer*****in and decide what you actually want/need AlREADY

wickedlluccy's photo
Wed 04/16/08 08:04 PM


oopps- sorry princess....ok , guys..no more awful jokes- and im definitely addin u as one of my friends....u really are sweet. and waterloo? - lets be friends...



You know nothing about anyone here yet you felt compelled to insult my friends and myself. Do I need to play back everything you said?

You seem to be lacking a crucial piece of information in this whole scenario. You mistakenly believe the virtual world is different than the real world. The fact is that JSH is a microcasm of society. There are wonderful people that we all adore and those that are less so that we tolerate. And then there are those that we plain don't like because we perceive them to be demeaning, hateful or whatever the case may be.

You can fall back on the classic stand bys of, "I was only trying to get a reaction," "You don't know me so how can you judge me," or my personal favorite, "I was only kidding." We've all heard this crap MANY MANY times before.

Out here initially we can only judge you based on your words. There will come a time when you may make friendshuh And we can also get a fair indication of who you are based on the people who call you friend.

If you truly wish to be my friend then I propose the following suggestions.
1. Apologize SINCERELY to the people you offended.
2. Do not try defending your position. It is indefensible
3. Let people try to get to know you before you decide to stir the pot again
4. Be respectful to everyone out here. Unless the situation screams otherwise. (look in the mirror for example)
5. PLAY NICE




....if i was lookin for a hero..youd be up there on the list loose...your the bomb , I love it every time you do this "voice of reason" thing you are so righteous at...KUDOS !!!


:heart:~wicked~:heart:

adj4u's photo
Wed 04/16/08 08:25 PM

You lookin for a sugar mommy, bro?



well it would be nice if she is sweet

:wink: :wink:

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