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Topic: im scared
babycake180 Joined Tue 01/01/08 Posts: 164	Tue 04/15/08 07:39 PM
my son father is a deadbeat he married to a 20 yr old who he started messing with when she was 17 pregant with another man twins and now he's 26 yr old with a 20 yr ols wife and 4 kids with her and one with me well he doesn't pay child support or anything he tells her all i wanted from him was a baby when he was the one that made me have the baby and keep it well now everytime he gets drunk he calls me telling i love you i want you back and stuff like that if i say no then he goes on about how he going to kill me and my son . his grandmother has told him that there was no way my son could be his because a white man and a black woman can't have kids and the crazy part about it is he beleived her so right now im at the point where i think i need to just get my son and move far away from the state im in cause if he beleive that crazy stuff then he just might try to kill me help me out what should i do

babycake180 Joined Tue 01/01/08 Posts: 164	Tue 04/15/08 07:40 PM
loook im not playign tonight im serious im scared

msdestinbooty Joined Wed 03/12/08 Posts: 1915	Tue 04/15/08 07:40 PM
CALL THE COPS ASAP!!!

1956deluxe Joined Thu 12/06/07 Posts: 8559	Tue 04/15/08 07:41 PM
Seek professional help...you won't find it here.

brooke007 Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 5469	Tue 04/15/08 07:41 PM
o baby cakes... lemme think on that.. my best belief RUN but think FIRST!! he threatened you?? omg honey

WhereIsMatt Joined Mon 02/18/08 Posts: 275	Tue 04/15/08 07:42 PM
See bad grammar thread.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Tue 04/15/08 07:42 PM
my son father is a deadbeat he married to a 20 yr old who he started messing with when she was 17 pregant with another man twins and now he's 26 yr old with a 20 yr ols wife and 4 kids with her and one with me well he doesn't pay child support or anything he tells her all i wanted from him was a baby when he was the one that made me have the baby and keep it well now everytime he gets drunk he calls me telling i love you i want you back and stuff like that if i say no then he goes on about how he going to kill me and my son . his grandmother has told him that there was no way my son could be his because a white man and a black woman can't have kids and the crazy part about it is he beleived her so right now im at the point where i think i need to just get my son and move far away from the state im in cause if he beleive that crazy stuff then he just might try to kill me help me out what should i do Yes move out of state is a good idea, but get a restraining order against him ASAP! Threats of harm to you and your son should be treated very seriously. Tell the cops, make out a report and get a restraining order and stay away from him. Hope things get better for you and your son.

brooke007 Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 5469	Tue 04/15/08 07:42 PM
are you home?? do u have family there WITH u??

ciggskill Joined Mon 06/04/07 Posts: 398	Tue 04/15/08 07:43 PM
well first id go to the cops and tell them what going on and if he calls you or comes by your house or anything then hell get arrested that a threat and a felony i wouldnt take what hes saying too light second if you dont want to move out of your state id suggest to move to a near by town and change your number and dont let him know where you are people are crazy and you need to protect your self and your son

babycake180 Joined Tue 01/01/08 Posts: 164	Tue 04/15/08 07:43 PM
the only family i have here is my brother who lives with me

dae11x Joined Thu 10/25/07 Posts: 1554	Tue 04/15/08 07:44 PM
You need to call the authorities ASAP!!!

brooke007 Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 5469	Tue 04/15/08 07:45 PM
call the cops. tell them that crap. tell them u just want them to be on the alert and drive by ur house tonight DOCUMENT IT!!

LIJOMA Joined Wed 01/09/08 Posts: 2591	Tue 04/15/08 07:45 PM
4-14-08 too for games

dae11x Joined Thu 10/25/07 Posts: 1554	Tue 04/15/08 07:46 PM
See bad grammar thread. Rude and uncalled for.

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Tue 04/15/08 07:47 PM
9-11...not the date, punch it into your phone (the thing that rings once in a while). Now wait, operator should pick up and say something along the lines of "911 what is your emergency". Alternative call the police station directly, another alternative go to the police station...or run and don't stop running.

brooke007 Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 5469	Tue 04/15/08 07:47 PM
dont let ur brother leave u there alone. call the cops babycakes, he probably is talkin crap, but U gotta DOCUMENT IT

babycake180 Joined Tue 01/01/08 Posts: 164	Tue 04/15/08 07:47 PM
im really serious LIJOMA i was working tonight and he called begging me to get back with him and when i said no he just went crazy

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Tue 04/15/08 07:49 PM
9-11...not the date, punch it into your phone (the thing that rings once in a while). Now wait, operator should pick up and say something along the lines of "911 what is your emergency". Alternative call the police station directly, another alternative go to the police station...or run and don't stop running. See above.

babycake180 Joined Tue 01/01/08 Posts: 164	Tue 04/15/08 07:49 PM
i got all his text his wife text she sends me i really don't want to be in the drama i told him to sign his rights over after the divorce and he never showed up for court so the judge ordered a child support order

1956deluxe Joined Thu 12/06/07 Posts: 8559	Tue 04/15/08 07:50 PM
i got all his text his wife text she sends me i really don't want to be in the drama i told him to sign his rights over after the divorce and he never showed up for court so the judge ordered a child support order Sounds like you need to get a restraining order too!