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Topic: i guess...
TheLonelyWalker's photo
Tue 04/15/08 03:14 PM
i'm culturally disabled of something like that because there are somethings i just don't understand.
For instance, the concept of popularity, being cool or nerd, and the several social subdivisions in schools.
At the beginning i just thought those were just things that Hollywood was trying to sale (Mean Girls), but with what happen in Lakeland, Fl (less than 100 miles from where i live) with these girls beating the hell out of that other girl.
I have come to think that maybe all those cliches are true.
However, what i fail to understand how all these social status are established:
is it like kids in school get together in the first year of high school and decide which role is going to play each one?
or is it like Darwin's natural selection - the survival of the fittest?
I mean maybe it's because i never was exposed to that environment. my entire school life at home was in catholic school for boys, but as far as i remember in one classroom we were all one thing. No social subdivisions at all. And we had everything kids extremely rich and the sons of the maids who work in the very same houses of those rich kids, and everybody was exactly the same.
And there was something that needed to be fixed by the fist, well a fight was arranged with certain pre-understood rules that nobody talked about, but everybody knew.
Like the fight could not last more that 5 minutes, just bare fist nothing else, and at the end both guys had to shake hands, and that was it.
However, I saw this video and these girls were just trying to brutally harm that other girl.
SO then again I really don't understand how things work anymore

TheLonelyWalker's photo
Tue 04/15/08 03:14 PM
ps: bear with me in the grammar and usage.flowerforyou

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Tue 04/15/08 03:17 PM
It certainly doesn't help when movies endorse this type of behaviour, either. On the one hand, in Mean Girls, the heroine prevails, yet on the other hand, it sends an explicit message that the type of behaviour is usual and frequent and somehow fun.

lilith401's photo
Tue 04/15/08 03:17 PM
Kids are mean, mister. They were mean when I went to school and they are mean now.

If you did not go to public school then you'll most likely never understand. Wish I could offer more...

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 04/15/08 03:18 PM
flowerforyou In their hearts, most people are basically evil.flowerforyou They just dont know it.flowerforyou

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Tue 04/15/08 03:18 PM
No doubt about it...HUMANS are animals. drinker

hellkitten54's photo
Tue 04/15/08 03:19 PM
My son better not ever treat others with such disrespect. I will tear a knot into his arse.grumble

Lily0923's photo
Tue 04/15/08 03:19 PM

flowerforyou In their hearts, most people are basically evil.flowerforyou They just dont know it.flowerforyou


What about those of us that embrase it? devil

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Tue 04/15/08 03:20 PM
i am sure that if there were ""groups at your school...with a ruler to the back of their hands, the nuns would beat them into conformity:wink:

TheLonelyWalker's photo
Tue 04/15/08 03:20 PM

Kids are mean, mister. They were mean when I went to school and they are mean now.

If you did not go to public school then you'll most likely never understand. Wish I could offer more...

kids are what they learn to be from home.

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Tue 04/15/08 03:21 PM
I hope nobody starts quoting the bible here.

The book or movie that explains it is "The Lord of the Flies"

drinker

lilith401's photo
Tue 04/15/08 03:21 PM

kids are what they learn to be from home.


That is just not true.

TheLonelyWalker's photo
Tue 04/15/08 03:21 PM

i am sure that if there were ""groups at your school...with a ruler to the back of their hands, the nuns would beat them into conformity:wink:

i got beaten so many times because of my behavior. But not because we were mean with each other.

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Tue 04/15/08 03:21 PM
Just look at every tv show, movie, video game, and even some songs.
Violence is the solution for everything.
Animals usually only kill when they or their territory are threatened, or to eat what they need.

Humans kill for giggles.indifferent

TheLonelyWalker's photo
Tue 04/15/08 03:22 PM

I hope nobody starts quoting the bible here.

The book or movie that explains it is "The Lord of the Flies"

drinker

not the proper forum, my friend

TheLonelyWalker's photo
Tue 04/15/08 03:22 PM


kids are what they learn to be from home.


That is just not true.

ur truth is not mine. that is the inherent beauty of free speech.

Etrain's photo
Tue 04/15/08 03:22 PM

i am sure that if there were ""groups at your school...with a ruler to the back of their hands, the nuns would beat them into conformity:wink:

human beings are the most cruel sadistic creatures ever created....if you stand in the room with a lion...you know whats coming. But a human, you never know

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 04/15/08 03:24 PM
Edited by MirrorMirror on Tue 04/15/08 03:26 PM


flowerforyou In their hearts, most people are basically evil.flowerforyou They just dont know it.flowerforyou


What about those of us that embrase it? devil
flowerforyou This is the first step flowerforyou A person must first realize that there is a problem before that person can fix it.flowerforyou A wise man must first learn that he is a fool flowerforyou

TheLonelyWalker's photo
Tue 04/15/08 03:24 PM


i am sure that if there were ""groups at your school...with a ruler to the back of their hands, the nuns would beat them into conformity:wink:

human beings are the most cruel sadistic creatures ever created....if you stand in the room with a lion...you know whats coming. But a human, you never know

a lot of true.
faces we see, hearts we don't know.

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Tue 04/15/08 03:24 PM

I hope nobody starts quoting the bible here.

The book or movie that explains it is "The Lord of the Flies"

drinker


"He who spareth the rod hateth his children."
More and more these days, we see why.

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