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Moondark Joined Tue 11/27/07 Posts: 5866	Sat 04/12/08 07:53 PM
So I have some friends I used to get together with often. I went home for Christmas and when I came back, I was out of the loop. I don't hear about any of the gatherings and get-togethers until after they happened. I used to be invited all the time, now I never get a message about anything that is going on. Found out they were moving out into a house only a few days before moving day. What happened to the friendships?

Italy0219 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 2523	Sat 04/12/08 07:55 PM
Hey don't sweat the small stuff, and it's all small stuff...hi moondark, only silly me..

Redsoxfan1 Joined Sat 12/29/07 Posts: 8388	Sat 04/12/08 07:56 PM
That's awful! I dont know what would've happened! maybe they were angry with you about something?

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 04/12/08 07:56 PM
I think its an Illuminati conspiracy.

EstrellaNegra Joined Wed 09/05/07 Posts: 239	Sat 04/12/08 07:57 PM
People grow up and grow apart. Life happens!

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 04/12/08 07:59 PM
The were replaced with clones

Moondark Joined Tue 11/27/07 Posts: 5866	Sat 04/12/08 08:00 PM
I don't know. I know that I didn't feel good at the Christmas party just before I left. I ended up flying home with the worst headache and sinus issues the day after that. I snapped at someone who was squeaking a rubber chicken in my ear. She was doing it on purpose, not two minutes after I asked someone to stop because I had a splitting headache. So the person whom I snapped at did deserve it. It wasn't like I totally chewed her out and made a big scene. And it isn't like she was one of my friends who have stopped telling about events. But that is the only thing I can think of that might have made anyone mad right before I left. So I really just don't have a clue.

moofooga Joined Thu 01/31/08 Posts: 25515	Sat 04/12/08 08:05 PM
If they're gonna give you the cold shoulder in such a manner, it would tell you that you weren't that much of a friend to them to begin with. So -at least in hindsight- it's probably a blessing in disguise. Probably. Just dust off your shoulders and get some more new friends. And tell the ones who alienated you to go screw.

James1234567 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 2589	Sat 04/12/08 08:38 PM


James1234567 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 2589	Sat 04/12/08 08:39 PM
hi estrella

angelinboots Joined Sun 03/02/08 Posts: 90	Sat 04/12/08 09:02 PM
There's great positives to being a woman: sensitive and able to read between the lines, but it's a two-edged sword. I hate to say it, but too often the men have it right...hormones. It's nature. Some women never outgrow letting their emotions rule them. I once worked on a ranch with a bunch of men. No gossip, no back-biting, no easily hurt feelings (and I was blessed that they were all gentlemen). Best bunch I have every worked with! On the other hand (sorry guys ), they were so transparent and clueless! Peace!

Rapunzel Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 16246	Sat 04/12/08 09:43 PM
If they're gonna give you the cold shoulder in such a manner, it would tell you that you weren't that much of a friend to them to begin with. So -at least in hindsight- it's probably a blessing in disguise. Probably. Just dust off your shoulders and get some more new friends. I AGREE

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Sat 04/12/08 09:44 PM Edited by Totage on Sat 04/12/08 09:45 PM
So I have some friends I used to get together with often. I went home for Christmas and when I came back, I was out of the loop. I don't hear about any of the gatherings and get-togethers until after they happened. I used to be invited all the time, now I never get a message about anything that is going on. Found out they were moving out into a house only a few days before moving day. What happened to the friendships? Happened to me once or twice.