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Then my suggestion to guys who can't back up their game is not to play.
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Edited by
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they have the right to talk to other people however they want. I had met a guy on here maybe like 10 days ago, and we were chatting, im'ing talked once on the phone and thats it. He asked if I could hang out tomorrow I said no, I have plans with friends and my friends are important to me. He then asked if we could this week but I work til almost 7:30 every night and he lives an hour away. So I told him weeknights weren't good. Well, he sent me a message back saying that i wasn't trying very hard and that no wonder guys didn't care anymore. So I said thanks for your understanding. Bye. He said bye, thanks for nothing. Why the hell do people think that simply because I met you here and chat with you a little bit that I OWE them something, anything?!!!!! I tried, but I told him upfront that I am really busy with my job and any free time I try to hang out with friends and do any errands. I want to meet someone but like I said I had only been chatting with him for like 10 days. It is such a turn off when guys are pushy to meet. Constantly hounding me to meet pretty much makes me not want to meet someone.  I want to meet you tomorrow at 7:30pm.  I demand it
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That's what happens if you even say hello to a guy....they think you are in love/lust with them...  
Really?  
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That's what happens if you even say hello to a guy....they think you are in love/lust with them...
Really?
You mean you don't love me?
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This guy didn't think doll... and aren't you glad he showed his true colors before you waisted 2 hours over coffee? exactly... online we can't always spot them ahead of time... so sometimes neediness and jerks come out over time or right away... better right away than after wasting your time. some of these guys wouldn't even approach us in person... they feel braver online.  I said SOME, not all guys
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Guess I just need to get my jerk radar off the shelf and dusted off.
I just hate that for some reason now I need to explain or defend myself to this person. Grrrrrrr. |
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Think about it, you are expediable to him as there are 100's of woman that are looking for love on this site, so he feels like he can say anything he wants and also because the internet is anonomyous, it makes it that much easier to say that...
If people have a hard day, they can come browse peoples profiles and down those on the site through email and generally it isn't worth a complaint... There you go, there's an explanation |
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This guy didn't think doll... and aren't you glad he showed his true colors before you waisted 2 hours over coffee? exactly... online we can't always spot them ahead of time... so sometimes neediness and jerks come out over time or right away... better right away than after wasting your time. some of these guys wouldn't even approach us in person... they feel braver online. I said SOME, not all guys
 
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Edited by
Totage
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Sat 04/12/08 02:45 PM
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Guess I just need to get my jerk radar off the shelf and dusted off. I just hate that for some reason now I need to explain or defend myself to this person. Grrrrrrr. No you don't have to explain anything.
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Stop with the explanations and start kicking! I'll let you borrow my whip of razors if you want!
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This guy didn't think doll... and aren't you glad he showed his true colors before you waisted 2 hours over coffee? exactly... online we can't always spot them ahead of time... so sometimes neediness and jerks come out over time or right away... better right away than after wasting your time. some of these guys wouldn't even approach us in person... they feel braver online. I said SOME, not all guys
thats the only one you are allowed to make.. you have met your quota |
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Well you better fire me now then,. I assure you I will make more
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That's what happens if you even say hello to a guy....they think you are in love/lust with them...
Really?
You mean you don't love me?
Of course I do! you know that!
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they have the right to talk to other people however they want. I had met a guy on here maybe like 10 days ago, and we were chatting, im'ing talked once on the phone and thats it. He asked if I could hang out tomorrow I said no, I have plans with friends and my friends are important to me. He then asked if we could this week but I work til almost 7:30 every night and he lives an hour away. So I told him weeknights weren't good. Well, he sent me a message back saying that i wasn't trying very hard and that no wonder guys didn't care anymore. So I said thanks for your understanding. Bye. He said bye, thanks for nothing. Why the hell do people think that simply because I met you here and chat with you a little bit that I OWE them something, anything?!!!!! I tried, but I told him upfront that I am really busy with my job and any free time I try to hang out with friends and do any errands. I want to meet someone but like I said I had only been chatting with him for like 10 days. It is such a turn off when guys are pushy to meet. Constantly hounding me to meet pretty much makes me not want to meet someone. I want to meet you tomorrow at 7:30pm. I demand it
Let her know who is in charge Mirror! 
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I know declare this thread offically.....
hijacked o_O |
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Guess I just need to get my jerk radar off the shelf and dusted off. I just hate that for some reason now I need to explain or defend myself to this person. Grrrrrrr. No need for that, just assume they all are jerks, until they prove themselves different....
don't ever defend yourself to someone like that.... Walk away. With your head high, knowing he's the one still wanting, and you have better things to do with your time. |
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Guess I just need to get my jerk radar off the shelf and dusted off. I just hate that for some reason now I need to explain or defend myself to this person. Grrrrrrr. No need for that, just assume they all are jerks, until they prove themselves different....
don't ever defend yourself to someone like that.... Walk away. With your head high, knowing he's the one still wanting, and you have better things to do with your time. HEY HEY HEY i'm no jerk! Umm....your a jerk!? lol |
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Guess I just need to get my jerk radar off the shelf and dusted off. I just hate that for some reason now I need to explain or defend myself to this person. Grrrrrrr. No need for that, just assume they all are jerks, until they prove themselves different....
don't ever defend yourself to someone like that.... Walk away. With your head high, knowing he's the one still wanting, and you have better things to do with your time. HEY HEY HEY i'm no jerk! Umm....your a jerk!? lol If your not a jerk that will show through. If you think I am one.... well, sometimes I am a jerk...
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Guess I just need to get my jerk radar off the shelf and dusted off. I just hate that for some reason now I need to explain or defend myself to this person. Grrrrrrr. No need for that, just assume they all are jerks, until they prove themselves different....
don't ever defend yourself to someone like that.... Walk away. With your head high, knowing he's the one still wanting, and you have better things to do with your time. HEY HEY HEY i'm no jerk! Umm....your a jerk!? lol If your not a jerk that will show through. If you think I am one.... well, sometimes I am a jerk...
Ha you admited it! But I'm totally not a jerk, i just tend to say the wrong things all the time XD |
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But I'm totally not a jerk, i just tend to say the wrong things all the time XD That's funny cuz I say all the right things at the wrong time.
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