I have been friends with this girl since I was 14. Latly she has been
going threw some hard times and has stopped talking to me for quiet
awhile cause she did not want to hurt me. She just now re added me to
her MSN. And she is hurting. I care a great deal for her she is y best
friend but I do not know how to tell her that it is going to be ok. That
I am here for her. She is hurting and it pains me to see her that way.
If anybody can give me any advice at all it would be great I am thankful
for it all. Sorry if this is the wrong spot for this topic just did not
know were else to put it.

Just tell her what you just said :
"I care a great deal for her she is y best
friend but I do not know how to tell her that it is going to be ok. That
I am here for her. She is hurting and it pains me to see her that way. "

Thanks CC

Tell her exactly what you just mentioned to us.Cut right through the
chase gurl.You gals are close friends and she is crying out for help.
Be there for her now,she needs you.This love always comes back,it is
circular,remember that.This comfort.love,and advice is the key element
in a dear friendship.My advice,well I would not hesitate.Reach out and
comfort your friend now.No further delay is really
necessary.Godspeed!Cybear.

Hummm ya just follow your own advice on this one funny how after we
write it down how much better we would be if we just followed our own
advice lol

Ya a wise bear there you are Cybear.:)

HI every time i find a freind out here they get jeioules of me because i
am 40 years old and dont have to work it stincks i dont brag about it
but i have work hard to workhard to be able to get here i have work on
the ocean all my life and now i need a break form that life people are
people and you can not change them all you can do is change yourself.

best frends all ways fight but when you get back toghter you have alot
to talk about. like telling them about the bads times you had when you
needed some one to talk to

dizzy those kinds might say there your friend but if they get jealous
cause you have your life in order and don't have to work sorry those
kinds are not true friends anyway so move on from them and find ones
that like you for you !

it is hard to do in a small town where every body now your buiness

it is getting to the point that i dont even want to go out side or even
take a walk because no one even talks to you because you are differnt
well i am not rich but i just make my bills

dose enyone have any good adivce for a small town person that now is on
dry land when your used to being on the water but there is a canal near
by to jump in ha ha

Thank you all for your advice. It really means alot that there are
people willing to help.

Thank you all for your advice. It really means alot that there are
people willing to help.

Sometimes it is just best to listen

yes, sometimes listening is the best thing to do, and only telling that
person, as we listen, that is going to be okay!!
but listening is a very wise skill