I just started along distance relationship wit someone I met online,
its really hard, even though he calls everyday its just not the same as
being with him, we both live in the same state, about 3 hrs away by
train, my question iswill this last? do long distance relationships
work?

one question: DO YOU WANT IT TO LAST?

I personally hate long distance relationships but they can work if you
have trust and want it to work and three hours away is nothing.

Mac's right...and 3 hours is nothin try being a few dozen states
away..right Mac?

To me a distance relationship only works if both are making full effort
to be togather.Who wants to spend months kissing a phone.Thats only a
start to the long list!

Yes I want it to work, we both like each other alot, we are making plans
to hopfully move in wit each other maybe by the summer. You ahve been
very helpful thanks!

Well yes long distance relantionships are very hard to deal with both
have to be open minded enough to want it to work 100% but.... they both
have to realize in order it to work long term that one is gonna have to
be willing to move cause talking on the phone or by IM is all good but
it does not make up for holding that person in your arms ever nite as
you sleep. Dreams are just that Dreams you will have to make those dream
real. My self for the right one I would be willing but that is something
two people must consider who would it really be best to move it is a
hard decision. But I would not get into one that is not willing to try.
It is a give and take situation.

well said txs.

OO see Txs had a great answer!! YAY!!

ah well said Txs, I agree not all of will be fortunate enough to find
someone local, but all good risks usually pay off for the best!

LMAO who here has found some one local lol jk Silly But it is hard to
find what you are looking for in a relationship on this site because so
many do live far away But then again it how much you both want to put
into it.

No one can tell you if it'll work or not all depends on the two of you
:)

A three hour train ride is a breeze...
Even a drive under 4 hours is doable...We are all here because the local
dating scene is terrible...
Can it work, sure...if you are willing to really try...
Txs once again nailed it...

I might be able to nail it in words but just cant seem to nail one
myself lmao shsssssss

You both have to be commented to the relationship. And be sure to speak
your mind. He/she can't see your exspresstions or read your body
language. (just a helpful hit)